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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us "

Would it make any difference? Where would the people for the over 50s site come from?

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us "

We are older than you and don't have similar problems. Maybe it's different where you live but here and in Spain we are about the average age.

You may find socials, parties and clubs worth trying. Search the forum and look at club reviews.

I'm not commenting on your profile content as you haven't asked. However block capitals in profiles are hard to read and will put some people off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same here I am older and have been on site since just after it opened I have had no problems. But your profile to be honest is not a welcoming one. good luck tc

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

A good proportion of people who use the web to contact each other will be on here or other sites. If you aren't having any luck here it's doubtful a site dedicated to over 50s would be any more successful.

Clubs are good for meeting face to face .

Could there be other reasons for the problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd meet people over 50 and have .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any problems meeting and I'm over 50.....x

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Strange that OP hasn't acknowledged the advice. Maybe not what they wanted to hear.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Strange that OP hasn't acknowledged the advice. Maybe not what they wanted to hear. "

I suspect that after the initial couple of posts they are temporarily unable to interact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have this problem l think the should do a separate page

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well don't know bout others but I'd meet u if i was closer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely don't want a separate site for over 50s

It would separate us from all our fab younger friends.

Age is just a number it's your outlook on life that keeps you young.

One life live it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely don't want a separate site for over 50s

It would separate us from all our fab younger friends.

Age is just a number it's your outlook on life that keeps you young.

One life live it. "

Exactly this. Not quite 50 yet but not far off it and we have loads of fun. Have no plans to go on a saga holiday just yet and we would not be inclined to join an over 50s.

OP I didn't even read your profile. I can't help but read block capitals in a shouty ranty voice in my head ... It's too exhausting. A profile re-write and some new pictures on public view might be more tempting.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I wouldn't want to be separated by my many younger or older friends I have on here so my answer would be no.

Not really sure why your having problems meeting perhaps it's your block caps shouting profile?

Maybe consider a rewrite stating what your looking for and what you have to offer potential meets.

Good luck ops xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the op had bad luck that's all keep lucking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - you haven't done bad with your 31 verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is indeed just a number, but unfortunately you can't get away from the fact that however young you may feel and however active you are, many people do indeed see a number and then shy away. I feel like 25...I run 10k's like a 40 year old but this site has a policy of not allowing even the slightest contact outside a specified age group. Fine. Can accept that, but let's not pretend that it's just a number. In the minds of many, that number is a deal breaker.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"It is indeed just a number, but unfortunately you can't get away from the fact that however young you may feel and however active you are, many people do indeed see a number and then shy away. I feel like 25...I run 10k's like a 40 year old but this site has a policy of not allowing even the slightest contact outside a specified age group. Fine. Can accept that, but let's not pretend that it's just a number. In the minds of many, that number is a deal breaker."

I have met people who's age range precludes me, they have contacted me.

The filters are a tool they use to do the choosing at their leisure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We was banned from the forum and the advice is good but your in 2 places and we are not some areas are good some are bad and we dont like going to clubs around here as no one takes notice they have there own little crowd and cant afford the entrance fee we was just asking if there should be an over 50 site thats all

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

You are right, some areas are good, some are bad.

However, I think the advice given about your profile still stands.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We write block capitals and saying wot we want but wot is the point when peps still.send winks and invites and we dont do pics rather see the real bodies like a lot of you least we have face pic thats more importance than body pics to many pic collectors on this site that dont want sex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We was banned from the forum and the advice is good but your in 2 places and we are not some areas are good some are bad and we dont like going to clubs around here as no one takes notice they have there own little crowd and cant afford the entrance fee we was just asking if there should be an over 50 site thats all"

Where would the members come from if they aren't already on here?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"We write block capitals and saying wot we want but wot is the point when peps still.send winks and invites and we dont do pics rather see the real bodies like a lot of you least we have face pic thats more importance than body pics to many pic collectors on this site that dont want sex"

I agree, what is the point of writing a better profile, no one reads them.

