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By *ugby 123 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

From Admin on part 1.

We're testing a new feature.

It shows a green dot, if the user is currently online, in places where the online status of the user isn't obvious. At the moment that is mailbox, newsfeed, photos pages and looked@me.

Feedback is welcome.

If your profile is hidden (via the privacy page), the green "online now" dot will not show against your username.

Admin x

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/391320

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land


"I like it "

Me too

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've C&P my last comment as to why I don't

"Hi

Don't find this feature useful at all, now it's showing when I'm online and I'm getting hounded by messages "saw you are online, how are you"

Is there option to turn this green dot thing off

Same

Totally agree, now I can't plead ignorance sure if they are goin to mail you it shows up your online anyways on your profile the green dot is not to blame there "

No but it will increase the crap messages due to seeing the green dot, ie 'Hi, I see your online' without even going into my profile never mind reading the bloody content of it, do you understand now?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I'm not too bothered about it

I just ignore messages until I'm ready to read them anyway

I can see why people think it will be useful but I don't know if I'll get anything from it at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very useful but I agree with others , we should be able to opt in or out. J x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Very useful but I agree with others , we should be able to opt in or out. J x"

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Would like option to opt out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it "

Good idea.

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

We think it's a good idea and I noticed it only this evening. Option to opt out....unless profile is hidden wouldn't people know you were on line anyway with or without the dot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've C&P my last comment as to why I don't

"Hi

Don't find this feature useful at all, now it's showing when I'm online and I'm getting hounded by messages "saw you are online, how are you"

Is there option to turn this green dot thing off

Same

Totally agree, now I can't plead ignorance sure if they are goin to mail you it shows up your online anyways on your profile the green dot is not to blame there "

No but it will increase the crap messages due to seeing the green dot, ie 'Hi, I see your online' without even going into my profile never mind reading the bloody content of it, do you understand now? "

Just say on your profile that you aren't always online when it shows you are because the green dot is beta and not working properly yet.

I just ignore messages half the time anyway.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Id like a option to 'Appear offline'...?

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

What a stupid idea! Please at least have the nous to make it possible for us to turn it on and off like most other site features.

I have already got filters set so that most people can't message me but the introduction of this bloody green dot means that it looks like I'm going to have to block everyone now. Thanks a lot!

Yes I may be online but just because you see that I'm here does not mean I want an invitation to meet you and your partner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a stupid idea! Please at least have the nous to make it possible for us to turn it on and off like most other site features.

I have already got filters set so that most people can't message me but the introduction of this bloody green dot means that it looks like I'm going to have to block everyone now. Thanks a lot!

Yes I may be online but just because you see that I'm here does not mean I want an invitation to meet you and your partner! "

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By *ylon loverMan
over a year ago

stowmarket

Top idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Admin. ... can I ask WHY you've done this?

Obviously it's your site and you can do what you want.

.... just curious as to what the logic was? ...

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I dont like the idea green dot cos I need in discreet when I am online.....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Just waiting for the crap 'I see your online' messages, just another excuse for profiles not being read. Come on admin, do something that has value for once or at least let us turn the feature off if we want to. As someone had said a pointless bloody feature that is going to be a bug bear for most single females.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just waiting for the crap 'I see your online' messages, just another excuse for profiles not being read. Come on admin, do something that has value for once or at least let us turn the feature off if we want to. As someone had said a pointless bloody feature that is going to be a bug bear for most single females. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just waiting for the crap 'I see your online' messages, just another excuse for profiles not being read. Come on admin, do something that has value for once or at least let us turn the feature off if we want to. As someone had said a pointless bloody feature that is going to be a bug bear for most single females. "

I'm still waiting for them too. ....i haven't had any "i see you're online" messages. ..not one. People could see you were online before.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Just waiting for the crap 'I see your online' messages, just another excuse for profiles not being read. Come on admin, do something that has value for once or at least let us turn the feature off if we want to. As someone had said a pointless bloody feature that is going to be a bug bear for most single females.

I'm still waiting for them too. ....i haven't had any "i see you're online" messages. ..not one. People could see you were online before. "

Only by going into your profile where there might be the off chance they might read some of the wordy bits!

