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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have my settings so males or TV TS CD etc can't mail me as it's just not my thing at all, and I find it a bit unnerving to be honest and is one of the main reasons for me leaving last time. I still get views from them though. Is there any way I can hide my profile to certain other categories of Profiles? If not why not? Would seem a good idea. G

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

No there isn't a way to stop people viewing you profile although I am guessing the "undesirables" wish there was now

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I have my settings so males or TV TS CD etc can't mail me as it's just not my thing at all, and I find it a bit unnerving to be honest and is one of the main reasons for me leaving last time. I still get views from them though. Is there any way I can hide my profile to certain other categories of Profiles? If not why not? Would seem a good idea. G"
yea its prob best for u to leave again then.gay guys and tvs etc are just normal people looking for fun like you and i.man up for crying out loud they arnt looking to hunt u down and eat you haha.they are only looking just like u may look at profiles to discover that you arnt what a couple or female is looking for."undesirables" "unnerving "homophobic much .

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon


"No there isn't a way to stop people viewing you profile although I am guessing the "undesirables" wish there was now"

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon


"I have my settings so males or TV TS CD etc can't mail me as it's just not my thing at all, and I find it a bit unnerving to be honest and is one of the main reasons for me leaving last time. I still get views from them though. Is there any way I can hide my profile to certain other categories of Profiles? If not why not? Would seem a good idea. G"

Why does it bother you if theyre just looking?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"I have my settings so males or TV TS CD etc can't mail me as it's just not my thing at all, and I find it a bit unnerving to be honest and is one of the main reasons for me leaving last time. I still get views from them though. Is there any way I can hide my profile to certain other categories of Profiles? If not why not? Would seem a good idea. G

Why does it bother you if theyre just looking?"

Because he might catch the ghey, in fact he might have already caught it.

Tell us op, how many blokes have looked at your profile?

If it's more than five it's too late I am afraid, you'll be singing 'It's raining men' and watching Judy Garland films in no time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Undesirables".

One way not to stop people looking at your profile is to start a thread about it. Hope you appreciated me having a nose.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Nothing wrong with looking... PS. I'm straight and I won't be looking at your profile...

You have done it so that you have no mails to read.

Now your only option is to use the block button, search for locals then spread your search..

PS don't forget the straight men either, or the men pretending to be ladies, etc

Good luck OP.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"No there isn't a way to stop people viewing you profile although I am guessing the "undesirables" wish there was now"

You do have a way with words Ruggers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uh oh, youre infected with the gay now because men look at you. Quick, You better leave and start running. Does it really bother you that much? Not a big deal, unless you start looking at their profiles. Why would you make a topic concerning this? Sounds like you now want men looking at you. This is just another attention seeking waste of space. To get them to stop you have to block them. After you have blocked them, send them a message to tell them you are blocking them. That should do you good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No there isn't a way to stop people viewing you profile although I am guessing the "undesirables" wish there was now"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op don't go looking at our profile. We wouldn't want an undesirable with your attitude perving on us!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im glad OP has black shadow avatar...helps us'undesirables' make our minds up not to look at his profile in 1st place...as we would probably deem him to be undesirable too !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wrong choice of words OP

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am having a wee look too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No there isn't a way to stop people viewing you profile although I am guessing the "undesirables" wish there was now"

That's comedy gold right there Ruggers.

There's a chance you might win today's Internet with that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wrong choice of words OP

Kinky "

I think it's a perfect choice of words, the OP has really shown their true colours, as opposed to being a wolf in sheep's clothing, like many on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

96 of the last 100 profile views I've had were men.

Of the other 4, 2 were TV/TS

It's no big deal.

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

Torridge area of Devon

Why not just hide your profile, so no one can actually look at you, it then leaves it to you to make all the effort to message others. Not sure you will get very far doing it, but it is an option


"I have my settings so males or TV TS CD etc can't mail me as it's just not my thing at all, and I find it a bit unnerving to be honest and is one of the main reasons for me leaving last time. I still get views from them though. Is there any way I can hide my profile to certain other categories of Profiles? If not why not? Would seem a good idea. G"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame cos all my gay fella mates so want a piece of your arse. Wanking over you right now in fact

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

OP has hidden his profile

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"96 of the last 100 profile views I've had were men.