But. Clearly you are also putting off the genuine people, because they aren't contacting you either!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dont feedback count on this site that we are genuine we just had messages saying can we have pics so who reads profile and not changing profile or putting pics on how profiles reads sex not ping pong

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Dont feedback count on this site that we are genuine we just had messages saying can we have pics so who reads profile and not changing profile or putting pics on how profiles reads sex not ping pong "

The way I see it is that you're running your profile in the way you want, it isn't bringing you any meets but you aren't prepared to change it. You have a choice now, take the advice offered and possibly improve the situation or don't and carry on as you are.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us "

With 31 veries you must be doing some thing right

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us "

I sell over 50s life cat and home insurance if interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

31 verifications says to me you have no problems getting to meet people.

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By *otlerCouple
over a year ago

Newbury

yea they should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With needing accommodation and not hosting also uninviting profile could be a problem I have meets with over 50s and there fun @

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Hell nooooo I like my younger men

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By *antonkid1955Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I've never had a problem meeting on here and I'm way over 50,get an invite to a social and the rest is history..its how you are that counts.,not how big your cock is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive done ok in the past but lately seem to attract the wrong type, over 50 here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op you have 31 verifications....

What are you complaining about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try being 23 its harder then being young x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being a single man on here regardless of age it's such a cock fest we don't stand a chance I never get a look in!

And older women do it for me it's on the fantasy tick list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im over 50 and I dont have a problem

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By *otlerCouple
over a year ago

Newbury

good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am over 60 and I dont have a problem. Why when we reach 50 and over should we be put in a separate group?..Age is just a number..

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

single bloke and over 50 ,

don't get much of a look in ,it don't mater how genuine you are

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By *otlerCouple
over a year ago

Newbury


"single bloke and over 50 ,

don't get much of a look in ,it don't mater how genuine you are "
We prefer same age as us but a hell of a lot dont

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By *earlaitCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Ha !! 48 verifications OP -you not doing too badly at all !!! get on with it and enjoy it !!!!!Age is no barrier to having fun of any type !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im over 50 and I dont have a problem "
i.m not surprised your bloody gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im over 50 and I dont have a problem "
you are 50 ?????? Jeezo

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Over 50 & not having a problem, but then my preference is 25-40 & tbh tend to attract mostly under 30's. Everyone has their own age preference as they do sexual preference, so I set my filters accordingly & focus on what people excite me.

If you're finding you're not exciting people ask yourself why, & either try a new approach or stick with what's tried & tested.

I haven't checked your Veris but if you've got 31 you must have a decent network of play buddies.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

I'll be 50 next year (eek) and a lot of the replies on here have reassured me it won't all be over! Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave up reading the profile after 3 lines because of the LOUD CAPITAL LETTERS! (Sorry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

52 and no problems here...

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"52 and no problems here... "

I am surprised you haven't been frozen out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't, I am 54 but am quite happy to meet 40 ish and above and I do

And as it stands there are plenty of over 50's sites if that is what you would prefer to be on, no need to set up another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 56 and thoroughly enjoying myself on here, especially the young guys

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us "

No probs here, but then most of our meets are similar age to us and yes, by the amount of veris you have, how can you say you most won't meet yoy?!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us

No probs here, but then most of our meets are similar age to us and yes, by the amount of veris you have, how can you say you most won't meet yoy?!"

'how can you say, most won't meet you' (sorry)!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us "

Great idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shouldnt think a over 50's section would work to be honest

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

I dont know, there are plenty of mature over 50,s on here, and im sure we would have lots more fun, than whats happening at the moment with all the timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Strange that OP hasn't acknowledged the advice. Maybe not what they wanted to hear. "

Or the fact they have 48 verifications and the newest just one week ago....hardly supports their post?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I don't, I am 54 but am quite happy to meet 40 ish and above and I do

And as it stands there are plenty of over 50's sites if that is what you would prefer to be on, no need to set up another "

Ms Purple....you have changed your name.....didn't recognise you at first!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Strange that OP hasn't acknowledged the advice. Maybe not what they wanted to hear.

Or the fact they have 48 verifications and the newest just one week ago....hardly supports their post?"
only wanted to no.if there should be an over 50.site on fab a.yes or no would.have been nice but no people slag your profile.off.slag you of and dont no.the way things are down this area we wi.end this now after all.beem on this site for over 9 years now and its getting worse end of now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us "

Er.... Your profile says you've had 58 meets. Isn't that quite good going?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us

Er.... Your profile says you've had 58 meets. Isn't that quite good going? "

Maybe they mean a site for people with over 50 meets

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By *rench KissesCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We're both over 50 and have no problems with meetings and we never send face pics.