This way they just have to see the little green dot.

The feature was only introduced yesterday, most men in my area wont click to it yet.......But just wait a few days and what I am saying it true, all I want is an option to turn it off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can see you are online with out the green dot when they so searches I think it ok feature I not had more mail then usual x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just waiting for the crap 'I see your online' messages, just another excuse for profiles not being read. Come on admin, do something that has value for once or at least let us turn the feature off if we want to. As someone had said a pointless bloody feature that is going to be a bug bear for most single females.

I'm still waiting for them too. ....i haven't had any "i see you're online" messages. ..not one. People could see you were online before.

Only by going into your profile where there might be the off chance they might read some of the wordy bits!

This way they just have to see the little green dot.

The feature was only introduced yesterday, most men in my area wont click to it yet.......But just wait a few days and what I am saying it true, all I want is an option to turn it off!"

So you haven't actually experienced increased messages because of it...you're only anticipating it? I think it would be useful if those of you that do experience it could keep actual figures to then present to admin so they can see there is a real need to be able to turn off the feature. They won't be able to argue with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just waiting for the crap 'I see your online' messages, just another excuse for profiles not being read. Come on admin, do something that has value for once or at least let us turn the feature off if we want to. As someone had said a pointless bloody feature that is going to be a bug bear for most single females.

I'm still waiting for them too. ....i haven't had any "i see you're online" messages. ..not one. People could see you were online before.

Only by going into your profile where there might be the off chance they might read some of the wordy bits!

This way they just have to see the little green dot.

The feature was only introduced yesterday, most men in my area wont click to it yet.......But just wait a few days and what I am saying it true, all I want is an option to turn it off!

So you haven't actually experienced increased messages because of it...you're only anticipating it? I think it would be useful if those of you that do experience it could keep actual figures to then present to admin so they can see there is a real need to be able to turn off the feature. They won't be able to argue with that."

Be just as easy for admin to allow the feature to be turned off if wanted the same as many features on here.

Win win for all then.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

This is going to be the same as when they introduced the postcode feature, where you couldn't opt out of either. I'm ok because I live in a city, but a friend of mine who lived in a small village had to then lie about where she was, so it wouldn't be like a red beacon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see it making much difference either way for me. Would probably opt out if the option was there, but I'll still just delete messages I'm not interested in, it's not going to spoil my day

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By *ugby 123 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Don't get upset, this is a feedback thread for a reason. As I understand it Admin will be taking it all on board and doing tweeks to it if needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the fuss..people could see when you were online before anyway!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I said in yesterday's post, hate this feature, yesterday I got 42 I saw you online messages. Today so far another 27, it's a joke, allow us the option to turn the damn dot off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the fuss..people could see when you were online before anyway!? "

They could only see if they clicked on your profile, now they can see from news feed without looking at your profile, the whole thing is ridiculous and unnecessary in my opinion, but hey, anyone giving negative comments about the feature just gets slated or ignored anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just waiting for the crap 'I see your online' messages, just another excuse for profiles not being read. Come on admin, do something that has value for once or at least let us turn the feature off if we want to. As someone had said a pointless bloody feature that is going to be a bug bear for most single females.

I'm still waiting for them too. ....i haven't had any "i see you're online" messages. ..not one. People could see you were online before.

Only by going into your profile where there might be the off chance they might read some of the wordy bits!

This way they just have to see the little green dot.

The feature was only introduced yesterday, most men in my area wont click to it yet.......But just wait a few days and what I am saying it true, all I want is an option to turn it off!

So you haven't actually experienced increased messages because of it...you're only anticipating it? I think it would be useful if those of you that do experience it could keep actual figures to then present to admin so they can see there is a real need to be able to turn off the feature. They won't be able to argue with that.

Be just as easy for admin to allow the feature to be turned off if wanted the same as many features on here.

Win win for all then. "

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Seems pretty pointless to me. Would prefer a much more useful feature such as a bi-playful option in the sexual orientation list.

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Just waiting for the crap 'I see your online' messages, just another excuse for profiles not being read. Come on admin, do something that has value for once or at least let us turn the feature off if we want to. As someone had said a pointless bloody feature that is going to be a bug bear for most single females.

