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Is sending a wink lazy?

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By *otnew16 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dartford

Do fabbers prefer to get a message as a first contact? Or is a wink sufficient to begin with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every one is different, i dont even check my winks nowadays i dont delete them either then it means the person cant re wink me lol

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

IMO

Yes.

I don't look at winks and I don't send them either.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

winks are a step down from one line messages ..waste of time for us, but hay some people lov them as a first contact.

after you send the wink are you receiving a reply ??

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By *otnew16 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dartford

Only had one wink back so far!

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover


"Only had one wink back so far!"

one good depends how many you sent out , thats one more then many single guys get, did you follow it up with "do you want to fuk message" ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only had one wink back so far!"

Because so many people don't even look at them,

Wish there was an automated response option "This person doesn't accept winks" so senders knew they didn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are fine...

I check out the profile if I like...I wink back

If I don't...I won't

Simple

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By *otnew16 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dartford

No I am not that crude,they deleted their profile!!

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover


"No I am not that crude,they deleted their profile!!"

hi, its your profile and time so spend it as you like,

if i was you bored in Banbury ..would be looking at the meets and events, who's near app and change my postcode so i could read local updates.

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow


"Every one is different, i dont even check my winks nowadays i dont delete them either then it means the person cant re wink me lol"

Me too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never look at winks.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I would like the ability to turn off winks, for me they are a pointless feature.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Mine are just deleted

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By *otnew16 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dartford

Thanks for all your feedback everyone!

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now


"Do fabbers prefer to get a message as a first contact? Or is a wink sufficient to begin with?"

I am one of the many who don't even look at my winks, and would make this an opt-out feature, if I could.

As for whether winks work, I know it's double-standards, but I think it depends who is winking. For example, a bisexual single female probably gets a very good response if she winks at a couple, but a single male will find the vast majority of his winks are ignored - even by the people who are looking for single males. It's just supply and demand.... and the supply of single males is so great that you have to make much more of an effort.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Winks are fine...

I check out the profile if I like...I wink back

If I don't...I won't

Simple "

This is what we do.We have met and played with people as the result of a wink!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I bulk delete winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind winks as long as there is something substantive on someone's profile for me to look at and wink back on. However, guess it's different for single guys. Don't think we'd get inundated with winks as women and couples may do.

My profile I'd say is quite extensive and I have a variety of pics I'd like to think. My wink would be an expression of interest and if they like what they see, hopefully a wink back and I'd message.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"I bulk delete winks"

So do we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Winks are fine...

I check out the profile if I like...I wink back

If I don't...I won't

Simple "

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every one is different, i dont even check my winks nowadays i dont delete them either then it means the person cant re wink me lol"

Same here

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Completely harmless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes wink if a person has attracted my attention yet I simply don't have time to write any sort of message.

It is just a way to say "I looked at your profile and liked what I saw". I then add them to my hotlist and contact them next time I see we are both online.

I would be surprised if a wink ever resulted in a response - but just maybe, they will look at my profile and then teeny tiny maybe they will like what they see...

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By *hynot5642Man
over a year ago

Southampton

I see a wink as someone is interested, if you like their profile you can wink back or send a message.

The trouble with sending a message first off, you can spend time writing it ony to have it ignored.

If you were in a room and somebody kept looking it would indicate they may be interested and if you were too you would look back to show they interest you. So I see a wink as nothing different to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love the winks....send and receive. It's an instant quick way to see if there could possibly be a mutual attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always check out our winks. If we like the profile we might return the wink and/or drop them a message

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