FabSwingers.com forum: Separate replies and new messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

One idea I thought was to separate messages you receive into replies and new messages.

Hopefully it would make it easier to carry on conversations with your messages getting lost in the mire of new messages most women and couples get.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way we get round anything like this is by checking out sent messages and see if there has been a reply sent. Quick and easy, however it would be good to see some system changes such as this.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also have an option to halt messages from new senders when not online, this would help the ladies here, frankly I never send a message when not they're not online, waste of time.

By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

"Also have an option to halt messages from new senders when not online, this would help the ladies here, frankly I never send a message when not they're not online, waste of time."

I think exactly the opposite. When a man has read my profile, if he wants to suggest a meet, I expect him to send a message (regardless of whether I am online at the time or not). I hate the way that me being online triggers loads of messages. Receiving messages when I'm online is just one more task I am obliged to deal with, before I can spend time doing what I really want to do (looking at the forums, using the chatrooms or keeping in touch with old friends.)

And it gives me the impression that men think I must be feeling randy, so they might 'get lucky', just by being available. Nothing could be further from the truth. They've actually harmed their chances by approaching me when I'm busy doing something else on Fab.