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Date of meet/cam for veri's

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am new to the site, and so a veri was left for me yesterday, for a meet that happened in December.

Because the date of the veri was yesterday, a guy I had been chatting to got upset because they thought I had met the person then. (I had said I couldn't meet anyone at the weekend).

After telling me I am 'full of sh*t' the guy has now blocked me, which is quite frankly his loss... But I guess this must happen to others too?!

Could there be an option to add the date of the actual meet/cam?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask the person to write date when writing veri x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had guys be like this in the past they think you are theyre property least you found out what he was like before meeting him... just ask the person leaving the veri to put a date on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had this aswell guys stropping like children and calling me a liar etc

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

lucky escape i think.. good luck on fab take your time looking loads of nice people to meet , if you are upset by any message please report to admin.. connie x

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Lucky escape I think :

Guy was obviously thinking he had some sort of entitlement to "own" you.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

Very silly childish behaviour from the guy you were chatting with. Does he really think that all verifications are done the day of/day after the meet? I have verified people after open socials, sometimes several days after the social. If he is so silly and childish, you have lost nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone x

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I am new to the site, and so a veri was left for me yesterday, for a meet that happened in December.

Because the date of the veri was yesterday, a guy I had been chatting to got upset because they thought I had met the person then. (I had said I couldn't meet anyone at the weekend).

After telling me I am 'full of sh*t' the guy has now blocked me, which is quite frankly his loss... But I guess this must happen to others too?!

Could there be an option to add the date of the actual meet/cam?"

This would be a good idea but yes to add the date in the veri when writing it as has been suggested, would be helpful too, to avoid this kind of thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even with a couple of message exchanges some guys think that we're their property and,get a strop re, delayed or,non return of messages.

Good job you didn't meet him.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Saved by the bell methinks. What a jerk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even with a couple of message exchanges some guys think that we're their property and,get a strop re, delayed or,non return of messages.

Good job you didn't meet him.

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It happens with women too...especially if you actually meet them....I found the problem worse with younger women to be fair.....so I stopped meeting any under 25.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the same problem too, and I haven't been on here that long.

You're a person, not a possession.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had the same problem too, and I haven't been on here that long.

You're a person, not a possession."

Exactly that!! It wouldn't be so bad if there had been weeks of chatting, or even a meet. But it was literally a couple of days of chat and a FaceTime call.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Lucky escape I think :

Guy was obviously thinking he had some sort of entitlement to "own" you."

I agree with this OP, what date a veri is left or relates to is your business and no one else's. If anything, giving the date of the meet I perceive could do more harm than good as its giving ammunition to those that could inadvertently take issue.

Leave things as is, if anyone doesn't like it then they know where to go.

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By *ommy88Man
over a year ago

bolton

I can't see why people strop...haven't had a meet in a few months but spoke to some incredible people. People need to grow up as we're all meant to be adults or so I thought. T x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had this aswell guys stropping like children and calling me a liar etc "

It's not just men....I'vehad both women and couples do the same. Its quite common on here.

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