FabSwingers.com forum: What features/options would you like?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you could add any new features here what would you have?

Extra search options like height, body type, penis size etc

On the forum maybe an option to edit your posts instead of just deleting the whole thing and writing another should you make a mistake, to be able to upload a picture to the forum.

What other features would you like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you could add any new features here what would you have?

Extra search options like height, body type, penis size etc

On the forum maybe an option to edit your posts instead of just deleting the whole thing and writing another should you make a mistake, to be able to upload a picture to the forum.

What other features would you like?"

Best posted in the feedback section. The site does listen to requests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height search and improved messaging capability are my top two. It does seem odd that they capture height but then you can't search by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. To give the filter options more options, like stop men from winking, but still get msgs from them as I chat on the forum via different subjects.

2. If a woman in your area joins it should be in red colour so it stands out and you wont miss emailing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish the messaging system on here operated bit more like emails. I hate constantly losing messages then having to just delete loads to find old ones.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

search by height would be good.

anyone can verify you out of your age ranges but i've seen why they don't do that so get why they don't allow it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you could add any new features here what would you have?

Extra search options like height, body type, penis size etc

On the forum maybe an option to edit your posts instead of just deleting the whole thing and writing another should you make a mistake, to be able to upload a picture to the forum.

What other features would you like?

Best posted in the feedback section. The site does listen to requests."

Too many badwidths to implement what I'd like added (the pictures to the forums) This is a general discussion not what I'm asking the site to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mute button on the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you could add any new features here what would you have?

Extra search options like height, body type, penis size etc

On the forum maybe an option to edit your posts instead of just deleting the whole thing and writing another should you make a mistake, to be able to upload a picture to the forum.

What other features would you like?"

All of the above - and I'd completely change the verification process!

All it currently proves is that people exist, that they've met people and that they're a man, woman /couple.

Lost count of the number of people I've met at clubs and parties who are a lot larger/older than their pictures - but they get away with it because if anyone DID mention it in a verification they'd simply choose not to display it!

Personally I think it should like a trip advisor star rating and anonymous unless you want to add a comment!

Basically it should confirm that you turned up on time, were able to hold a conversation and actually looked like your pictures!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A mute button on the forum

Like chat then if you block someone in the chat room I think it stops you seeing what they've written.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

'utterly gifted - doesn't mind lazing it and heating the temperature up sloooowly' section please.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

It's fine save for the messaging thing.

Keep it as it is for the cheapskates, better flow and set up for site supporters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A mute button on the forum

Like chat then if you block someone in the chat room I think it stops you seeing what they've written. "

Yep that's the idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instafuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

An automatic reply like a signature that you can personalise to send when you delete a message for example, thanks for messaging me but after looking at your profile I don't think we're compatible. Then after you've used that automatic response the recipient can not send any further messages to your mailbox off their account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) make forum rules easily visible on the mobile site as per the full site

2) sticky threads in forums

3) ability to report a picture easily on mobile site

4) complete revamp of messaging system

5) updated FAQ's

6) improved two way contact when issues arise

7) up to date forum software

8) more comprehensive search criteria

9) better policing of photo uploads

10) free cookies for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you could add any new features here what would you have?

Extra search options like height, body type, penis size etc

On the forum maybe an option to edit your posts instead of just deleting the whole thing and writing another should you make a mistake, to be able to upload a picture to the forum.

What other features would you like?

All of the above - and I'd completely change the verification process!

All it currently proves is that people exist, that they've met people and that they're a man, woman /couple.

Personally I think it should like a trip advisor star rating and anonymous unless you want to add a comment!

Basically it should confirm that you turned up on time, were able to hold a conversation and actually looked like your pictures! "

I think we have all fell foul to the 'that's not you in that picture?!?

' moments, hopefully not been one. I myself wouldn't want to be rated, like a pizza, meal out or a hotel stay?

. Any kind of verification method would be open to abuse, and who's wanting to police such a thing, when admin have an abundance of other gripes to deal with, on here.