I'm still waiting for them too. ....i haven't had any "i see you're online" messages. ..not one. People could see you were online before. "

I get very few messages, purely because I have most people filtered out. I would say that because of my filters I get a message once a month on average and I'm happy with that, rather have contact through our couples profile.

Since the green dot I have had half a dozen messages which said they saw I was online.....that's one he'll of an increase and one that I don't particularly want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys don't read profiles wether they think you're online or not. I don't understand the pressure to read and reply to a message just because you can be seen as online. How about before you open the message you just delete and block it if it starts "Hey i see you are online".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont see the point in it,because if your sending someone a message you have to click on their profile,and it says if their online or not anyway.Also just because your online dont mean you are reading messages (it also says if you have read/deleted a message anyway) you maybe in a chatroom or just perving over pictures

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

noticed the dot yesterday, won't make much difference to me,

i open profiles that interest me.

not those that indicate they're on line..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the green dot gives me extra stalking opportunity's

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I find it useful wee tool .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just waiting for the crap 'I see your online' messages, just another excuse for profiles not being read. Come on admin, do something that has value for once or at least let us turn the feature off if we want to. As someone had said a pointless bloody feature that is going to be a bug bear for most single females.

I'm still waiting for them too. ....i haven't had any "i see you're online" messages. ..not one. People could see you were online before.

I get very few messages, purely because I have most people filtered out. I would say that because of my filters I get a message once a month on average and I'm happy with that, rather have contact through our couples profile.

Since the green dot I have had half a dozen messages which said they saw I was online.....that's one he'll of an increase and one that I don't particularly want!"

I've had a grand total of zero messages mentioning that, and my only filters are to stop newbies and people with no photos. What am I doing wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just waiting for the crap 'I see your online' messages, just another excuse for profiles not being read. Come on admin, do something that has value for once or at least let us turn the feature off if we want to. As someone had said a pointless bloody feature that is going to be a bug bear for most single females.

I'm still waiting for them too. ....i haven't had any "i see you're online" messages. ..not one. People could see you were online before.

I get very few messages, purely because I have most people filtered out. I would say that because of my filters I get a message once a month on average and I'm happy with that, rather have contact through our couples profile.

Since the green dot I have had half a dozen messages which said they saw I was online.....that's one he'll of an increase and one that I don't particularly want!

I've had a grand total of zero messages mentioning that, and my only filters are to stop newbies and people with no photos. What am I doing wrong? "

Exactly the same here. We must be real mingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just waiting for the crap 'I see your online' messages, just another excuse for profiles not being read. Come on admin, do something that has value for once or at least let us turn the feature off if we want to. As someone had said a pointless bloody feature that is going to be a bug bear for most single females.

I'm still waiting for them too. ....i haven't had any "i see you're online" messages. ..not one. People could see you were online before.

I get very few messages, purely because I have most people filtered out. I would say that because of my filters I get a message once a month on average and I'm happy with that, rather have contact through our couples profile.

Since the green dot I have had half a dozen messages which said they saw I was online.....that's one he'll of an increase and one that I don't particularly want!

I've had a grand total of zero messages mentioning that, and my only filters are to stop newbies and people with no photos. What am I doing wrong?

Exactly the same here. We must be real mingers "

Maybe it's because we wear too much makeup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just waiting for the crap 'I see your online' messages, just another excuse for profiles not being read. Come on admin, do something that has value for once or at least let us turn the feature off if we want to. As someone had said a pointless bloody feature that is going to be a bug bear for most single females.

I'm still waiting for them too. ....i haven't had any "i see you're online" messages. ..not one. People could see you were online before.

I get very few messages, purely because I have most people filtered out. I would say that because of my filters I get a message once a month on average and I'm happy with that, rather have contact through our couples profile.

Since the green dot I have had half a dozen messages which said they saw I was online.....that's one he'll of an increase and one that I don't particularly want!

I've had a grand total of zero messages mentioning that, and my only filters are to stop newbies and people with no photos. What am I doing wrong?