Of the other 4, 2 were TV/TS

It's no big deal. "

And i guess most of those who looked,did so after reading postings here,i do it.

Like Markoh says...no big deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with looking... PS. I'm straight and I won't be looking at your profile...

You have done it so that you have no mails to read.

Now your only option is to use the block button, search for locals then spread your search..

PS don't forget the straight men either, or the men pretending to be ladies, etc

Good luck OP. "

And don't forget every lady who isn't as bigoted as the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a grip, they're only looking at your profile. Hardly a big deal, not to mention you might be very undesirable for them!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP do you have a computer they can get into your house via?

That would be undesirable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is undesirable to one is very desirable to another

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By *eeowlsMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I'm thinking OP has just signed their fab suicide note and it will say user no longer on this site in the next couple of days oooppppssss

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon


"I have my settings so males or TV TS CD etc can't mail me as it's just not my thing at all, and I find it a bit unnerving to be honest and is one of the main reasons for me leaving last time. I still get views from them though. Is there any way I can hide my profile to certain other categories of Profiles? If not why not? Would seem a good idea. G

Why does it bother you if theyre just looking?

Because he might catch the ghey, in fact he might have already caught it.

Tell us op, how many blokes have looked at your profile?

If it's more than five it's too late I am afraid, you'll be singing 'It's raining men' and watching Judy Garland films in no time "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"96 of the last 100 profile views I've had were men.

Of the other 4, 2 were TV/TS

It's no big deal. "

I think some fellas think they're only allowed those 100 views though so all those men and tvs viewing his profile is depriving him the opportunity of being viewed by hot women. We must be stopped!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"96 of the last 100 profile views I've had were men.

Of the other 4, 2 were TV/TS

It's no big deal.

I think some fellas think they're only allowed those 100 views though so all those men and tvs viewing his profile is depriving him the opportunity of being viewed by hot women. We must be stopped! "

Some of the men that have viewed my profiled even had the audacity to Fab some of my pics.

How very dare they.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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How very dare they..... "

Gay dear...? Who dear...? Me dear...? No dear...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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How very dare they.....

Gay dear...? Who dear...? Me dear...? No dear...!"

In the words of Al Murray;

"I've never been confused."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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How very dare they.....

Gay dear...? Who dear...? Me dear...? No dear...!

In the words of Al Murray;

"I've never been confused."

"

Lol guess OP has never had a fruit based drink,for the Ladies ?

Just a pint...with the mem...although he did call all men 'undesirable'in original post just for looking at his profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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How very dare they.....

Gay dear...? Who dear...? Me dear...? No dear...!

In the words of Al Murray;

"I've never been confused."

Lol guess OP has never had a fruit based drink,for the Ladies ?

Just a pint...with the mem...although he did call all men 'undesirable'in original post just for looking at his profile"

Methinks the OP doth protesteth too much.....

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

Hi .. why not just set your filters as in not looking for single men tv's etc, when they will not show up on your who's looked at me list ..or in any of your searches ./.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi .. why not just set your filters as in not looking for single men tv's etc, when they will not show up on your who's looked at me list ..or in any of your searches ./. "

But that would be too easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For gods sake man, what's the problem with them looking at your profile? I'm a straight guy and happy to talk to anyone on this site that has manners. This is a lifestyle that needs an open mind and no predujist towards others, talk to others, they are human beings with feelings too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi .. why not just set your filters as in not looking for single men tv's etc, when they will not show up on your who's looked at me list ..or in any of your searches ./. "

I'm not sure that works. My filters are set to "not looking for single men", but that's pretty much the only group I get viewing my profile.

*goes to double check filters...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For gods sake man, what's the problem with them looking at your profile? I'm a straight guy and happy to talk to anyone on this site that has manners. This is a lifestyle that needs an open mind and no predujist towards others, talk to others, they are human beings with feelings too."

No no no...im gonna pull you up there Big Johnny S,were not 'human beings with feelings too'...for we are the 'undesirables'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For gods sake man, what's the problem with them looking at your profile? I'm a straight guy and happy to talk to anyone on this site that has manners. This is a lifestyle that needs an open mind and no predujist towards others, talk to others, they are human beings with feelings too.