I'd like to be able to opt out of showing online, as the amount of emails generated, even with iron clad filters, is beyond a joke. Or better still a disclaimer to wanten men that the little dot doesn't mean down to fuck!....they're like moths to a flame.

A height filter as well as search would be nice, just for those that only see in pictures and not words.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"An automatic reply like a signature that you can personalise to send when you delete a message for example, thanks for messaging me but after looking at your profile I don't think we're compatible. Then after you've used that automatic response the recipient can not send any further messages to your mailbox off their account. "

That is like the much quoted 'aff' site. It is such a stagnant and almost hostile environment to even navigate who is real nevermind gain a reply. Having automated 'bot like' functions are quite insipid and ineffective.

The function exists on here right now. If you dont like someone messaging you - block them. You don't even have to waste your energy in giving a reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"1) make forum rules easily visible on the mobile site as per the full site

2) sticky threads in forums

3) ability to report a picture easily on mobile site

4) complete revamp of messaging system

5) updated FAQ's

6) improved two way contact when issues arise

7) up to date forum software

8) more comprehensive search criteria

9) better policing of photo uploads

10) free cookies for everyone"

Yeah two way communication between admin and users would be nice maybe a warning system instead of instant bans/time outs.

Stickies would be another good option for the forum, things like been here ages can't get a meet blah blah blah, they could be at the top.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wish the messaging system on here operated bit more like emails. I hate constantly losing messages then having to just delete loads to find old ones.

-Courtney"

So instead of 3, 4 or more seperate messages from someone they all go into one message?

Would make your box tidier.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

To be able to block people in the forum, so you don't have to see the shit they write. I'm quite good at skipping over them sometimes you've read it before you realize

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I am defiantly the person in my photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be able to block people in the forum, so you don't have to see the shit they write. I'm quite good at skipping over them sometimes you've read it before you realize"
Yes, that is a good one

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A county based search option rather than a regional one.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

A page selection option for the emails on here. Its stupid you only have one page of emails and have to delete new ones to get to older ones that maybe on the next page.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"A mute button on the forum

Like chat then if you block someone in the chat room I think it stops you seeing what they've written. "

That could make threads look very disjointed though with lots of people who blocked each other making random posts or repeating what posters have already said on a thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A mute button on the forum

Like chat then if you block someone in the chat room I think it stops you seeing what they've written.

That could make threads look very disjointed though with lots of people who blocked each other making random posts or repeating what posters have already said on a thread? "

With the amount of forum users who don't like each other the threads would become indecipherable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pages for messages. It's a pain in the arse deleting mails to get to the ones that have dropped off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A mute button on the forum

Like chat then if you block someone in the chat room I think it stops you seeing what they've written.

That could make threads look very disjointed though with lots of people who blocked each other making random posts or repeating what posters have already said on a thread? "

That happens anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A page selection option for the emails on here. Its stupid you only have one page of emails and have to delete new ones to get to older ones that maybe on the next page. "

Whoops!! I should have read the entire thread before commenting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What about being able to upload a picture to the forum, is this something people would like?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

The club review section needs a complete overhaul. Clubs should be marked on cleanliness, value, atmosphere, choice of porn, and so on, not on whether someone has a bad night or not. Instead of 'fabulous, fun, OK, avoid', maybe there should be 'great, good, OK, not for us'.

Body type should also be changed. WTF is fabulous? Gorgeous? Fatter than ample? Who knows? Slim, average, large etc would be more appropriate, especially for the blokes. 'Curvy' is not an option that most blokes should have to choose from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about being able to upload a picture to the forum, is this something people would like? "

No not particularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have time stamps in the chat room on the left side so you know what time everyone was typing something, its big in other chat rooms.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"To be able to block people in the forum, so you don't have to see the shit they write. I'm quite good at skipping over them sometimes you've read it before you realize"

There are some smug folk whose self servicing and arse licking drivel I'd prefer not see but would make threads a tad confusing.