Agree with everyone that CAPITAL LETTERS very off putting. If you use lower case, the spellcheck might help too....

It's so hard to read as it's mostly just one long rant of a sentence.

You might try a few more pics too. There's no need to have face pics on your profile; few couples do on here.

We think that a real issue could be that the one pic you have is nearly 5 years old and not really in focus. Surely you can do better than that.

Also agree that, as you asked, not sure why you've taken no notice at all of all the advice you've been given.

Hope you take this advice better than the last couple who asked us for some after a disastrous social - they just blocked us!

Bonne chance.

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By *arumcoupleCouple
over a year ago

salisbury

Over 60 here and have no problems. However we DONT SHOUT on or profile or in Messages !!!

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By *uzzbMan
over a year ago

nr Sherborne

over 60 and in fairly good shape. No women after me so I've gone gay and have no problems

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha ha so.our profile in blocked.capitals.is bad how can it be when we have a good feedbacks been like that for over 9 years and why have more pics just goes to show pic collectors are out and about and dont want to see the real body our profile.will.stay its want we want if people.still.send winks.or friends invites will.be blocked and more people.are sending them.so.goes to.show who.reads profiles.this is the end.of.this forum for.us no one from.our area reply its people from.miles away.slag us of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha ha so.our profile in blocked.capitals.is bad how can it be when we have a good feedbacks been like that for over 9 years and why have more pics just goes to show pic collectors are out and about and dont want to see the real body our profile.will.stay its want we want if people.still.send winks.or friends invites will.be blocked and more people.are sending them.so.goes to.show who.reads profiles.this is the end.of.this forum for.us no one from.our area reply its people from.miles away.slag us of."

You're using an old Nokia phone aren't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont feedback count on this site that we are genuine we just had messages saying can we have pics so who reads profile and not changing profile or putting pics on how profiles reads sex not ping pong "

Have you ever seen a full stop?

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By *rench KissesCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Not sure why these idiots asked for any advice in the first place.

They blocked us - glad we made the effort!

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Why segregated us all up..

Why at 50 why not 45 or even 40.

Is it not the idea of the age filter to do just that..

As for people not meeting you???

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By *uny1122Man
over a year ago

longeton

I think I like older women's mesge me what els u want xx

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By *kindofmagicXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I find It is a bit more difficult for single guys in their 50s but wouldn't. Want a separate site.

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By *uny1122Man
over a year ago

longeton

I must say they Make new furam for asain only xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met women and couples on fab that are both younger and older than myself, which shows that all ages do meet and enjoy them selves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I like older women's mesge me what els u want xx"

Why should people send you a private message for what else they want? If there is anything else, they can comment on the thread

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover


"I have met women and couples on fab that are both younger and older than myself, which shows that all ages do meet and enjoy them selves. "

same here..surprised how many young couples, who like to play with us oldies..lol..connie x

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

I did ok on my single profile.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I do surprisingly well on here and I'm ancient!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely don't want a separate site for over 50s

It would separate us from all our fab younger friends.

Age is just a number it's your outlook on life that keeps you young.

One life live it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting an over 50 is like getting a good book out of the Fab library again and sometimes again. The pages can get a bit worn and dog eared but it's still a bloody good read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeting an over 50 is like getting a good book out of the Fab library again and sometimes again. The pages can get a bit worn and dog eared but it's still a bloody good read."

What gives us the resilience to shrug off ageist attitudes from the "pretty young people" is knowing that one day they too will have the same issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We actually prefer to meet people around our own age. (late 40's 50's) I think its a great idea to have a separate forum/sub site but until fab actually listens to suggestions I guess the age filters are the only alternatives.

We were playing with the idea of an over 45's mixed party but to be fair we dont have the patience to organise the proverbial in a brewery

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By *oodcontactukMan
over a year ago

Bolton

It is possible to filter by age when doing a search but the problem is people do not always put an age range.

If I see a couple/female wanting to meet someone 18-99 (really?) I don't usually contact them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is possible to filter by age when doing a search but the problem is people do not always put an age range.