Exactly the same here. We must be real mingers

Maybe it's because we wear too much makeup "

That'll be it! We aren't real natural women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We personally like it.Makes it easy when looking for a meet to know some ones on, rather than sending messages and getting reply days later.

Having read posts on this debate, each to their own.

If it can be done then i pressume admin will enable a switch on or off button and in doing so they make every one happy.

If not admin we're loving the site well done with your hard work.

Lived without it living with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's great. Means I can send messages to people for a chat when they're online.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Can't think of one negative point about it and no reason to not want it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since this was introduced

More "hi" messages

More "x" messages

More "why you ignoring my messages your showing on line"

So yeah this is a great addition honestly NOT

but yup deleting messages more and more now

Faqs need updating too

"If you online doesn't mean fuck all"

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By *ambslass48Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough

Not had one message saying saw me o line think cos on old lol

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think it's a great feature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's great. Means I can send messages to people for a chat when they're online."

To send that message for a chat you have to click on their profile,and the profile tells you if the person is on line or not,so i really don't see what all the fuss is about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's great. Means I can send messages to people for a chat when they're online.

To send that message for a chat you have to click on their profile,and the profile tells you if the person is on line or not,so i really don't see what all the fuss is about."

I can look through my hotlist without having to click each profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since this was introduced

More "hi" messages

More "x" messages

More "why you ignoring my messages your showing on line"

So yeah this is a great addition honestly NOT

but yup deleting messages more and more now

Faqs need updating too

"If you online doesn't mean fuck all""

Oh babes aint we all ment to be sat here opened legged n wet in anticipation of these pussy hungry single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since this was introduced

More "hi" messages

More "x" messages

More "why you ignoring my messages your showing on line"

So yeah this is a great addition honestly NOT

but yup deleting messages more and more now

Faqs need updating too

"If you online doesn't mean fuck all"

Oh babes aint we all ment to be sat here opened legged n wet in anticipation of these pussy hungry single men "

isnt that what fab wants a sex site not a swinging one pmsl

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Seems like a pointless addition to the site.

Why would I need to know if someone is online or not?

If I send a message I don't expect an instant answer, if I did I would use chat. The majority of the time I don't want to answer messages, I leave them until I am in the mood to chat, I mainly read the forums anyway.

Now the ability to appear OFFLINE, that would be a very useful feature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems like a pointless addition to the site.

Why would I need to know if someone is online or not?

If I send a message I don't expect an instant answer, if I did I would use chat. The majority of the time I don't want to answer messages, I leave them until I am in the mood to chat, I mainly read the forums anyway.

Now the ability to appear OFFLINE, that would be a very useful feature"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's a novel idea. ...some of us would like to chat to people that are online. Crazy i know on a site that encourages people to chat and arrange meets.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Now the ability to appear OFFLINE, that would be a very useful feature"

I really really want this feature.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

It makes no business sense at all to have an offline button,the site would appear dead and not worth joining so I can sort of see why we haven't got one

If it was my site I'd want it to look like it was buzzing with activity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since this was introduced

More "hi" messages

More "x" messages

More "why you ignoring my messages your showing on line"

So yeah this is a great addition honestly NOT

but yup deleting messages more and more now

Faqs need updating too

"If you online doesn't mean fuck all"

Oh babes aint we all ment to be sat here opened legged n wet in anticipation of these pussy hungry single men

isnt that what fab wants a sex site not a swinging one pmsl"

Nawty sexually liberated women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's a novel idea. ...some of us would like to chat to people that are online. Crazy i know on a site that encourages people to chat and arrange meets. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes no business sense at all to have an offline button,the site would appear dead and not worth joining so I can sort of see why we haven't got one

If it was my site I'd want it to look like it was buzzing with activity "

Will appear even more dead if and when people cotton in to the hiding profile bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes no business sense at all to have an offline button,the site would appear dead and not worth joining so I can sort of see why we haven't got one

If it was my site I'd want it to look like it was buzzing with activity

Will appear even more dead if and when people cotton in to the hiding profile bit.

"

I really don't think that many people are that bothered. A few whiny people on the forum maybe. ..but then many on the forum aren't actually looking to meet people anyway so it really doesn't make that much difference.