No no no...im gonna pull you up there Big Johnny S,were not 'human beings with feelings too'...for we are the 'undesirables' "

We should all make a movie together - 'The Undesirables'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody undesirable rif raf coming on here looking at others profiles, how very dare they!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Jesus...why does it matter if people look ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you care if people look? You know sometimes bi men might see you in real life. What do you think is going to happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you care if people look? You know sometimes bi men might see you in real life. What do you think is going to happen? "

Its unnerving for the poor guy. OP, don't look back, you'll turn to stone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You clearly have some issues that need addressing OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As one of fabs most desirable undesirables I have no interest in looking at your profile op.

Perhaps you should stop looking at undesirables profiles and less of them would notice you..... just saying

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

Wonder how many undesirables look at you in stealth mode

Can I have your men that have looked at you

I just see woman/couples looking at me

Yet everybody is blocked,so don't know why I see them but not men

Peeking at profiles isn't a crime there suss in out the competition

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover


"Hi .. why not just set your filters as in not looking for single men tv's etc, when they will not show up on your who's looked at me list ..or in any of your searches ./.

I'm not sure that works. My filters are set to "not looking for single men", but that's pretty much the only group I get viewing my profile.

*goes to double check filters..."

after you block the the filters, go to edit account on account details unclick single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are only filters available for Male,Female,Couples(M/F),Couples(MM)Couples(FF),TV/TS...none for 'Undesirables'...so no wonder OP is concerned he is being looked at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are only filters available for Male,Female,Couples(M/F),Couples(MM)Couples(FF),TV/TS...none for 'Undesirables'...so no wonder OP is concerned he is being looked at "

I've just looked at him, just to freak the fuck out of him.

Do you think he'd lose his shit if I sent him a wink?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are only filters available for Male,Female,Couples(M/F),Couples(MM)Couples(FF),TV/TS...none for 'Undesirables'...so no wonder OP is concerned he is being looked at

I've just looked at him, just to freak the fuck out of him.

Do you think he'd lose his shit if I sent him a wink? "

I think maybe his lack of response means he's lying low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor choice in wording but I agree; would be handy if we could block males/females/etc from viewing profiles.

I have no interest in males, so there's no reason I'd want them viewing my profile, viewing my pictures or even fabbing my pictures. My block list made up of males who've repeatedly visited my profile.

Controversial for some (it shouldn't be for some reason it is) however it's my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be much easier for them to just remove the "who's looked at me" function. It's completely pointless. If someone has looked and is interested, they'll message you. If they've looked and haven't messaged or winked, they're not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it would be much easier for them to just remove the "who's looked at me" function. It's completely pointless. If someone has looked and is interested, they'll message you. If they've looked and haven't messaged or winked, they're not interested."

We have mixed feelings about the look at me function, but life has been much easier since we went into ninja mode.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine there are plenty of times when you're interacting on a forum where a variety of people will look at your profile. Not always because they might be physically interested. Perhaps just to see who you are when they're interacting with you.

Why is it that people assume because you've looked you're interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine there are plenty of times when you're interacting on a forum where a variety of people will look at your profile. Not always because they might be physically interested. Perhaps just to see who you are when they're interacting with you.

Why is it that people assume because you've looked you're interested? "

Narcissism? Desperation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine there are plenty of times when you're interacting on a forum where a variety of people will look at your profile. Not always because they might be physically interested. Perhaps just to see who you are when they're interacting with you.

Why is it that people assume because you've looked you're interested?

Narcissism? Desperation? "

Repeated profile views? Fabbing pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op don't go looking at our profile. We wouldn't want an undesirable with your attitude perving on us!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine there are plenty of times when you're interacting on a forum where a variety of people will look at your profile. Not always because they might be physically interested. Perhaps just to see who you are when they're interacting with you.

Why is it that people assume because you've looked you're interested?

Narcissism? Desperation?

Repeated profile views? Fabbing pics? "

Well isn't that what the block button is for? If it's the same person or people over and over that's bothering you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is if you block single guys from contacting you they don't show up on looked at me

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I imagine there are plenty of times when you're interacting on a forum where a variety of people will look at your profile. Not always because they might be physically interested. Perhaps just to see who you are when they're interacting with you.

