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"Golden rule #101 Always talk (phone or cam)to the person you are going to meet. Either both/all pop in to cam chat on fab at an arranged time or if you have a 'play/meet mobile phone' chat on that. Safe and s out the fakes." Exactly!!! | |||
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"How do people manage to get up and dressed in the morning? Is it really so difficult to take responsibility? When I'm meeting, speak on the phone, meet in public place, let someone know where you are. Don't rely on the opinion of strangers, use your own common sense and gut feeling! Hardly rocket science is it? " This Meeting as a single fem can be dodgy. Do a phone call, skype or cam. If they refuse then move on. Really isn't that difficult. | |||
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"Putting it bluntly, cos they are sad arseholes.. Had a "On site 1yr+, no veris, no pics" contact us today with 'kik?" My response was "Send us a picture of you holding our user name on a piece of paper & we'll chat.." Message deleted in 2secs flst. Have also wasted time talking to a veried female & when I used reverse image search the photos appeared on a sleeping Fab account not used since 2013 & elsewhere online & yet this person was actually wanting to meet. I really don't like the implications of your friends predicament though and think those issuing fake series should have theirs removed at the least. S" Silly question ... But how did you do a reverse image search ? | |||
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"I would always be happy to Skype before a meet, and not being verified myself, I would kind of expect the other person to want this aswell. Altbough I'd want them to pre-warn me before the call, just so I could sort out my bed hair " Now where would be the fun in that plus nothing wrong with bed hair lol | |||
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"A mans profile came up on facebook with a womans name ??? " It works off the numbers not the name, happens for kik to when it links | |||
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"Okay so a mate on here I know. She only sees women. She was speaking to this "woman" and they arranged a meet. With the woman being very keen to meet. My mate thought it was a bit fishy so she asked if I could come along for her safety. The woman declined and said came with bullshit excuse why she didn't feel comfortable. I totally understood because women meeting women with a man is abit suspicious. Anyway I looked at "her" profile to see she had 3 green tick verifications 2 by meet and one by cam. Looked genuine but still did an investigation I put her number in Facebook and a mans profile came up. I was shocked and disappointed with the guy I wrote a stern message to him to delete this profile and be yourself before I report you. Gladly he did but what would have happened if my mate did actually meet this guy. So for me people verifying fake profiles. Why do you guys do it. It's unfair and putting a lot of people in danger" Surely common sense suggests that you rely on the content of the profile , not the verifications . | |||
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"I would always be happy to Skype before a meet, and not being verified myself, I would kind of expect the other person to want this aswell. Altbough I'd want them to pre-warn me before the call, just so I could sort out my bed hair Now where would be the fun in that plus nothing wrong with bed hair lol" There's two types of bed hair; The 'I've just had wild sex' kind, which is brilliant, and the 'I've just woken up from a 8 hour sleep' kind, which is hideous in my case. I'd like to get the first kind with you though | |||
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"Golden rule #101 Always talk (phone or cam)to the person you are going to meet. Either both/all pop in to cam chat on fab at an arranged time or if you have a 'play/meet mobile phone' chat on that. Safe and s out the fakes." I won't speak on the phone or cam to prove I'm genuine. Does that make me fake? | |||
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"I would always be happy to Skype before a meet, and not being verified myself, I would kind of expect the other person to want this aswell. Altbough I'd want them to pre-warn me before the call, just so I could sort out my bed hair Now where would be the fun in that plus nothing wrong with bed hair lol There's two types of bed hair; The 'I've just had wild sex' kind, which is brilliant, and the 'I've just woken up from a 8 hour sleep' kind, which is hideous in my case. I'd like to get the first kind with you though " Naughty u might get more then just had sex hair with me | |||
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"Golden rule #101 Always talk (phone or cam)to the person you are going to meet. Either both/all pop in to cam chat on fab at an arranged time or if you have a 'play/meet mobile phone' chat on that. Safe and s out the fakes. I won't speak on the phone or cam to prove I'm genuine. Does that make me fake?" Not at all I don't like talking on the phone as y should I give out personal information like that unless its to someone I am meeting so I can give them my address and directions etc thou I do cam but on my terms | |||
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"I would always be happy to Skype before a meet, and not being verified myself, I would kind of expect the other person to want this aswell. Altbough I'd want them to pre-warn me before the call, just so I could sort out my bed hair Now where would be the fun in that plus nothing wrong with bed hair lol There's two types of bed hair; The 'I've just had wild sex' kind, which is brilliant, and the 'I've just woken up from a 8 hour sleep' kind, which is hideous in my case. I'd like to get the first kind with you though Naughty u might get more then just had sex hair with me" Such as? Marks and scratches? Because if I don't get them from you, clearly I'm not doing it well enough | |||