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By *rs TootyWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Very useful but I agree with others , we should be able to opt in or out. J x"

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


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I really don't think that many people are that bothered. A few whiny people on the forum maybe. ..but then many on the forum aren't actually looking to meet people anyway so it really doesn't make that much difference. "

And just who is that dig aimed at this time? Are people not allowed an opinion unless it matches yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I really don't think that many people are that bothered. A few whiny people on the forum maybe. ..but then many on the forum aren't actually looking to meet people anyway so it really doesn't make that much difference.

And just who is that dig aimed at this time? Are people not allowed an opinion unless it matches yours? "

not a dig at anyone. Just pointing out that the forum doesn't represent how the majority use the site as they are more likely to be here "just chatting"etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thumbs up from Us admin doing a sterling job good on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes no business sense at all to have an offline button,the site would appear dead and not worth joining so I can sort of see why we haven't got one

If it was my site I'd want it to look like it was buzzing with activity

Will appear even more dead if and when people cotton in to the hiding profile bit.

I really don't think that many people are that bothered. A few whiny people on the forum maybe. ..but then many on the forum aren't actually looking to meet people anyway so it really doesn't make that much difference. "

Is that aimed at me ? I don't have to explain what I use this site for to anyone as long as it is within the rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's a novel idea. ...some of us would like to chat to people that are online. Crazy i know on a site that encourages people to chat and arrange meets. "

It's not crazy at all , what is crazy is not giving the option to opt out. That way everyone will be happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes no business sense at all to have an offline button,the site would appear dead and not worth joining so I can sort of see why we haven't got one

If it was my site I'd want it to look like it was buzzing with activity

Will appear even more dead if and when people cotton in to the hiding profile bit.

I really don't think that many people are that bothered. A few whiny people on the forum maybe. ..but then many on the forum aren't actually looking to meet people anyway so it really doesn't make that much difference.

Is that aimed at me ? I don't have to explain what I use this site for to anyone as long as it is within the rules. "

As i said not aimed at anyone in particular just that those that aren't using the site to chat and meet will have a problem with it but that is hardly the fault of the site.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"It makes no business sense at all to have an offline button,the site would appear dead and not worth joining so I can sort of see why we haven't got one

If it was my site I'd want it to look like it was buzzing with activity

Will appear even more dead if and when people cotton in to the hiding profile bit.

I really don't think that many people are that bothered. A few whiny people on the forum maybe. ..but then many on the forum aren't actually looking to meet people anyway so it really doesn't make that much difference.

Is that aimed at me ? I don't have to explain what I use this site for to anyone as long as it is within the rules.

As i said not aimed at anyone in particular just that those that aren't using the site to chat and meet will have a problem with it but that is hardly the fault of the site. "

Well I have a problem with it, how the bloody hell do you know how I use the site? I am here to meet, how and who I meet is my business, not someone else's perceived ideas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes no business sense at all to have an offline button,the site would appear dead and not worth joining so I can sort of see why we haven't got one

If it was my site I'd want it to look like it was buzzing with activity

Will appear even more dead if and when people cotton in to the hiding profile bit.

I really don't think that many people are that bothered. A few whiny people on the forum maybe. ..but then many on the forum aren't actually looking to meet people anyway so it really doesn't make that much difference.

Is that aimed at me ? I don't have to explain what I use this site for to anyone as long as it is within the rules.

As i said not aimed at anyone in particular just that those that aren't using the site to chat and meet will have a problem with it but that is hardly the fault of the site.

Well I have a problem with it, how the bloody hell do you know how I use the site? I am here to meet, how and who I meet is my business, not someone else's perceived ideas! "

Wow. You are getting very worked up over something very trivial.

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By *ugby 123 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Ok this is getting out of hand now. This is feedback for Admin so they can see how it has been taken and not to argue on and get aggressive

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"It makes no business sense at all to have an offline button,the site would appear dead and not worth joining so I can sort of see why we haven't got one

If it was my site I'd want it to look like it was buzzing with activity

Will appear even more dead if and when people cotton in to the hiding profile bit.

