FabSwingers.com forum: Fake suggestion

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why not charge everyone to join the site as there are so many Fakes and Fake profiles on here that just waste decent peoples time.

We understand it must be a nightmare to police but surely making it a paying site would out the dodgy ones.

The site is growing so fast with everyone and there granny jumping onboard for free it makes it so much harder for the real decent people to communicate.

S & S xxx

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

Disagree

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can only assume you are not a site supporter.

Why else would you disagree???

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"Can only assume you are not a site supporter.

Why else would you disagree???

As you no doubt looked and found out - I am a Site Supporter and have been since it came in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a site supporter and i disagree.

There used to be fakes on a pay site I was on a few years back. What are you going to charge to make it unattractive to pay out? Think about the money some people are willing to spend on a porn collection or lapdancing and for some, they seek similar thrills off sites like this and are happy to pay for the privilege.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

Gold all the time too, I might add!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gold all the time too, I might add!

Show off

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"Gold all the time too, I might add!

Show off

Well being Gold gives me lots more "extras" to waste my time on here with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gold all the time too, I might add!

Show off

Well being Gold gives me lots more "extras" to waste my time on here with

I thought gold just had the extra cams to silver? Oooh what else?

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"Gold all the time too, I might add!

Show off

Well being Gold gives me lots more "extras" to waste my time on here with

I thought gold just had the extra cams to silver? Oooh what else? "

The new pics gallery feature is another good "waste of my time"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gold all the time too, I might add!

Show off

Well being Gold gives me lots more "extras" to waste my time on here with

I thought gold just had the extra cams to silver? Oooh what else?

The new pics gallery feature is another good "waste of my time"

Ah but I get that as silver also

for longer...and I have to agree, they're ace!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"Gold all the time too, I might add!

Show off

Well being Gold gives me lots more "extras" to waste my time on here with

I thought gold just had the extra cams to silver? Oooh what else?

The new pics gallery feature is another good "waste of my time"

Ah but I get that as silver also

for longer...and I have to agree, they're ace! "

mmmmmm - I will now need to go and look at what I get as "extras" on Gold then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gold all the time too, I might add!

Show off

Well being Gold gives me lots more "extras" to waste my time on here with

I thought gold just had the extra cams to silver? Oooh what else?

The new pics gallery feature is another good "waste of my time"

Ah but I get that as silver also

for longer...and I have to agree, they're ace!

mmmmmm - I will now need to go and look at what I get as "extras" on Gold then

You do get to uploads more pics and you get to dock extra cams but I'm an impoverished dog owner so I had to go for silver (world's smallest violin...)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah, so I blocked you so you post our emails - it'll get wiped and if you think I'm going to be imtimidated by that - how little you do know me!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

WoW - Thats one thing that isnt allowed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Childish really and as I was perfectly polite, says more about them than anyone else. Sweet though that my words have such impact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew that

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"I knew that

It was just for clarity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I knew that

It was just for clarity

Anyway, shouldn't I be sobbing into my pillow somewhere? x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We never named or shamed anyone.

But we are the subject of attack from people that dont agree with us .

But everyone is entitled to an opinion.

After all it was just a suggestion.

and some people dont aggree but thats no cause for intimidation or Afghanistan whats that all about??

The point was eradicating fakes LOL xxx

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

Posting the contents of PMs on the forums is not allowed whether it names the sender of the mail or not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually I feel that you attacked me with the email you started and then your post. It is you who have tried to intimidate me into agreeing with you. I was the one posting - very politely - to your OP.

Your message to me before posting our emails was a clear threat, most unpleasant and totally out of tone with the site.

But your actions here speak for themselves so I shall not reply further. Admin will be in touch.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

ok, getting back on topic.....

this site, unlike some pay sites I could mention, gives its users numerous ways and means of showing that they are genuine.

Furthermore there are plenty of things you can do yourself to put your mind at rest as to whether someone is genuine or not - admitedly everone has their own methodology snd it takes a bit of trial and error to begin with to develop one, but fundamentally, if you are consistently being bothered by people you consider to be fakes then its as much up to you to figure out what it is you are doing wrong and deal with it as it is for the site owners to go on a witch hunt or fundamentally change the Fab ethos.

Fakes, timewasters, or whatever you want to call them are a fact of internet life everywhere and not just here and I can't see that changing - so it would ore sense to change your attitude towards them and find your own way of dealing with it than it would to try and change the world.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

just to add to what I said above.

There's another smaller site that I'm a member of, and despite being a pay-site still has its fair share of fake profiles etc.