Would make me do this

less though

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"1) make forum rules easily visible on the mobile site as per the full site

2) sticky threads in forums

3) ability to report a picture easily on mobile site

4) complete revamp of messaging system

5) updated FAQ's

6) improved two way contact when issues arise

7) up to date forum software

8) more comprehensive search criteria

9) better policing of photo uploads

10) free cookies for everyone"

Add show I've been online but not that I am online.

An icon to show I'm on the forum not looking at my inbox.

Auto go to the last post I read within each thread or a 'watch this thread/post'

& scrap the sent message folder altogether

That status recognises the "&" symbol and well this is the only site that can not comprehend half my phones basic keyboard

Hearts, stars etc are common on most sites but this one either ignores it or replaces it with "?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I forgot number 11) a proper dating system across the site rather than 'over a year'

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Some great suggestions already. I would like to be able to block people in a specific geographic area from being able to see my profile.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"I forgot number 11) a proper dating system across the site rather than 'over a year'"

No ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I forgot number 11) a proper dating system across the site rather than 'over a year'

No ta "

Really! How come?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I forgot number 11) a proper dating system across the site rather than 'over a year'"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Search with body size option would save lits of time.

Also TV/TS thing. Although I'm not looking to have meets with any, I think it's odd that they are one category but blatantly, 2 completely different groups of people.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

When I write a private note, a symbol could appear on the profile which would remind me to check what I have written about the other person previously.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

"When I write a private note, a symbol could appear on the profile which would remind me to check what I have written about the other person previously."

That's already there. It's a little notepad symbol alongside the other ones.

I'd like a "This line of chat breaks the chatroom rules" button, for a 1-click way to report people when there is no chatroom moderator in the room.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

A height filter please

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I'd like a "This line of chat breaks the chatroom rules" button, for a 1-click way to report people when there is no chatroom moderator in the room."

That's clever +1 from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something like a thumbs up thumbs down section, with a short comment box

Fed up replying to adds asking for details pics and say they genuine, then after ya send all they ask for they either delete without a no thanks or don't even read message, also something because so many people posts meets daily but never meet anyone and never any verifications to show, maybe when people add a meet should be a automatic delete if they don't check in on meet every 24 hours.

That would probably stop those who post meet then go offline and don't come back till days later after meet was set.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

1, a word search engine for the forums.

2, more chatroom mods for the non

directing rooms with a longer time out.

3, photo;s unique to fab , so if any found anywhere on the web instant delete off fab.

4, sticky posts... for the " why can i not get a meet" forums.

5, search box in advanced browse for gold / silver site members

thanks..connie xx

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"The club review section needs a complete overhaul. Clubs should be marked on cleanliness, value, atmosphere, choice of porn, and so on, not on whether someone has a bad night or not. Instead of 'fabulous, fun, OK, avoid', maybe there should be 'great, good, OK, not for us'.

Definitely.

Though I would maybe suggest a star rating system for clubs for specific criteria, plus a short comment section.

I think there should be some different body type options that are specific for that gender - men / women / TV etc.

Men should not be able to choose curvy

Nita

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I also struggle to understand why there is no "Gender" field for couples. Sometimes it is not easy to figure out which set of stats belong to whom.

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

Probably just reiterating what others have said, a better sizing option, what the heck is fabulous why not BBW that seems acceptable, how about petite, & what about curvy men? the list goes on. Improve the locations they cover too big an area, please make them more relevant to our location when searching.

Also like us & countless others a no thanks function, which prevents people from contacting you more than once if you've already told them they're not for us. Could also be used as a way of us filtering people who are not suited to us & saves us looking at unnecessary profiles & updates, similar to blocking but nicer. Also the ability to tell whether we blocked people or they blocked us & why without undoing the block & checking any notes we made. Yes I know a block might be for ever but circumstances change.