If I see a couple/female wanting to meet someone 18-99 (really?) I don't usually contact them. "

People who have left that age range on purpose have done so to show that to them, age has no bearing on deciding who to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us "
think the majority are 50 plus on fab but they fabricate there age lol

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us think the majority are 50 plus on fab but they fabricate there age lol "

What makes you think that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Having problems getting a meet?. Refine your profile. Frankly I just would not read it.

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

I don't think Fabswingers should be exclusive to anyone based upon sexual preference, age or ethnicity.

It sounds a bit twee but one of the things I really like about Fabswingers is the diversity of the people on this site.

Cum on peeps - let's welcum everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us "

Ive just read the profile it seems hostile to me I know its a,sex site but a bit of politeness goes a long way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do surprisingly well on here and I'm ancient!"

Lol I agree with the above I'm sixty and have a ball .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us think the majority are 50 plus on fab but they fabricate there age lol

What makes you think that?"

If he means lie about his age to get more chance meeting, yes they do as I've met a couple of guys who were over 50 but on here were showing late 40's. The one guy was told when he registered to lower his age otherwise he wouldn't get meets

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us "

Well

Your profile is very aggressive and all in capitals. So that will be loads if people out off.

But you have loads of verifications, so why are you saying most people don't meet you?

Very odd .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I do surprisingly well on here and I'm ancient!

Lol I agree with the above I'm sixty and have a ball . "

oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do surprisingly well on here and I'm ancient!

Lol I agree with the above I'm sixty and have a ball .

oops "

most are over 42 lol just

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 40and yes it as dwindled a bit but hey I dont do ageism lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the over 50's ( almost there myself)

I peeked at your profile guys I think the capital letters might be what the problem is, as soon as I saw it I imagined you shouting and couldn't read any further.

Perhaps a lil revamp on your profile might do the trick?

Just saying

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By *onniWoman
over a year ago

newcastle

The older the better xx

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By *ules eyes for youMan
over a year ago

Macclesfield

Hi,I found that club meeting are best, age should not be a problem but clearly on here you are prevented from making contact if you are generally over 45 mores the pity facial contact works for me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us "

"Verified by 52 people"

Your Verifications are in the over 50's too so not sure what the problem might be

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

I always enjoy meeting more mature people (over 50s)and have had some really horny times with them and hope to continue.

I have no problem at all meeting younger folks but it often seems to me most younger people put an age limit on their profies which would invariably exclude me.

Just like to say there's life in the old dogger yet lol.

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By *outhEastPaulMan
over a year ago

Thames Ditton surrey

I think the topic has been asked and well answered - However as one of my old veries said - Age is just a number BUT it is surprising how many profiles have 50 as a Cut off - Yes everyone entitled to their own preferences but it is a bigger challenge especially for the more mature guys here - But as others say it can bring lots of benefits but you have to get through the barrier

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Age limits don't worry or impede me at all

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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago

Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...!


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us "
Not read the whole thread OP, but have just had a quick look at your profile.

Respectfully, may I suggest you start a thread in Support and Advice asking for a Profile Critique...? You may find the answer lies within...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think couples over fifty or even single females have any problems m eeting other swingers, it's like males like myself that have the problems because there is so many younger guys on here couples and single females will always get guys to meet them. I don't have this problem at the clubs because couples can see what you like when you chat and have fun with them and I have some good write ups on Fab, but fined it hard to meet couples for a private meet, can anyone help. John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us Not read the whole thread OP, but have just had a quick look at your profile.

Respectfully, may I suggest you start a thread in Support and Advice asking for a Profile Critique...? You may find the answer lies within... "

They have 63 veris so I guess their profile is working for them.

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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago

Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...!


"I don't think couples over fifty or even single females have any problems m eeting other swingers, it's like males like myself that have the problems because there is so many younger guys on here couples and single females will always get guys to meet them. I don't have this problem at the clubs because couples can see what you like when you chat and have fun with them and I have some good write ups on Fab, but fined it hard to meet couples for a private meet, can anyone help. John

"

John, you've answered your own question. I'm in the same boat. The reality is that us mature guys need to let our personality and... well... anything else come through and you can only do that in person at a club or social etc.

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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago

Cap d’Agde, France

Perhaps a little more care about how you present yourselves might help.

Potential play mates have so little to go on, if you have negative comments or just one or two images in your profile it can be off putting.

