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By *obleton OP   Man
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

I had a conversation with some of the single guys I'm friendly with at my last social and we all agreed that it would be great to set up private groups and forums.

We wanted to set up a private, friendly, MODERATED, men-only group to act as a support and advice network run by men and for men.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

Count me out of that one!

Sorry but at my age I don't really need a private men only group to support me on here or give any advice.

Others may and probably will agree it's a good idea but, for me - I'm oot!

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By *hickdick26Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Sounds like a great idea mate....hope it works out!

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By *obleton OP   Man
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

[Removed by poster at 10/12/10 14:52:14]

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By *obleton OP   Man
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"Count me out of that one!

Sorry but at my age I don't really need a private men only group to support me on here or give any advice.

Others may and probably will agree it's a good idea but, for me - I'm oot! "

its not compulsary

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Count me out of that one!

Sorry but at my age I don't really need a private men only group to support me on here or give any advice.

Others may and probably will agree it's a good idea but, for me - I'm oot!

its not compulsary"

I know it's not, you asked for opinions I gave mine!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

isn't that what the fab guys site is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fabguys. no good for the odd straight man tho sharp dressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure that admin would do that but can see the principle behind it.

Whenever a single male posts asking an innocent question they get sarcastic replies, often belittling them, completley uncalled for in many cases.

dont know why people have to reply to a thread just for the sake of it and then start an argument.

so, even speaking as a couple i think its a good idea

steve

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago


"I had a conversation with some of the single guys I'm friendly with at my last social and we all agreed that it would be great to set up private groups and forums.

We wanted to set up a private, friendly, MODERATED, men-only group to act as a support and advice network run by men and for men."

that's a very positive idea

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By *obleton OP   Man
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"

I know it's not, you asked for opinions I gave mine!"

I thought this was a forum for making suggestions to admin and the site owners

I'm not really bothered about feed back -I've had as much positive feedback as I need already

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago

As long as I can moderate all the single guys then im up for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think this is a good idea....it works on another site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While were at it, why not have a specific private forum for all those that take great pleasure in 'having a dig' at other threads.

Am sure they could all be happy together 'passing their opinions' and having their 'twopence worth' in their own little forum, lol

So to the OP.... good idea! Even if everyone could view the forum but only males could post?

S.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

I wonder who will be the first member of the "have a dig" forum

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

if it keeps all the wingeing

newguys out of the rest of the forums go for it ,

lets have all the "i`ve been on here two days and not had a meet "

in one place

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I had a conversation with some of the single guys I'm friendly with at my last social and we all agreed that it would be great to set up private groups and forums.

We wanted to set up a private, friendly, MODERATED, men-only group to act as a support and advice network run by men and for men."

great... in theory....

but in practice.... don't think it would work for various reasons...

it could very easily come across as condesending....

it could easily produce clone after clone.....

as much as I hate it when couples come up with "easy step" guides... I think it is as bad when single guys do it!!

plus I think it gives people the idea of least effort for maximum results

plus as i say with all guides... you make it harder for the people who do "genuinely" get it to get meets... and you make it harder for people to work out who "gets it" from those who just "say the right things......"

sean xxxxx

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Just how are you going to ensure that its only single guys that get in? Before you say because of the profile, its going to be very easy to set up a single bloke profile to join. Just as easily as some single guys create couple profiles, hoping to meet more easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men being given freedom of speech - in a private group without women!!! bloody outrage I say

I can see a good principal behind it, but not sure whether how viable or useful it would be once up and running.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then you'd get women setting up as guys... and then the women would have to get a room, then you'd get guys setting up as women...Wouldnt think it work. Esp if a guy from a couple had a profile as the woman did. They may have access to each others passwords etc, and log in to see what all the fuss is about Example SteveandJ and JandS. Both own profiles that show they attached. They may know each others passowrds and be able to log in as each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then you'd get women setting up as guys... and then the women would have to get a room, then you'd get guys setting up as women...Wouldnt think it work. Esp if a guy from a couple had a profile as the woman did. They may have access to each others passwords etc, and log in to see what all the fuss is about Example SteveandJ and JandS. Both own profiles that show they attached. They may know each others passowrds and be able to log in as each other."

FFS sticky will ya stop stalkin me please?

lol.

Good point though.

S. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boo!

See the woman talks sense sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another shallowed response!

Maybe it's about time you stopped fiddling and took your hands out of your pockets.


"Count me out of that one!

Sorry but at my age I don't really need a private men only group to support me on here or give any advice.

Others may and probably will agree it's a good idea but, for me - I'm oot! "

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