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

One other thing that's really annoying is searching for people by username. For example we meet somebody in a club we make a mental note of their id, but when we go to search if it's not 100% correct it won't find them, it might be a dot or dash missing or 1 letter wrong can we not have a list of close matches to improve our chances?

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Another site (vanilla dating) let's you set a minimum length of a few hundred characters for initial messages.

Doesn't stop people sending messages with loads of gobbledegook, but easy to see and block.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Tough one i know this one.. like a review page.. should be anle to review someone in a slightly different way... after reading on forums alot of users are fedup of time wasters... should be a way in a safe, controlled, verified manner to say this person wanted to meet up and didnt turn up... would think twice then about wasting peoples time.

Mot sure how this would work but would help the "timewasters" big issue we have on fab

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By *WELSHCAKExWoman
over a year ago

Caerphilly

For me, I would really like to see who has me on their hotlist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you could add any new features here what would you have?

Extra search options like height, body type, penis size etc

On the forum maybe an option to edit your posts instead of just deleting the whole thing and writing another should you make a mistake, to be able to upload a picture to the forum.

What other features would you like?

All of the above - and I'd completely change the verification process!

All it currently proves is that people exist, that they've met people and that they're a man, woman /couple.

Personally I think it should like a trip advisor star rating and anonymous unless you want to add a comment!

Basically it should confirm that you turned up on time, were able to hold a conversation and actually looked like your pictures! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those little dudes down there....

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These guys

. I wish they were further apart, when mobile. I know we like skin on skin here but they are near sat on each others laps

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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago

Warrington & Glasgow

"One other thing that's really annoying is searching for people by username. For example we meet somebody in a club we make a mental note of their id, but when we go to search if it's not 100% correct it won't find them, it might be a dot or dash missing or 1 letter wrong can we not have a list of close matches to improve our chances?"
Are you aware that you can use the '*' wildcard character in the Name Search? So "*snow*" would find both "Snowball" and "shagusnow"!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Tough one i know this one.. like a review page.. should be anle to review someone in a slightly different way... after reading on forums alot of users are fedup of time wasters... should be a way in a safe, controlled, verified manner to say this person wanted to meet up and didnt turn up... would think twice then about wasting peoples time.

Mot sure how this would work but would help the "timewasters" big issue we have on fab"

You can report them

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I would love the option to really leave fab quite alone. It works very well in the open layout that it is in. Everybody can see everybody and if if someone doesn't like somebody - they can simply block that somebody.

It it really a good, simple, non-corporate layout that lets people interact. It lets people use their intelligence and look quite openly at the people they are wanting to meet whether you pay for site membership or not.

There are no other sites (or at least very few others) that offer such a good, honest, open, forum to communicate with people in such a way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

+1 for improved messages! Conversations grouped and listed by threads, rather than individual messages by most recent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As mentioned, County instead of regional searches. Being Oxfordshire sometimes Midlands is closer, sometimes its south East!

Further breaking down of CD, TV and TS options so each is seperate. There's a big difference between a completed TS and a CD but searching doesn't currently reflect that.

Also including a photo filter for groups,mff/mmf etc. Even if it was just f, m, mm,ff, mf,TV/ts and group.

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By *rojanKMan
over a year ago

Thetford

I would love to be able to see video clips that people could post

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By *aidForSharingWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Ooh being able to unblock someone without having to scroll through literally thousands to find them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TG should be separate from tv/cd

Better search criteria eg: height, penis size, safesex/bareback,

Large,curvy,slim remove fabulous as some use describing beautiful and some use to mean very very large.

Lastly the meets section should be ??mile radius rather than area. 20 miles from my home in London can take absolute hours

20 miles from home in Northampton half hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a free site it has always been the best for me. (7 years since I joined) has changed very little in that time.

Would welcome short videos to be uploaded for sure. Also to have you age limits settable for M C F and T.V as mine is

M-25

C-45

F-50

Tv-30 and makes my update feed a serious hassle and searching people.

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By *ajandroseMan
over a year ago

tamworth

??????

