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By *ivedancer OP   Man
over a year ago

Horsham

It occurs to me if I have a Hotlist and one of those on that list has me on their hotlist that possibly the mutual attraction might be desirous to be flagged in some way. A hot-wink if you will.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Some use the hotlist as a way to flag up profiles they don't like so they can keep an eye on them, for example if they post personal remarks in their status or if it's someone they know in vanilla life and they want to ensure they both don't turn up to the same party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It occurs to me if I have a Hotlist and one of those on that list has me on their hotlist that possibly the mutual attraction might be desirous to be flagged in some way. A hot-wink if you will. "

Great idea!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some use the hotlist as a way to flag up profiles they don't like so they can keep an eye on them, for example if they post personal remarks in their status or if it's someone they know in vanilla life and they want to ensure they both don't turn up to the same party."

I suppose that could be an idea too. Sort of a private avoid list? Not visible to anyone except yourself.

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By *ivedancer OP   Man
over a year ago

Horsham

of all the things I thought hotlist might mean , avoid, was not one of them. I generally use block but I guess that might be a little too antagonistic. Hmm okay maybe we need a Hot or Not lists as well . thanks for the reply though

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I use mine for people who amuse me, and not in a positive way. I have 1 person who has been leaving every week for the past year. I wouldn't want him to know he's there.

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By *orgeouslyyoursWoman
over a year ago

essex just looking around


"Some use the hotlist as a way to flag up profiles they don't like so they can keep an eye on them, for example if they post personal remarks in their status or if it's someone they know in vanilla life and they want to ensure they both don't turn up to the same party."

We ( myself snd friends ) use it for exactly the above but also as we only add people we have met to friends occasionally will add odd hot person we chat too.

I also tell anyone interested in my events to add me too hotlist. . They'll see my status feed updates but not my fanny pictures lol x

It's a good idea though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotlist" and "NOTlist" - LOVE it

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

We use it as a pre friends list.

So we may not be meeting for a few weeks so rather than pestering someone when we can't meet we bob them on the hotlist and come back at a later date to see if we interest them when we are more able to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We use it as a pre friends list.

So we may not be meeting for a few weeks so rather than pestering someone when we can't meet we bob them on the hotlist and come back at a later date to see if we interest them when we are more able to meet."

Exactly how we use it. Hotlist fine as it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some use the hotlist as a way to flag up profiles they don't like so they can keep an eye on them, for example if they post personal remarks in their status or if it's someone they know in vanilla life and they want to ensure they both don't turn up to the same party."

Maybe the option to turn off the "hot wink" would be a viable option as well. OP nice idea though. We like it

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

i use the hot list to keep tabs on profiles i have reported to see if admin have kicked them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some use the hotlist as a way to flag up profiles they don't like so they can keep an eye on them, for example if they post personal remarks in their status or if it's someone they know in vanilla life and they want to ensure they both don't turn up to the same party."

I do this to a point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i use the hot list to keep tabs on profiles i have reported to see if admin have kicked them off "

Admin tend to block the reporter and reported from seeing each other so unless you use basic search you will not know if left site.

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By *yz69Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I use the hotlist to highlight profiles I like and would consider meeting. I don't usually message straight away as I am not able to meet at the drop of a hat. It would be nice to know if they felt the same way.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I think it's a great idea for those who use the hotlist as a hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When looking at a profile I can see an icon that says if they are a friend. Why not have an Icon that says you are on their hotlist?

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now


"When looking at a profile I can see an icon that says if they are a friend. Why not have an Icon that says you are on their hotlist?"

As several people have said above, not everyone uses their hotlist for people they think are 'hot'. So an icon to say 'you're on their hotlist' would just trigger more unwanted messages for these people. If Fab bring in this suggestion it would need another option on the privacy page, so that those who don't want it can turn it off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It occurs to me if I have a Hotlist and one of those on that list has me on their hotlist that possibly the mutual attraction might be desirous to be flagged in some way. A hot-wink if you will. "

Great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It occurs to me if I have a Hotlist and one of those on that list has me on their hotlist that possibly the mutual attraction might be desirous to be flagged in some way. A hot-wink if you will. "

its not always an attraction if you put someone on your hotlist tho is it.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Think this would only work if it was an opt in and opt out as many don't use the hotlist for people they want to meet....too many to justify it being permanent to everyone profile probably

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