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"I would always be happy to Skype before a meet, and not being verified myself, I would kind of expect the other person to want this aswell. Altbough I'd want them to pre-warn me before the call, just so I could sort out my bed hair Now where would be the fun in that plus nothing wrong with bed hair lol There's two types of bed hair; The 'I've just had wild sex' kind, which is brilliant, and the 'I've just woken up from a 8 hour sleep' kind, which is hideous in my case. I'd like to get the first kind with you though Naughty u might get more then just had sex hair with me Such as? Marks and scratches? Because if I don't get them from you, clearly I'm not doing it well enough " i was thinking more tying u up or spanking you | |||
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"I would always be happy to Skype before a meet, and not being verified myself, I would kind of expect the other person to want this aswell. Altbough I'd want them to pre-warn me before the call, just so I could sort out my bed hair Now where would be the fun in that plus nothing wrong with bed hair lol There's two types of bed hair; The 'I've just had wild sex' kind, which is brilliant, and the 'I've just woken up from a 8 hour sleep' kind, which is hideous in my case. I'd like to get the first kind with you though Naughty u might get more then just had sex hair with me Such as? Marks and scratches? Because if I don't get them from you, clearly I'm not doing it well enough i was thinking more tying u up or spanking you " Tying me up OR spanking me? Why not tie me up AND spank me?! Yes please | |||
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"I would always be happy to Skype before a meet, and not being verified myself, I would kind of expect the other person to want this aswell. Altbough I'd want them to pre-warn me before the call, just so I could sort out my bed hair Now where would be the fun in that plus nothing wrong with bed hair lol There's two types of bed hair; The 'I've just had wild sex' kind, which is brilliant, and the 'I've just woken up from a 8 hour sleep' kind, which is hideous in my case. I'd like to get the first kind with you though Naughty u might get more then just had sex hair with me Such as? Marks and scratches? Because if I don't get them from you, clearly I'm not doing it well enough i was thinking more tying u up or spanking you Tying me up OR spanking me? Why not tie me up AND spank me?! Yes please " you are a very naughty young man arent you | |||
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"I would always be happy to Skype before a meet, and not being verified myself, I would kind of expect the other person to want this aswell. Altbough I'd want them to pre-warn me before the call, just so I could sort out my bed hair Now where would be the fun in that plus nothing wrong with bed hair lol There's two types of bed hair; The 'I've just had wild sex' kind, which is brilliant, and the 'I've just woken up from a 8 hour sleep' kind, which is hideous in my case. I'd like to get the first kind with you though Naughty u might get more then just had sex hair with me Such as? Marks and scratches? Because if I don't get them from you, clearly I'm not doing it well enough i was thinking more tying u up or spanking you Tying me up OR spanking me? Why not tie me up AND spank me?! Yes please you are a very naughty young man arent you " You should probably take advantage of my naughtiness | |||
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"I would always be happy to Skype before a meet, and not being verified myself, I would kind of expect the other person to want this aswell. Altbough I'd want them to pre-warn me before the call, just so I could sort out my bed hair Now where would be the fun in that plus nothing wrong with bed hair lol There's two types of bed hair; The 'I've just had wild sex' kind, which is brilliant, and the 'I've just woken up from a 8 hour sleep' kind, which is hideous in my case. I'd like to get the first kind with you though Naughty u might get more then just had sex hair with me Such as? Marks and scratches? Because if I don't get them from you, clearly I'm not doing it well enough i was thinking more tying u up or spanking you Tying me up OR spanking me? Why not tie me up AND spank me?! Yes please you are a very naughty young man arent you You should probably take advantage of my naughtiness " Maybe I should | |||
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"I would always be happy to Skype before a meet, and not being verified myself, I would kind of expect the other person to want this aswell. Altbough I'd want them to pre-warn me before the call, just so I could sort out my bed hair Now where would be the fun in that plus nothing wrong with bed hair lol There's two types of bed hair; The 'I've just had wild sex' kind, which is brilliant, and the 'I've just woken up from a 8 hour sleep' kind, which is hideous in my case. I'd like to get the first kind with you though Naughty u might get more then just had sex hair with me Such as? Marks and scratches? Because if I don't get them from you, clearly I'm not doing it well enough i was thinking more tying u up or spanking you Tying me up OR spanking me? Why not tie me up AND spank me?! Yes please you are a very naughty young man arent you You should probably take advantage of my naughtiness Maybe I should " Shame I can't message you really | |||
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"I would always be happy to Skype before a meet, and not being verified myself, I would kind of expect the other person to want this aswell. Altbough I'd want them to pre-warn me before the call, just so I could sort out my bed hair Now where would be the fun in that plus nothing wrong with bed hair lol There's two types of bed hair; The 'I've just had wild sex' kind, which is brilliant, and the 'I've just woken up from a 8 hour sleep' kind, which is hideous in my case. I'd like to get the first kind with you though Naughty u might get more then just had sex hair with me Such as? Marks and scratches? Because if I don't get them from you, clearly I'm not doing it well enough i was thinking more tying u up or spanking you Tying me up OR spanking me? Why not tie me up AND spank me?! Yes please you are a very naughty young man arent you You should probably take advantage of my naughtiness Maybe I should Shame I can't message you really " its my cursed filters | |||