Sadly I think won't happen , as it looks better for site , if it shows more members , and you lk get the usual cliched responses against this . Eg delete and move on , says it's ok not to reply , why should we brigade lol etc , when in reality it makes perfect sense to do this ,as it filters out who wants to meet with whom , and vice versa .

Just our tuppence worth .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This may or may not have been mentioned as the thread too big to check lol

Alongside the FabD Pic link how about an ooober fabd link for those extra special pics out there

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

"Those little dudes down there....

These guys

. I wish they were further apart, when mobile. I know we like skin on skin here but they are near sat on each others laps

only allow one per message..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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"I also struggle to understand why there is no "Gender" field for couples. Sometimes it is not easy to figure out which set of stats belong to whom."

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Without a photo it is very hard to know whether 'curvy' (like 'fabulous') is just another way of saying 'a bit plump' (i.e. curves in the wrong places) or 'elegantly curved but slim-ish'. Both terms need to be defined or replaced with something more meaningful.

And I too have difficulty sometimes knowing which of a couple is the man and which the woman. This should be clarified and made consistent. At present I make a guess that the taller party is the man, but that could be wrong.

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

Isn't the man usually first in real life, so why shouldn't they be first on Fab lol!! Seriously though it shouldn't be a lottery working out who's the male or female if the couple don't tell us in the profile? We know many couples where the female is the taller, so don't use height in our guessing game. So much ambiguity on here which could easily be fixed. To the lovely people of Fab we have seen many changes of late please can the profile specifics also be improved, this would only be of benefit to EVERYBODY!! Thanks.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"This may or may not have been mentioned as the thread too big to check lol

Alongside the FabD Pic link how about an ooober fabd link for those extra special pics out there "

They just get more fabs

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Ability to delete messages page by page

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relationship status with tv x we have MF FF MM F M but not TVF or TVM or TVTV. It's like tvs don't have relationships x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Definitely threaded messages the most important. Aside from ideas mentioned I'd like a little symbol for those open to a relationship (or not), the ability to appear offline, plus some way of marking threads to keep an eye on them or relegate those of no interest whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be able to put my location as Gran Canaria Spain, and not Gran Canadia West Midlands.

I'm fed of explaining where I am to numpty's who don't read my profile!

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By *hropsbicdTV/TS
over a year ago

wirral

A much better distance search, one that doesnt show people 5 miles as the crow flies when they are the other side of a river I have to travel 20 to reach.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so we have more specific search criteria how about if you're looking for males you have ethnicity, age, height, hair colour, tattoos, penis size which would be 5" and under, 6"to 6.5" 7" to 7.5" 8" to 8.5" 9"+ body type which would be slim/athletic, rugby player, body builder, average, few extra pounds, very large (welcome better suggestions) for women ethnicity, age, height, hair colour, tattoos, bra size body type athletic, slim, average, curvy/ample, BBW.

Maybe a search by profession for those that want to disclose it for example armed forces, uniform professions, wouldn't be a must but if people wish to disclose it they can be searched on it.

Looking for criteria could be relationship, dating, friend with benefits, NSA, hard/soft swing, group sex/gangbangs.

Private messaging would have all the messages off one person contained in one message like an email. Option to edit your own automatic response when you delete a message which stops that person from sending another message to you.

All new profiles would have a message upon joining stating that their account will be deleted within 7 days if no picture is uploaded, a picture set to friends only would be acceptable if they are concerned about privacy, a brief description will be given as to why a profile without a picture will not get any success.

Profile features could be ability to view profiles in stealth mode which we already have, wouldn't be able to hide online as it looks better for the site to show members online but it could say status like checking messages, in forums, already have the symbol to show in chat room.