I really don't think that many people are that bothered. A few whiny people on the forum maybe. ..but then many on the forum aren't actually looking to meet people anyway so it really doesn't make that much difference.

Is that aimed at me ? I don't have to explain what I use this site for to anyone as long as it is within the rules.

As i said not aimed at anyone in particular just that those that aren't using the site to chat and meet will have a problem with it but that is hardly the fault of the site.

Well I have a problem with it, how the bloody hell do you know how I use the site? I am here to meet, how and who I meet is my business, not someone else's perceived ideas!

Wow. You are getting very worked up over something very trivial. "

Because you have made constant snide remarks against every comment made by people who don't like the new feature. If you like it then great, if I don't like then great also, the site owners asked for opinions and I gave mine. I don't need snide comments made after them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who would have thought a little green dot could cause so much drama

Oh wait, sorry, I forgot where I was.

(Still waiting for my first "I see you're online" message )

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Who would have thought a little green dot could cause so much drama

Oh wait, sorry, I forgot where I was.

(Still waiting for my first "I see you're online" message )"

Me too

Fucking dot don't work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who would have thought a little green dot could cause so much drama

Oh wait, sorry, I forgot where I was.

(Still waiting for my first "I see you're online" message )

Me too

Fucking dot don't work "

I reported mine to admin in the other thread. Mines broken too

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I don't like it - too many messages from men - you are online want naughty chat, and more cock pictures than the kelloggs printing press.

Can we opt out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like it - too many messages from men - you are online want naughty chat, and more cock pictures than the kelloggs printing press.

Can we opt out?"

I think my inbox is broken. I've had nothing like that today. :D

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I don't like it - too many messages from men - you are online want naughty chat, and more cock pictures than the kelloggs printing press.

Can we opt out?"

So not just me then without having to produce a spreadsheet as proof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like it - too many messages from men - you are online want naughty chat, and more cock pictures than the kelloggs printing press.

Can we opt out?

I think my inbox is broken. I've had nothing like that today. :D"

Me either. I've even uploaded a picture and taken my filters off as an experiment. Not a peep. Can my green dot be made bigger please?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"I don't like it - too many messages from men - you are online want naughty chat, and more cock pictures than the kelloggs printing press.

Can we opt out?

So not just me then without having to produce a spreadsheet as proof "

Well as we are in the same area, perhaps the fellas up here have just clicked on to it.

Its so nice to get some support on fab tho

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By *loriajonCouple
over a year ago

near u

It's a great idea.

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth


"I don't like it - too many messages from men - you are online want naughty chat, and more cock pictures than the kelloggs printing press.

Can we opt out?

I think my inbox is broken. I've had nothing like that today. :D

Me either. I've even uploaded a picture and taken my filters off as an experiment. Not a peep. Can my green dot be made bigger please? "

May I suggest you try changing your location to the midlands...... You'll be inundated with stupid messages in no time.

Come on ladies, if you're feeling left out come and join the fun that it loads of messages saying they see you're online

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By *ugby 123 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

As I started the thread some people mailed us by accident....so far 7 people mailed....5 liked, 2 didn't.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

22200 online right now, so only 22193 messages to go Ruggers....

And I know theres 22200 online cos I counted all the green dots.

And still not one feckin' message

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By *verHeadyMan
over a year ago

Cotswolds / SvrnVale / FOD

Great additional feature..? Thanks to the team for all your work behind the scenes and for keeping it real by swingers for swingers

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Have the feature but also have an opt out function that is all

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I don't like it - too many messages from men - you are online want naughty chat, and more cock pictures than the kelloggs printing press.

Can we opt out?

I think my inbox is broken. I've had nothing like that today. :D

Me either. I've even uploaded a picture and taken my filters off as an experiment. Not a peep. Can my green dot be made bigger please?

May I suggest you try changing your location to the midlands...... You'll be inundated with stupid messages in no time.

Come on ladies, if you're feeling left out come and join the fun that it loads of messages saying they see you're online"

I'm in East Midlands,no silly messages yet. I'm old though I probably don't count . I don't think I would stress over it though

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By *ugby 123 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"22200 online right now, so only 22193 messages to go Ruggers....