The difference is that as a pay-site, the site admin are far less inclined to ban fakes or discipline bad behaviour as they don't want to lose the revenue. There are several profiles on there that are well known to the site regulars as being less than genuine or just general bad eggs, but because they still continue to stump up the monthly fee the site owners don't do anything about it.

As the owners of Fab don't have that consideration to worry about, they have carte blanche to take very swift and decisive action against anyone found to be an undesirable element in any way shape or form - and they very often do.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"We never named or shamed anyone.

But we are the subject of attack from people that dont agree with us .

But everyone is entitled to an opinion.

After all it was just a suggestion.

and some people dont aggree but thats no cause for intimidation or Afghanistan whats that all about??

The point was eradicating fakes LOL xxx

Posting contents of private messages is not allowed on this forum

The clue is in the word private

To say that you hav'nt named and shamed is ridiculous as anyone reading this thread could see exactly who those messages were to and from and you yourself made that more than clear

This is a requirement to being allowed to post on here

I could see no "attack" only a difference of opinion and that is not an attack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Posting the contents of PMs on the forums is not allowed whether it names the sender of the mail or not!

Not wishing to start a row but there is no rule about posting pms on here see rules at top of page

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I am pasting an answer on this thread that was posted by Admin when it was asked was it a rule.

*******We don't have an exhaustive list of do's and don'ts because it would be exhausting to produce!

We do rely on a wee bit of common sense. I'm pretty sure most of us on here would be upset if private mails we sent got posted on a public forum. That's why it's not ok (and usually results in a permanent forum ban).

Please try to remember that the forums are meant to be a bit of light hearted fun not a place to air dirty laundry

Admin x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very wise word maybe this should on the top of the page for everyone to see.These type of posts end up lost and new members never see them unless some brings the subject up.

Thank you for that and i retract my previous comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

New Forum Post

Please note the forum rules before posting:

Don't badmouth other members or "name and shame": If you have a problem with another member, block them and leave feedback using "Report Profile" link on their profile

Don't post phone numbers

Do not use the forum to try and contact people who have BLOCKED you

Don't promote commercial services or websites: Anyone spamming the forums will be removed from the site.

Can anyone explain please where it says it’s against site rules to post P.m.’s in a forum???

We wish we had never Posted anything as it was our first and most certainly our last Post ever on the forums as this is just getting out of hand.

A simple comment been made to look like a Mountain.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I am pasting an answer on this thread that was posted by Admin when it was asked was it a rule.

*******We don't have an exhaustive list of do's and don'ts because it would be exhausting to produce!

Please try to remember that the forums are meant to be a bit of light hearted fun not a place to air dirty laundry

Admin x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Please be a bit morerelevant to our question "where are the forum posting rules"???

We also have pasted them for all to see.

But no one has pointed out where in these rules does it say "Dont Post Pm's"

We have been criticised for doing something we didnt know was wrong as its not written in the rules.

We are new to the forums bearing in mind This was our first post so why dont the regular people on here not try and advise and help us instead of criticising us???

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"Please be a bit morerelevant to our question "where are the forum posting rules"???

We also have pasted them for all to see.

But no one has pointed out where in these rules does it say "Dont Post Pm's"

We have been criticised for doing something we didnt know was wrong as its not written in the rules.

We are new to the forums bearing in mind This was our first post so why dont the regular people on here not try and advise and help us instead of criticising us???"

I will give you a wee bit of advice on using the forums for free

If you click on the green arrow next to a persons username (when they post in the forums), you can see the last 25 threads they have commented on or started (if they have got to 25 that is) so it's easy to see what a newbie to the forums first post actually was!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Please be a bit morerelevant to our question "where are the forum posting rules"???

We also have pasted them for all to see.

But no one has pointed out where in these rules does it say "Dont Post Pm's"

We have been criticised for doing something we didnt know was wrong as its not written in the rules.

We are new to the forums bearing in mind This was our first post so why dont the regular people on here not try and advise and help us instead of criticising us???"

Your question about pasting mails and how there isn't an exhaustive list of rules is answered by Admin in the post I pasted.

The rest of the rules are shown before you post.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry but as you will see from your advice this was our first post.

And we are still not in agreement about your answer as it does not clearly mention anything about posting Pm's.

You can rant all evening about exhaustive list of rules.

But you fail to show us where it says it.

No point in ranting about threads.

If its against the site rules then it would say it CLEARLY.

Sorry it dont say that unless I am blind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen more fakes on pay sites then I have on here. Moaning about it and naming and shaming isn't going to help. It's the age of the internet where anyone can be who they want to.

I'm Gloria a 6ft supermodel that swallows like a Hoover.

Now am I real or fake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a list of rules before you post it's in blank and White for all to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Black I mean doh

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"Sorry but as you will see from your advice this was our first post.

