FabSwingers.com forum: Hotlists

By *DD1E OP Man
over a year ago

sea

Hi there,

On our own profiles we can add people to our hotlist, is there any chance there could also be a button that we can click on, on our profiles to see whos hotlist WE are on?

99% of the time winks are pretty usless, if we had a page where we could see who had taken a shine to us it might start to break down barriers and show that there is initial mutal attraction there in the first place.

What do others think and more importantly what do you think admin....another genius tool in your amour?

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

"Hi there,

On our own profiles we can add people to our hotlist, is there any chance there could also be a button that we can click on, on our profiles to see whos hotlist WE are on?

What do others think and more importantly what do you think admin....another genius tool in your amour?

surely if they were interested then they would have been in contact already?

we often use the hotlist to track profiles we've reported as fake (so can see easily if admin have changed them from couple to single).. so wouldn't want other peeps to know they're no our hotlist thanks

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

ps.. if you use the forum search function co positive this has been asked before and general response was negative

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By *DD1E OP Man
over a year ago

sea

There are alot of people out there who don't contact for one reason or another, maybe an opt in or out button would be the way to go.

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By *utty tartWoman
over a year ago

the house of sin

idlike to know whose hotlist imon

mind u im a nosey cow

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

If you're on someone's hotlist, they probably look at your profile fairly regularly. Maybe use that as an indication?

Secondly - given the number of people who appear to message people at the slightest thing, isn't there a risk that some (too many) would use being added to a hotlist as effectively a wink... "Hi, thanks for adding me to your hotlist, I'm free to fuck you now as it happens"

Finally...who says being on someone's hotlist is a good thing? It may be their "not list"....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're on someone's hotlist, they probably look at your profile fairly regularly. Maybe use that as an indication?

Finally...who says being on someone's hotlist is a good thing? It may be their "not list"....

*Nods agreement*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also nodding in agreement

Plus I use my hotlist as my NOT list

I don't like to block people unless it's for a VERY good reason (only three in two years) but if someone has offensive they end up on my "not list" so I don't want them thinking I think they are hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it has not list, mod list (to see if other mods are online if I need advice), people I have reported list and many other lists to be honest.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I use mine to hotlist people before I block.

their 'updates' usually make me chuckle and reaffirm the block was well made

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By *utty tartWoman
over a year ago

the house of sin

"I use it has not list, mod list (to see if other mods are online if I need advice), people I have reported list and many other lists to be honest.

S. "

i use itt also to find a mod if im in chat n need a mod quikly

in fact steve i thinkit were u told me to add a fewmods to hotlist so i can findum quikly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Hotlist can be used for a variety of things, for hot profiles, suspect profiles and profiles that you can't believe but just have to keep looking at.

So perhaps its not always a good idea to know who has you on their Hotlist, much less why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my friends list and I use my hotlist for organising parties and socials great way to keep them seperate. And great way to organise parties and a list of those who show up so if you organising a gang bang this is a great tip.

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

Am I the only person to use it as a list of people I find hot?

As my time is limited and I don't send a blanket cut-n-paste email I don't contact people en masse, so when I stumble across a profile that interests me I add it to my hotlist.

If I do contact people but get a "thanks but fook off" reply then I remove them from my hotlist.

I don't use it as a "not list" to spy on people I dislike... for a start I don't really care about profiles of people I don't like and I've no intention of meeting, but if I did then I'd use the block list for that, as I think that seems a much more logical thing to do.

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

Oh, I got so carried away that I forgot to say... I'd be happy to see this idea implemented - perhaps as a "subscribers only" benefit, like the Looked At Me feature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would it be possible to disable it like the "Looked at Me" feature?

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I use hotlists as a hot list for my favourites - I can click on it and see if any are online/ in chat. I like it for that. I wouldn't mind seeing it the other way. One site I'm on had the 2-way favourites listing, but now only shows your favourites, not who has you as a favourite..

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I don't want anyone knowing who is on my perve/hotlist

Im not interested in seeing if im on anyones either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't want anyone knowing who is on my perve/hotlist

Im not interested in seeing if im on anyones either"

i absolutely agree. my hotlist is more of a notlist, a funnylist or a maybelist!

if this was implemented id want to be able to opt out, like with the looked at me facility.

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