We, like most, always look for things like: age group

length of time on site, verifications, positive profiles, sexy but not crude images and perhaps, interests.

If these things are missing we are unlikely to make contact or respond to requests.

In the year since joining this site we have had absolutely no problems and have just met very lovely people

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Not sure a over 50 female half of a couple floats any boats to be honest

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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago

Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...!


"Not sure a over 50 female half of a couple floats any boats to be honest "

Just perved your pics. You float mine.... but I could turn that back at you and say someone my age appears not to float yours....????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From our experience there seems to be quite alot of younger that seem to want to meet us. Not quite sure why but not complaining.

Maybe it's coz Mrs N is still flipping gorgeous. I just tag along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From our experience there seems to be quite alot of younger that seem to want to meet us. Not quite sure why but not complaining.

Maybe it's coz Mrs N is still flipping gorgeous. I just tag along

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p.s I'd ditch the fags to be honest. It is something alot of people detest. We are no different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


". . . Maybe it's coz Mrs N is still flipping gorgeous. I just tag along

p.s I'd ditch the fags to be honest. It is something alot of people detest. We are no different."

. . . and there appears possibly one of the biggest issues in swinging, if you don't smoke do you meet and play with those that do?

That subject probably creates more "yes/no" decisions being made than using condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure a over 50 female half of a couple floats any boats to be honest "

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"Not sure a over 50 female half of a couple floats any boats to be honest "

Are you blowing your own trumpet?..

O dear, O dear, O dear...

You obviously haven't been looking in the correct places,,,

Silly question, have you looked on fab at the gorgeous ladies of a certain age that shall remain nameless as it is a number,,,,

Ps... Have you seen some of the ladies at 50 plus... Bodies to die for, and I found one with a mind (of a 20 year old) to match as well..

Please don't start a separate site..

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By *he Gentleman CallerMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Over 50's works for me - I'll be there soon myself!

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"Not sure a over 50 female half of a couple floats any boats to be honest "

As an over 50 I find that a strange generalisation.

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By *iceboy58Man
over a year ago

connah's quay

I love to meet people over 50.

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By *he Gentleman CallerMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"Not sure a over 50 female half of a couple floats any boats to be honest

As an over 50 I find that a strange generalisation. "

I agree..strange comment!

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By *oungWiganBiMan
over a year ago

Wigan


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us "

I certainly would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure a over 50 female half of a couple floats any boats to be honest

As an over 50 I find that a strange generalisation.

I agree..strange comment!"

Older in general floats mine n many others

my way is not the only way of course and older females may not float your boat ,but your way is not the only way either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously its different for women ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your age isn't the problem? I love an over 50 even met a 62 year old and he was awesome!

Be more posative it may help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love this thread.

Op complains nobody will meet them. Advice is offered and the reply is that they have lots of good feedback so nothings gonna get changed.

Some people are just awkward that way and can't see past their own noses.

They have a shit profile yet are doing very well...Im not gonna worry for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am now over 50 and often get compliments from men and women who are much younger than me.

At work I have more stamina than younger employees and have a lot more experience in the bedroom.

I am fit and healthy and have a good and positive outlook on life so hey bring it on for the over 50's.

ps we spell better too

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Not sure a over 50 female half of a couple floats any boats to be honest

Just perved your pics. You float mine.... but I could turn that back at you and say someone my age appears not to float yours....???? "

Thank you. Nothing but wrong with you but we aren't meeting single men

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Not sure a over 50 female half of a couple floats any boats to be honest

Are you blowing your own trumpet?..

O dear, O dear, O dear...

You obviously haven't been looking in the correct places,,,

Silly question, have you looked on fab at the gorgeous ladies of a certain age that shall remain nameless as it is a number,,,,

Ps... Have you seen some of the ladies at 50 plus... Bodies to die for, and I found one with a mind (of a 20 year old) to match as well..

Please don't start a separate site..

"

I was merely making a comment on this forum post. If I was appealing we would have met people

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Not sure a over 50 female half of a couple floats any boats to be honest

As an over 50 I find that a strange generalisation.

I agree..strange comment!"

Guess I'm strange then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm well over fifty but consider I look good for my age and despite the fact I have no pictures up on this site I can assure everyone on here that I'm having a great time and have no intention of joining a SAGA swinging site!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess its down to their personal requirement, have they viewed you?, if not than it could be a case of they only want to meet a certain age group.