I won't mention the "Support Our Troops" thread then!

Another wee bit of advice, again for free as I am in a generous mood - Posts also have time stamps of when they were posted.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Sorry but as you will see from your advice this was our first post.

And we are still not in agreement about your answer as it does not clearly mention anything about posting Pm's.

You can rant all evening about exhaustive list of rules.

But you fail to show us where it says it.

No point in ranting about threads.

If its against the site rules then it would say it CLEARLY.

Sorry it dont say that unless I am blind."

I will paste it again where it says you are not allowed to post PM's, you won't find it on the list of rules, but it does explain that in Admins post.

*******We don't have an exhaustive list of do's and don'ts because it would be exhausting to produce!

Please try to remember that the forums are meant to be a bit of light hearted fun not a place to air dirty laundry

Admin x

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I don't rant....I am trying to let you know why you were reminded that PM's are not allowed to be pasted onto the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We can see that but you also dont point out where it says its against site rules to post Pm's surely they would have let us know if we had breached their rules???

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"We can see that but you also dont point out where it says its against site rules to post Pm's surely they would have let us know if we had breached their rules???"

If you read my post you will see it says it isn't in the set of rules as Admin says they don't want an exhaustive set of rules.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

OK we will spell it out WHERE IS THE ADMINS POST ON FORUM RULES PLEASE

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

Anyone got a paracetomol? My head hurts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's already explained

Bangs head against wall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone got a paracetomol? My head hurts!

You stole my line you bugger

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"OK we will spell it out WHERE IS THE ADMINS POST ON FORUM RULES PLEASE"

I pasted it above ....and as you are getting aggresive this is my last post.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"Anyone got a paracetomol? My head hurts!

You stole my line you bugger"

Sorry, I just have quick fingers lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone got a paracetomol? My head hurts!

You stole my line you bugger

Sorry, I just have quick fingers lol x"

Probably a quicker brain too

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"Anyone got a paracetomol? My head hurts!

You stole my line you bugger

Sorry, I just have quick fingers lol x

Probably a quicker brain too "

I would never say such a thing, it might be against site rules

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

OK lovely people that are trying to help us but we cant see it.

We Surrender and you nice people will never ever see us on the forums again.

We will just stick to chatting or whatever.

Please understand we are reasonable people and never thought a post would cause so much pain and aggro.

Surely some of you guys must have made mistakes when you first started posting.

Sorry for any inconvenience caused by us as it was never meant.

S & S xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but your question was answered by admin no ones been rude and still you can't see we are trying to help you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not charge everyone to join the site as there are so many Fakes "

Simple ...

Fakes, Dreamers, Idiots, Twats and arseholes also have money ...

You just have to join any of the paying sites to find that out

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By *j_markCouple
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over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

"Why not charge everyone to join the site as there are so many Fakes and Fake profiles on here that just waste decent peoples time.

We understand it must be a nightmare to police but surely making it a paying site would out the dodgy ones.

The site is growing so fast with everyone and there granny jumping onboard for free it makes it so much harder for the real decent people to communicate.

S & S xxx

Just block non-site supporters on your message filters page...

http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

...And don't contact non-site supporters, and the site works pretty much as you want already.

Admin x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi SJ_Mark Thankyou very very Much for your Kind Help It is appreciated.

And will do as you suggest right now.

Thanks again

S & S xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just to add to what I said above.

There's another smaller site that I'm a member of, and despite being a pay-site still has its fair share of fake profiles etc.

but they dont ban anyway afterall numbers members are still money .... value of buisness increases with member numbers look at facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Admin do activly remove and block people from the site on a daily basis but they (in fairness to all) have to have proof that they have either broken rules or are fakes or otherwise not wanted on the site.

Just cos you and I may think someone is a fake doesn't mean they are.

I have seen people come in chat, fem profile, lovely pics so much so it's almost too good to be true. First thoughts were deff fakes but several weeks later we see them on can or even meet them in person.

If you think that some profiles are a certain fake, should be very easy to skip by them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Admin do activly remove and block people from the site on a daily basis but they (in fairness to all) have to have proof that they have either broken rules or are fakes or otherwise not wanted on the site.

Just cos you and I may think someone is a fake doesn't mean they are.

If you think that some profiles are a certain fake, should be very easy to skip by them.

S. "

What if you know that a couple of profiles are not the people in the pictures there is a couple of profiles near Lincs who have loads of pics on profile but each picture is different males. With different size tackIe, one with one without skin have reported these 2 guys as I know of one to be vile rude and aggressive. I would hate anyone having a bad experience. Reported it over a year ago...... There still on

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