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"Okay so a mate on here I know. She only sees women. She was speaking to this "woman" and they arranged a meet. With the woman being very keen to meet. My mate thought it was a bit fishy so she asked if I could come along for her safety. The woman declined and said came with bullshit excuse why she didn't feel comfortable. I totally understood because women meeting women with a man is abit suspicious. Anyway I looked at "her" profile to see she had 3 green tick verifications 2 by meet and one by cam. Looked genuine but still did an investigation I put her number in Facebook and a mans profile came up. I was shocked and disappointed with the guy I wrote a stern message to him to delete this profile and be yourself before I report you. Gladly he did but what would have happened if my mate did actually meet this guy. So for me people verifying fake profiles. Why do you guys do it. It's unfair and putting a lot of people in danger" Good luck with this one.. I got slated when I mentioned veris etc last time | |||
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"I would always be happy to Skype before a meet, and not being verified myself, I would kind of expect the other person to want this aswell. Altbough I'd want them to pre-warn me before the call, just so I could sort out my bed hair Now where would be the fun in that plus nothing wrong with bed hair lol There's two types of bed hair; The 'I've just had wild sex' kind, which is brilliant, and the 'I've just woken up from a 8 hour sleep' kind, which is hideous in my case. I'd like to get the first kind with you though Naughty u might get more then just had sex hair with me Such as? Marks and scratches? Because if I don't get them from you, clearly I'm not doing it well enough i was thinking more tying u up or spanking you Tying me up OR spanking me? Why not tie me up AND spank me?! Yes please you are a very naughty young man arent you You should probably take advantage of my naughtiness Maybe I should Shame I can't message you really its my cursed filters " I know! And now you've winked at me! Such a tease! | |||
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"I would always be happy to Skype before a meet, and not being verified myself, I would kind of expect the other person to want this aswell. Altbough I'd want them to pre-warn me before the call, just so I could sort out my bed hair Now where would be the fun in that plus nothing wrong with bed hair lol There's two types of bed hair; The 'I've just had wild sex' kind, which is brilliant, and the 'I've just woken up from a 8 hour sleep' kind, which is hideous in my case. I'd like to get the first kind with you though Naughty u might get more then just had sex hair with me Such as? Marks and scratches? Because if I don't get them from you, clearly I'm not doing it well enough i was thinking more tying u up or spanking you Tying me up OR spanking me? Why not tie me up AND spank me?! Yes please you are a very naughty young man arent you You should probably take advantage of my naughtiness Maybe I should Shame I can't message you really its my cursed filters I know! And now you've winked at me! Such a tease! " dont say ur not enjoying it young man | |||
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"Must be very disappointing when two verified blokes turn up for a meet,each expecting the other to be a woman " i That would actually be hilarious | |||
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"I would always be happy to Skype before a meet, and not being verified myself, I would kind of expect the other person to want this aswell. Altbough I'd want them to pre-warn me before the call, just so I could sort out my bed hair Now where would be the fun in that plus nothing wrong with bed hair lol There's two types of bed hair; The 'I've just had wild sex' kind, which is brilliant, and the 'I've just woken up from a 8 hour sleep' kind, which is hideous in my case. I'd like to get the first kind with you though Naughty u might get more then just had sex hair with me Such as? Marks and scratches? Because if I don't get them from you, clearly I'm not doing it well enough i was thinking more tying u up or spanking you Tying me up OR spanking me? Why not tie me up AND spank me?! Yes please you are a very naughty young man arent you You should probably take advantage of my naughtiness Maybe I should Shame I can't message you really its my cursed filters I know! And now you've winked at me! Such a tease! dont say ur not enjoying it young man " Will you two please get a room????? Lol! You can message HIM you know?? Just sayin! | |||
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"I would always be happy to Skype before a meet, and not being verified myself, I would kind of expect the other person to want this aswell. Altbough I'd want them to pre-warn me before the call, just so I could sort out my bed hair Now where would be the fun in that plus nothing wrong with bed hair lol There's two types of bed hair; The 'I've just had wild sex' kind, which is brilliant, and the 'I've just woken up from a 8 hour sleep' kind, which is hideous in my case. I'd like to get the first kind with you though Naughty u might get more then just had sex hair with me Such as? Marks and scratches? Because if I don't get them from you, clearly I'm not doing it well enough i was thinking more tying u up or spanking you Tying me up OR spanking me? Why not tie me up AND spank me?! Yes please you are a very naughty young man arent you You should probably take advantage of my naughtiness Maybe I should Shame I can't message you really its my cursed filters I know! And now you've winked at me! Such a tease! dont say ur not enjoying it young man Will you two please get a room????? Lol! You can message HIM you know?? Just sayin! " lol i know but its more fun this way | |||
