FabSwingers.com forum: Messages read

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi everyone I'm fairly new here and joined on the recommendation of a female friend. My question really is aimed at the couples or ladies on here, I have sent about 8 messages out so far to people I liked the profile of, a couple were deleted straight away which obviously means not interested a couple still unread and the rest are read but no reply for nearly a week. I was wondering does that usually mean they might be interested and are thinking or just not interested and haven't deleted. I won't send extra messages as I think that would be pestering just interested really what you guys do. Thanks in advance x

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine after a week, they aren't interested. The best advice I could give is to delete your sent messages to prevent staring at them and wondering why you don't have replies. Most of all, don't repeat message if you're not getting a response, that can be seriously annoying. Happy swinging and best of British.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks highheels I think that is very good advice because I do keep looking lol x