FabSwingers.com forum: no shows

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

whats the point in reporting time waisters when all admin do is block that person from seeing your profile. and yes iv checked that is all they have dune he is still on the site the meet was arranged for a week he was online a hour before the planned meet time and no message and no show. no wounder this site is full of fakes if admin just leave them on hear. he has veris and has met us before but a no show is a no show and that makes him a time waister right ? if he hadnt have been online a hour before i would say different but he was so im not.mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think a no-show in this context defines the guy a prolific time waster.

What could admin do? Tell him off for changing his mind?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Clearly u don't think letting someone know your not coming is the decent thing to do he said he was coming before the day. He was a time waister and it's not the first time he has dune it there's been a few statuses about him locally not showing up

"I don't think a no-show in this context defines the guy a prolific time waster.

What could admin do? Tell him off for changing his mind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If youd seen statuses warning of him then why did you arrange to meet him? Id have stayed well clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clearly u don't think letting someone know your not coming is the decent thing to do he said he was coming before the day. He was a time waister and it's not the first time he has dune it there's been a few statuses about him locally not showing up

I don't think a no-show in this context defines the guy a prolific time waster.

What could admin do? Tell him off for changing his mind?

So you are your own tine waster for planning to meet someone that you already know doesn't show up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think a no-show in this context defines the guy a prolific time waster.

What could admin do? Tell him off for changing his mind?

If we'd not heard anything from them on the day, I'd pretty much take that as a 'no longer interested'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Because he has shown up for us before

"If youd seen statuses warning of him then why did you arrange to meet him? Id have stayed well clear"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because he has shown up for us before

If youd seen statuses warning of him then why did you arrange to meet him? Id have stayed well clear"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because he has shown up for us before

If youd seen statuses warning of him then why did you arrange to meet him? Id have stayed well clear"

Fair point. Perhaps he changed his mind. It was very rude of him not to let you know. Think of it as a lucky escape.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well yes meet was arranged for half 8 and he was online at 7is because we checked he hadnt messaged to cancel so he could have had the decency we would have but my point is admin seem to think it's OK for him to stay and waist people's time like that in my opinion that's bad on the site

"Because he has shown up for us before

If youd seen statuses warning of him then why did you arrange to meet him? Id have stayed well clear

Fair point. Perhaps he changed his mind. It was very rude of him not to let you know. Think of it as a lucky escape. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If he had changed his mind fair enough were all entitled to but a message at least saying I'm not coming would have been the decent thing that's all I'm saying

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

You know for certain he was logged in? I keep the site as a tab. I've been told I'm logged in, when I really wasn't. So either automatically connecting to wifi is showing me as logging in or my phone is having more perv time than I get

It didn't happen for what ever reason. Let it go and get on with good things

dwelling on negatives isn't going to help or make you feel better

If he pms for a repeat just decline politely... take the high road

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Nothing to stop people setting up new profiles even if they do get blocked by admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well yes meet was arranged for half 8 and he was online at 7is because we checked he hadnt messaged to cancel so he could have had the decency we would have but my point is admin seem to think it's OK for him to stay and waist people's time like that in my opinion that's bad on the site

Because he has shown up for us before

If youd seen statuses warning of him then why did you arrange to meet him? Id have stayed well clear

Fair point. Perhaps he changed his mind. It was very rude of him not to let you know. Think of it as a lucky escape. "

I think Admin keep a check on all reports like thise. If they get enough evidence they boot people off the site.

They just don't boot people off at the first report as people may lie. (Not saying you are lying.)

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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