For the forum, stickies at the top of each sub forum for most popular questions, why can't I get a meet etc etc, ability to edit your post instead of deleting and starting again. Ability to upload a picture, ability to hide posts from other members if you block them. A warning from mods/admin instead of an instant timeout, better feedback when you question a mods decision. A likes system so you can like a post instead of having to quote it with a

A better club rating system, with maybe a star rating for cleanliness, atmosphere, or anything else you'd score it on (I don't go to clubs so don't know what options to use)

Anything else?

Also when can these features be added?

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

Wow SW that's quite a list!! As to the profession option, it's well known men love women in uniform & vice versa. Now how many police, nurses, fire people & soldiers are genuinely on Fab atm, if you had a profession tick box how many more do you think there would be, get my drift?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In club rating could be a rating based on clientele.. Ie. Excellent, clicky , etc.

Maybe a comment on the behavior of single men Or other people... Ie overly d*unken couples??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id like a delete friends thing where you can tick the box and mass delete much easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also maybe average age range in club...

Sounds bad but sometimes the Mrs wants a crowd more her age range..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the photo suggestion. Perhaps even make photo verification mandatory to unlock certain features of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be able to see old messages without deleting new ones (who on earth designed the inbox so it didn't have pages? )

Any remotely modern forum software like vbulletin rather than what is currently on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Be able to see old messages without deleting new ones (who on earth designed the inbox so it didn't have pages? )

Any remotely modern forum software like vbulletin rather than what is currently on.

I'd like to stick the forum on tapatalk cos then you'll get notifications if people quote you on stuff can bookmark certain threads etc

Keep the suggestions coming, admin might do something about it!

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Ability to shuffle order pics appear on profile and not just newest first.

Maybe a caption feature for pics.

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By *uddsWoman
over a year ago

st athans

"If you could add any new features here what would you have?

Extra search options like height, body type, penis size etc

On the forum maybe an option to edit your posts instead of just deleting the whole thing and writing another should you make a mistake, to be able to upload a picture to the forum.

What other features would you like?

better filters so it would be possible to stop some people even looking at profile before the need to block

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

To be able to search by height and search by not just new in the last 5 days, but maybe week, 2 week and a month would be good.

To able to add 'stock replies' I get so bored of writing the same replies.

Underlining in profile text would be useful too, instead if having to use caps.

What I would really love is an iq test on joining and/or a reading comprehension test lol, out the ones who can't read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A moron filter

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

hi, must be a Site Supporter to send messages, use chatrooms, forums, and fab photos

connie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol i love that probably half of fab filtered out then haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you could add any new features here what would you have?

Extra search options like height, body type, penis size etc

On the forum maybe an option to edit your posts instead of just deleting the whole thing and writing another should you make a mistake, to be able to upload a picture to the forum.

What other features would you like?"

You can edit your post if you click preview first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also maybe average age range in club...

Sounds bad but sometimes the Mrs wants a crowd more her age range.."

That however is nothing to do with fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also maybe average age range in club...

Sounds bad but sometimes the Mrs wants a crowd more her age range..

That however is nothing to do with fab"

That was in reference to features added to club review options.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

A function to completely over-run and confuse you with endless updates about your account choices and preferences, would be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Height search and improved messaging capability are my top two. It does seem odd that they capture height but then you can't search by it. "

Don't see why not size too. So many are very imaginative by their size. Height and size are so related...I've heard curvy used alot it's lawyer and ministerial speech as vague a f... Many women will fight this one tooth an nail for obvious reasons but it a filter that needs to be in there. There are many who put in bbw or fit or curvy....so why not just have a simple filter in.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about the ability to send a photo with a wink ? (e.g. face pic)

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

My previous suggestion already existed D'oh!

But I'll try again .

When Browsing meets, being able to filter down to those who are looking to meet me (or my type at least)

I can choose meets posted by M, F, MF, MM, FF, TVs, etc,

But if I could filter it so I only get those looking for M, etc, would save time and disappointment when I realise everyone is looking for single women and couples.

