FabSwingers.com forum: profile fabs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As a guy that doesn't really use pictures I rely heavily on my profile content, I think we should have a fab profile section similar to the fab pics. It would also maybe slow the rate my profile post in forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people dont read profiles though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know most don't and to be honest I couldn't care less about them, be there are some crackers out there and I think they deserve recognition for having a wonderful mind as much as some deserve it for their photos. Everyone harps on about wanting more than physical this would be a good reward for those that are and encourage others to put more thought and effort into theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people dont read profiles though"

And most won't bother to read a profile that has no photos, and certainly wouldn't meet without seeing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually look at pics and if interested then read profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To many single men saying they cpls or female etc That i kinda not mail unless photo. Never mind what profile says.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get meets without displaying anything other than profile, I tend to get on with the people I meet more. All guys have cocks and all girls have Boobs, the profile in my opinion is what set one apart from the other. I am not saying get rid of photos. I am suggesting that more emphasis should be put on a profile. I could never decide a meet from just a picture if I wanted it to repeat

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)

We have certainly noticed that many users fail to read our profile before contacting us with various inane messages.

It would be unfair to suggest that those messages normally come from single males, but we do often receive similarly obtuse messages from a single male posing as a couple or (dare we say it?) a single girl!

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I read the OP's profile (all the way to the end) and it's much more impressive and interesting than a cock pic and "fill in later"

It gives a real feel for who he is.. just wish he was in Ireland!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read OPs profile and have to say that the last line made me laugh out loud ... but don't just read them ! work your way through it.

Its worth the read even with the couple of typos ..... grins

Yes I know my profile is crap

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am sure a few typos could be forgiven in the grand scheme. The Las two comments on here kinda prove my point that the profile is a valid means of selling yourself and does get people interested in you. To the above comments about not having a picture, people can have pictures and a decent profile, I choose not to show mine unless asked and I am not asking you to judge me. The basics are that a well written profile increases the likelihood that you would find someone who is the right fit for you. I would never sleep with someone even if they were hot if they had a rubbish, just here for fun profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought, in parts it is quite aggressive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought, in parts it is quite aggressive"

I thought the same - quite aggressive & a little confrontational and I wouldn't feel entirely safe meeting you.

However, I do agree a well written profile is key & we won't meet anyone who doesn't have one, but same goes with photos. It makes me feel like they have something to hide as there are plenty of photos you can take without revealing your identity. After all, people are looking for sex & fun, not a long term partner so there needs to be a physical attraction too.

A 'complete' profile needs both IMO but if yours is working for you then great!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It comes out that way because its hard to hide things if you write a great deal of detail, if I had pictures posted you would have no idea as to my personality.

Again I am talking in general and not asking you to judge my profile, more the need to reward a good profile in kind as with pictures

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

"I usually look at pics and if interested then read profile "

Very much our train of thought and process.

Hence us having read your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is fabbing profiles can be irrelevant they can be changed so would the fab be for what was said

Loads of people would just be fabbing them without reading them anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Even I they changed the profile it would still be written by the same person.

As for idiots that would fab without reading you would hope, that most people would have ways and means of knowing eg write smitten in the subject bar. In most cases it is clear who hasn't read it.

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