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"Okay so a mate on here I know. She only sees women. She was speaking to this "woman" and they arranged a meet. With the woman being very keen to meet. My mate thought it was a bit fishy so she asked if I could come along for her safety. The woman declined and said came with bullshit excuse why she didn't feel comfortable. I totally understood because women meeting women with a man is abit suspicious. Anyway I looked at "her" profile to see she had 3 green tick verifications 2 by meet and one by cam. Looked genuine but still did an investigation I put her number in Facebook and a mans profile came up. I was shocked and disappointed with the guy I wrote a stern message to him to delete this profile and be yourself before I report you. Gladly he did but what would have happened if my mate did actually meet this guy. So for me people verifying fake profiles. Why do you guys do it. It's unfair and putting a lot of people in danger" You should have turned up and called yourself Lucy from FAB! | |||
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"I've had a few people ask me to verify them after just chatting. I'm not prepared to do it as they could be anyone and I'm not willing to vouch for someone I don't know and have never met. I tend to report and not engage with them anymore. It really defeats the object of the verification system. " people need to do more of this. It's sickening at the least. We're potentially putting people's lives at risk here | |||
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"I've had a few people ask me to verify them after just chatting. I'm not prepared to do it as they could be anyone and I'm not willing to vouch for someone I don't know and have never met. I tend to report and not engage with them anymore. It really defeats the object of the verification system. people need to do more of this. It's sickening at the least. We're potentially putting people's lives at risk here" Most definitely. Same as if I meet someone at an event I host and they behave rude and disrespectful to people I wont give them a verification. Why would I verify someone who is rude and disrespectful to people? It just leaves it open for them to behave the same way to others. | |||
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"I have done all the above chatted in chat on phone checked veris and veris veris and still turned up at a public place to meet a lady only to find they have disappeared of fab and stood me up and worse still as it was a public park I was getting weird looks so now I only meet people I have met at parties " You must be choosing some right wrong uns ! | |||
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"I've had a few people ask me to verify them after just chatting. I'm not prepared to do it as they could be anyone and I'm not willing to vouch for someone I don't know and have never met. I tend to report and not engage with them anymore. It really defeats the object of the verification system. people need to do more of this. It's sickening at the least. We're potentially putting people's lives at risk here Most definitely. Same as if I meet someone at an event I host and they behave rude and disrespectful to people I wont give them a verification. Why would I verify someone who is rude and disrespectful to people? It just leaves it open for them to behave the same way to others." I would. I would leave them a veri being truthful. And see if they put it on their profile. If they don't people would ask why aren't you showing veris. They will always be caught out or be found suspicious | |||
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"I've had a few people ask me to verify them after just chatting. I'm not prepared to do it as they could be anyone and I'm not willing to vouch for someone I don't know and have never met. I tend to report and not engage with them anymore. It really defeats the object of the verification system. people need to do more of this. It's sickening at the least. We're potentially putting people's lives at risk here Most definitely. Same as if I meet someone at an event I host and they behave rude and disrespectful to people I wont give them a verification. Why would I verify someone who is rude and disrespectful to people? It just leaves it open for them to behave the same way to others. I would. I would leave them a veri being truthful. And see if they put it on their profile. If they don't people would ask why aren't you showing veris. They will always be caught out or be found suspicious " Doesn't really work though, because they could just say whoever verified them has left the site. | |||
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"We had this idea but post ended up about our use of caps ffs Ok so we all know that this question has been done to death and there is no answer photo verification and meet verifications are easy to get around. However there are members on here that are above suspicion long term members clubs event Organisers after a review these profiles should be given a gold tick then in turn those profiles give a silver tick when they verify. Also normal photo verifications its all to easy to get someone stand with a hand written sign You should have to photograph your driving licence or other photo I'd so the two can be cross matched. Sitting here waiting to have these ideas pulled apart lol" and as was stated in the other thread noone would do such a thing and you was told there is actually tools in place you can use you know like filters and gut instinct but you pulled those appart like everyone supposedly pulled your ideas apart so pot kettle | |||
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