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By *rish coupleCouple
over a year ago

waterford

Have a interracial section for those who enjoy the dark chocolate

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I forgot number 11) a proper dating system across the site rather than 'over a year'"

Definitely not - that would only allow people to jump to more wild conclusions. I already see people say they use the length of time someone has been on the site against number of verifications to judge potential meets. Apart from the fact that such assumptions take no account of verifications not left, activity outside fab, time away from the site, number of meets/length of relationship with the same person etc etc, it would also serve to make the successful more successful and the rest even less so, just as the divisive verification system does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to be able to search by height and body type - as when it comes to sex (not friendship) I have very specific tastes.

However, I know from experience that this can be seen as highly contentious to many so sadly I doubt it will ever happen! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd like to be able to search by height and body type - as when it comes to sex (not friendship) I have very specific tastes.

However, I know from experience that this can be seen as highly contentious to many so sadly I doubt it will ever happen! X

Shouldn't be, it's a site where you're supposed to meet people for sex. You should be able to be as meticulous as you like. What is the search at the moment, male, age and ethnicity. I'd like a white 32 year old man please computer, 5 thousand guys come up, ginger/blonde, fat, small cock, short. Yeah thanks computer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like to be able to search by height and body type - as when it comes to sex (not friendship) I have very specific tastes.

However, I know from experience that this can be seen as highly contentious to many so sadly I doubt it will ever happen! X

Even grindr lets you search by highg weight body type etc.

I find it weird a full site like this doesn't

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"For me, I would really like to see who has me on their hotlist. "

I've thought that myself before, but have always come to the conclusion that the system is better as it is. As things stand, the Hotlist is a useful way of creating a private shortlist of people who interest me as I browse the site, that I can later review and choose who to contact. If these lists became public, how long would it be before people started adding "do not add me to your Hotlist" to their list of rules, which would completely defeat the purpose of the function. Hotlists would effectively become just like winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe steal tinders swipe tight kinda idea.

When you view a profile theres a "would like to meet button" if you click it the person doesnt get messaged or winked or anything but if they look at your profile in future it will have where that button is "this person would like to meet you" so they k ow your interested without it ever having affected them (untill they view your page)

But i can see there being a large group of men going through every woman in the country saying yes, which is why there wouldnt be a notification so women wouldnt get inundated with like to meet notifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To make the filters more flexible, to stop men wink, but still be able to msg in pm as you chat on diferent subject in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good way to get unwanted mail.

Find a profile you like and click would like to meet, that person gets the notification and clicks would like to meet that would enable them to message each other. If one party didn't want to meet they would be blocked from messaging! Harsh as fuck but would cut down on women moaning about too many messages and guys moaning about sending messages and never getting any replies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like to be able to search by height and body type - as when it comes to sex (not friendship) I have very specific tastes.

However, I know from experience that this can be seen as highly contentious to many so sadly I doubt it will ever happen! X

Even grindr lets you search by highg weight body type etc.

I find it weird a full site like this doesn't "

Precisely! Like I said - I'd no idea how contentious it was on here until I posted a thread suggesting it! With the reactions I got (from a LOT of people - not just a few) you'd have thought I'd suggested we bring back the death sentence for stealing a loaf of bread!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good way to get unwanted mail.

Actually I think either Pof or oasis works in a similar way doesn't it?

Fine by me but I can be indecisive at times! Someone who's a 'no' one day may appeal a few weeks later! And yes - I know I'm fecking hard work!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good way to get unwanted mail.

Actually I think either Pof or oasis works in a similar way doesn't it?

Fine by me but I can be indecisive at times! Someone who's a 'no' one day may appeal a few weeks later! And yes - I know I'm fecking hard work!!

Okay I'd make a yes no and a maybe option! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good way to get unwanted mail.

Actually I think either Pof or oasis works in a similar way doesn't it?

Fine by me but I can be indecisive at times! Someone who's a 'no' one day may appeal a few weeks later! And yes - I know I'm fecking hard work!!