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By *limboy69Man
over a year ago

Cork

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I don't think couples over fifty or even single females have any problems m eeting other swingers, it's like males like myself that have the problems because there is so many younger guys on here couples and single females will always get guys to meet them. I don't have this problem at the clubs because couples can see what you like when you chat and have fun with them and I have some good write ups on Fab, but fined it hard to meet couples for a private meet, can anyone help. John

John, you've answered your own question. I'm in the same boat. The reality is that us mature guys need to let our personality and... well... anything else come through and you can only do that in person at a club or social etc."

Face to face is always good, but properly crafted messages and a decent profile help on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us "

WHY Im eighteen months off being 60 and I still have meets play meets not just social meets lol

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"Not sure a over 50 female half of a couple floats any boats to be honest

As an over 50 I find that a strange generalisation.

I agree..strange comment!

Guess I'm strange then "

Your comment was a strange conclusion, not that you were strange.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us

WHY Im eighteen months off being 60 and I still have meets play meets not just social meets lol"

I'm well over 60 and have play meets too...the last one was with a local tall slim beauty and we had a great time, ....several times....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


". . . have no intention of joining a SAGA swinging site!! "

Actually that idea may have a lot going for it, They know what works for their members?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im 53 age doesnt seem a problem distance does lol

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

I'm 57 and don't have a problem meeting anyone xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just an attitude however a lot of singles and couples set their own age preferences to 50 so you can't contact them by pm. It's a shame because over 50s have more experience and can often offer far more in the way of great times. They are far less likely to mess you about that some of the bedpost notching players.so come on guys and girls open up those age preferences and enjoy life.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Age is just an attitude however a lot of singles and couples set their own age preferences to 50 so you can't contact them by pm. It's a shame because over 50s have more experience and can often offer far more in the way of great times. They are far less likely to mess you about that some of the bedpost notching players.so come on guys and girls open up those age preferences and enjoy life."

I don't really think it helps to make these kinds of unverifiable generalisations and claims about certain age groups....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Nearly 57 and don't do too badly on here

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Age is just an attitude however a lot of singles and couples set their own age preferences to 50 so you can't contact them by pm. It's a shame because over 50s have more experience and can often offer far more in the way of great times. They are far less likely to mess you about that some of the bedpost notching players.so come on guys and girls open up those age preferences and enjoy life."

What if they're enjoying life with under 50s?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us "

I might be missing something(apologies if I have) but how have you got 34 veris if most people won't meet you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think some may have misunderstood my post. I certainly wasn't having a go at any age group. Merely pointing out that setting a maximum age of 50 can result in missing opportunities to meet decent genuine mature people who perhaps would like to get in touch. If I offended anyone then I apologise. Ken.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Think some may have misunderstood my post. I certainly wasn't having a go at any age group. Merely pointing out that setting a maximum age of 50 can result in missing opportunities to meet decent genuine mature people who perhaps would like to get in touch. If I offended anyone then I apologise. Ken."

Nobody was offended, well certainly not me. . Our lower age limit results in us missing opportunities with decent, genuine younger people who would like to get in tough c'est la vie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us "

Just been looking at new members. Still seems to be a stigma if your over 50!! Which is frustrating when your 51 loads of females and couples won't meet you!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us

Just been looking at new members. Still seems to be a stigma if your over 50!! Which is frustrating when your 51 loads of females and couples won't meet you!! "

But some will, concentrate on them.

If you went to the pub hoping to meet someone to ultimately have sex with would you expect a 35 year old woman to be interested? I wouldn't expect a man of that age to be interested in me in real life.

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By *limboy69Man
over a year ago

Cork

Some of the best chats I have on fab are with women far younger such a shame that fab and mobile internet wasn't around 30 years ago lol. Still I have a leaning toward the more mature woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tldr: OP punctuation is key, what you write is incredibly hard to read.

Can't give profile advice as you've not asked for it, but it's not great and would put us off.

We've no problem meeting people who are 50+ as long as they are interesting, polite and wear their ages well.

X

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Should fabswingers do a site for the over 50s as must on.fab wont meet us "

I'm as attracted to 20 year olds as I am to 50 year olds...

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