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By *Y152 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Folkestone

Hi, I think it would be a good idea if we could somehow put a black mark or black list time wasters, liars and fakes to warn other couples from falling in to the same trap, as I'm sure many others like us who's time is precious have had liars and no shows

What do you think and how can we possibly improve this?

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By *heBlueEyedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Berkshire

One persons timewaster could be someone else's great meet. There's a report function I'm sure if someone gets reported a lot admin will suspend an account.

Unfortunately some throw the term around just because you turn them down for a meet or answer their messages easy to abuse a list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could have both. Met or didn't show and have a rating system. We have had more no shows than shows from single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I think it would be a good idea if we could somehow put a black mark or black list time wasters, liars and fakes to warn other couples from falling in to the same trap, as I'm sure many others like us who's time is precious have had liars and no shows

What do you think and how can we possibly improve this?"

This is raised continuously.

I could claim you wasted my time and you would have no way of refuting it.

If you find people wasting your time, use commonsense methods to avoid it happening.

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By *heBlueEyedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Berkshire

I've thought of an idea.

A function you can both select that a meets arranged beforehand and confirm after it's taken place, then be able to leave a verification

Doubt most would use it though.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I've thought of an idea.

A function you can both select that a meets arranged beforehand and confirm after it's taken place, then be able to leave a verification

Doubt most would use it though."

We don't 'meet' per se ... we chat, say where we are going to be (clubs) and then hopefully hook up, no pressure .... if we get on, its all good

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By *heBlueEyedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Berkshire


"I've thought of an idea.

A function you can both select that a meets arranged beforehand and confirm after it's taken place, then be able to leave a verification

Doubt most would use it though.

We don't 'meet' per se ... we chat, say where we are going to be (clubs) and then hopefully hook up, no pressure .... if we get on, its all good "

Yes I know lots meet via clubs and leave veri's, I never said it was a good idea just an idea

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By *Y152 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Folkestone

Good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I think it would be a good idea if we could somehow put a black mark or black list time wasters, liars and fakes to warn other couples from falling in to the same trap, as I'm sure many others like us who's time is precious have had liars and no shows

What do you think and how can we possibly improve this?

This is raised continuously.

I could claim you wasted my time and you would have no way of refuting it.

If you find people wasting your time, use commonsense methods to avoid it happening."

Would you care to share your knowledge of the common sense method that you presumably use to prevent a no show, when someone doesn't turn up to meet you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I think it would be a good idea if we could somehow put a black mark or black list time wasters, liars and fakes to warn other couples from falling in to the same trap, as I'm sure many others like us who's time is precious have had liars and no shows

What do you think and how can we possibly improve this?"

What's your definition of a time waster, liar and fake?

But in answer to your question, no. It's a truly terrible idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I think it would be a good idea if we could somehow put a black mark or black list time wasters, liars and fakes to warn other couples from falling in to the same trap, as I'm sure many others like us who's time is precious have had liars and no shows

What do you think and how can we possibly improve this?"

We arranged to meet but you totally let me down!! Not even a phonecall.. total timewaster.

Ok we havent actually ever spoke but see how easy it is to bad name someone??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any such system could and unfortunately would be abused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I think it would be a good idea if we could somehow put a black mark or black list time wasters, liars and fakes to warn other couples from falling in to the same trap, as I'm sure many others like us who's time is precious have had liars and no shows

What do you think and how can we possibly improve this?

This is raised continuously.

I could claim you wasted my time and you would have no way of refuting it.

If you find people wasting your time, use commonsense methods to avoid it happening.

Would you care to share your knowledge of the common sense method that you presumably use to prevent a no show, when someone doesn't turn up to meet you ?

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If the profile looks in anyway dubious, we avoid the person. If it looks OK, we arrange to speak on the telephone and we seek confirmation just prior to the arranged meet.

We have never had a no show.

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