Why is it that people assume because you've looked you're interested?

Narcissism? Desperation?

Repeated profile views? Fabbing pics?

Well isn't that what the block button is for? If it's the same person or people over and over that's bothering you."

Agreed. If anyone winks me and I don't like the look of them, I block. I don't bother looking at who has looked at me though .... its not relevant to anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thing is if you block single guys from contacting you they don't show up on looked at me "

Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I looked to see who's looked at me it was because of a thread that asked.

I never look usually. Or at winks. Or friend invites unless I've agreed to accept one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a similar vein, could anyone tell my wife and I why some people keep their profile hidden? We know it's a personnel choice thing but it seems to defeat the object of having one, unless we're missing something here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my settings so males or TV TS CD etc can't mail me as it's just not my thing at all, and I find it a bit unnerving to be honest and is one of the main reasons for me leaving last time. I still get views from them though. Is there any way I can hide my profile to certain other categories of Profiles? If not why not? Would seem a good idea. G

Why does it bother you if theyre just looking?"

Clearly worried about catching the "ghey" if too many look.

Actual result of the post likely to be just putting off the rest who are not so homophobic or judgmental.....expect an unlos soon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a similar vein, could anyone tell my wife and I why some people keep their profile hidden? We know it's a personnel choice thing but it seems to defeat the object of having one, unless we're missing something here.

"

Lots of reasons, but it's useful for taking a break from meeting, but you don't have to delete your profile and then start all over again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a similar vein, could anyone tell my wife and I why some people keep their profile hidden? We know it's a personnel choice thing but it seems to defeat the object of having one, unless we're missing something here.

"

If I don't want messages or to interact with anyone, or I'm logging off for a few days or going on holiday or something, it makes perfect sense to me to hide it.

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

If one of the reasons for you leaving the site the last time was through us 'undesirables' viewing your profile I hate to think what the other reasons were to be honest

On a personal note I find being referred to as such quite offensive!!

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By *ougar_n_TILFCouple
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

Sounds like the OP is a homophobic hate crime waiting to happen. Dread to think what would happen if a guy looked at him on the street.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my settings so males or TV TS CD etc can't mail me as it's just not my thing at all, and I find it a bit unnerving to be honest and is one of the main reasons for me leaving last time. I still get views from them though. Is there any way I can hide my profile to certain other categories of Profiles? If not why not? Would seem a good idea. G

Why does it bother you if theyre just looking?

Because he might catch the ghey, in fact he might have already caught it.

Tell us op, how many blokes have looked at your profile?

If it's more than five it's too late I am afraid, you'll be singing 'It's raining men' and watching Judy Garland films in no time "

Better to "catch the ghey" if you ask me. Once we both came out to one another our sex live has increased massively.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like the OP is a homophobic hate crime waiting to happen. Dread to think what would happen if a guy looked at him on the street. "

Yep.

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By *irty-milfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Of course his phrasing is poor but I can see where he is coming from.

Personally I would prefer if there was an option to block or remove people from the search engines who are clearly incompatible with what you are seeking.

It would save everyone a lot of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of straight guys that look at my profile or that i meet dont mention on their profile they are into tvts. Also some guys on their profile specify they are not into tvs and tss than the same guys are messaging me in private.what do they expect I am gonna say when I read that on their profile ha ?meet them?come on.lmao.

I asked this guy why he would write on his profile "I'm not into tvts,go else where if u are " ,his answer was he uses that as a decoy...wtf i blocked him and moved on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

although i think it would be a good thing to be able to block members of the same sex from viewing your profile.... just a thought.. im not racist or sexist by any means whatsoever.. but its what some members want in the lng run, they can always turn it back off if they want, just having the opton would be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We agree with this. We would love to stop all the "undesirable" single men from looking at our profile.......

{if you can't tell, we are being sarcastic}

If an option like this was made, Single men would just have something else to moan about...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care who reads, or views my profile - but I would like all the desirable women and MF couples to message me!

Lol, I'll even chat with some of the "undesirables" - I'm just so liberal and inclusive, lol!

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