Okay I'd make a yes no and a maybe option! Haha"

Now THAT I'd like!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There should be some way that to log no shows for others to be aware of , not sure how it would work but I have tried everything to avoid this but still suffer the annoyance, appreciate some may abuse this type of facility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A diary of sorts, like a calendar for to keep track who where and when you are meeting, it can be busy sometimes and it's not nice to let someone down or double book yourself.

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By *ichs slut wifeWoman
over a year ago

sarasota

Amen

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By *andbCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"If you could add any new features here what would you have?

Extra search options like height, body type, penis size etc

On the forum maybe an option to edit your posts instead of just deleting the whole thing and writing another should you make a mistake, to be able to upload a picture to the forum.

What other features would you like?"

I would like the Browser section to be more forgiving - if you put in / don't put in the spaces, use large initial letters where none are it comes up not found.

So annoying when you try to find someone and can't remember whether they have mentioned "all one word" "all lower case " etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A filter excluding bi or bi curious from messaging us.We make it clear on our profile,but it's ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to see an option to verify some one for a social meet and then another to verify for a full sex meet .. i have met an awful lot of people socially and get fed up of getting called names and judged when It's all been innocent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am busy sign so people know your chatting and they're not wasting time mailing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance from me showing in chat and forums, so you know if it worthwhile saying hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To have the option to show whether you are on or offline.

To be able to switch off winks n friends request like you can switch off having your pics fabbed!

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By *ohn8210tCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

We would like to be able to save a few photos in 'your private notes'. That way when you go to refer to a profile-if they had sent you a photo previously in a message you could at least have saved it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like a "Local Updates" (LU)facility that actually does what it says on the tin, - i.e. matches with one's 'Account Preferences', not just one's location.

It does (rightly) match Location; but does not match anything else. E.g. My profile says "won't meet smokers" but the LU gives me smokers; I "cannot accommodate" but LU gives me people who also cannot accommodate; many of the LU age-ranges lock me out, (e.g. "35-55 ONLY", whereas I'm 60).

Yes, I know I can do my own search on all those criteria, but if LU can filter location correctly it can surely filter the other items too, .. otherwise LU is redundant and should be scrapped, IMHO.

Re-programming to filter these things correctly isn't hard, - it's done for location, - it just needs the will to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would love to see an option to verify some one for a social meet and then another to verify for a full sex meet .. i have met an awful lot of people socially and get fed up of getting called names and judged when It's all been innocent "

You have the option not to show them. Ive been told 3x mine seem fake. Its a cunundrum...without then your doomed with good ones you're doomed. I just then think they must be insecure.

I always ask if they're not shown same as anything...like no profile pic and they say curvy/athletic and then say they wont show a pic on here but ask for one when messaging.....I wonder what is being hidden. The fun is slowly taken away with so many filters...everyone looking for the perfect fuck.....put the fun back into meeting.

My last one was blindfolded...yes both of us! It really was amazing and I'd do it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to have an option of a button along the top alongside message, wink etc so that when you view a profile you could click a button called correspondence which let you see the chat history and possibly unread mails from that user even if they are very old, rather than having to scroll down if your on a laptop or multiple delete to try and find what you said or what they said

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Add the 'find forum posts by' little green arrow to profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you could add any new features here what would you have?

Extra search options like height, body type, penis size etc

On the forum maybe an option to edit your posts instead of just deleting the whole thing and writing another should you make a mistake, to be able to upload a picture to the forum.

What other features would you like?"

Something to massage my back when it aches, or to make supper when I get home from work. Failing that, a couple of extra local women who actually want to meet will do

Sorry, it just all came tumbling out...

lol.

One really good feature would be to be able to carry out local location searches (within a 10 mile radius, or a 20 mile radius, etc) when abroad in Europe...if you're in Spain and wanted to search for playmates within 10 miles of, say, Alicante or Benidorm, or wherever, the system doesn't have that facility and reverts to your home location for searching. I know you can use the 'who's near' feature, but a PROPER search would give a better picture of who's around in the area you're in.

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