And I know theres 22200 online cos I counted all the green dots.

And still not one feckin' message "

@ the thought of 22193 messages to go.

None here either saying " I saw you online" and I have purposely left it logged in even when we went out.

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By *ugby 123 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"As I started the thread some people mailed us by accident....so far 7 people mailed....5 liked, 2 didn't."

To clarify, please post your feedback on the thread please

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Great idea...I wondered what it was then realised quickly. Those people mentioning an opt out thing sounds fair enough as well though...Great addition though.

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one has messaged me 'I can see you're online' yet.

They're sticking to the tried and tested 'fancy a f*ck'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I really don't think that many people are that bothered. A few whiny people on the forum maybe. ..but then many on the forum aren't actually looking to meet people anyway so it really doesn't make that much difference.

And just who is that dig aimed at this time? Are people not allowed an opinion unless it matches yours?

not a dig at anyone. Just pointing out that the forum doesn't represent how the majority use the site as they are more likely to be here "just chatting"etc."

What a load of rubbish, I chat in forums daily yet still meet, have you facts and figures to back up your claims that many in the forum don't meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like it it's one of the best updates I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are indifferent about the green dot,still don't really see the point over the "on line now" facility,but if others like it and get excited about it,great.

Now,how about a facility that makes tea,and hot buttered toast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's a novel idea. ...some of us would like to chat to people that are online. Crazy i know on a site that encourages people to chat and arrange meets. "

WOI what is this alien speak???...a sight to encourage meets, rather than people complaining, about green dots?

Under the section - ONLINE, is where the green dot has always kinda been, so I'm not sure why lots are so affronted. But, I'm guessing admin can check and clarify, where others are receiving 20+ extra mails.

Maybe the introduction of some pampas grass, to keep it all balanced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I really don't think that many people are that bothered. A few whiny people on the forum maybe. ..but then many on the forum aren't actually looking to meet people anyway so it really doesn't make that much difference.

And just who is that dig aimed at this time? Are people not allowed an opinion unless it matches yours?

not a dig at anyone. Just pointing out that the forum doesn't represent how the majority use the site as they are more likely to be here "just chatting"etc.

What a load of rubbish, I chat in forums daily yet still meet, have you facts and figures to back up your claims that many in the forum don't meet"

My claim is that forum users are more likely to be here just chatting ....I'm not claiming most forum users don't meet. I'm a forum user that meets so that would be a ridiculous thing to day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think it's a nice touch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I really don't think that many people are that bothered. A few whiny people on the forum maybe. ..but then many on the forum aren't actually looking to meet people anyway so it really doesn't make that much difference.

And just who is that dig aimed at this time? Are people not allowed an opinion unless it matches yours?

not a dig at anyone. Just pointing out that the forum doesn't represent how the majority use the site as they are more likely to be here "just chatting"etc.

What a load of rubbish, I chat in forums daily yet still meet, have you facts and figures to back up your claims that many in the forum don't meet

My claim is that forum users are more likely to be here just chatting ....I'm not claiming most forum users don't meet. I'm a forum user that meets so that would be a ridiculous thing to day! "

What do you base that claim on then as I must have missed the survey asking if I meet or just chat.

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I haven't had any 'I see you're online' either!

I think it works both ways. Ive been using the feature to prioritise who I message back first (out of those Im planning on doing).

I think it's fairly useful but I can see why some don't like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok serious question

if you have blocked someone, im guessing they wont see the green dot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I really don't think that many people are that bothered. A few whiny people on the forum maybe. ..but then many on the forum aren't actually looking to meet people anyway so it really doesn't make that much difference.

And just who is that dig aimed at this time? Are people not allowed an opinion unless it matches yours?

not a dig at anyone. Just pointing out that the forum doesn't represent how the majority use the site as they are more likely to be here "just chatting"etc.

What a load of rubbish, I chat in forums daily yet still meet, have you facts and figures to back up your claims that many in the forum don't meet

My claim is that forum users are more likely to be here just chatting ....I'm not claiming most forum users don't meet. I'm a forum user that meets so that would be a ridiculous thing to day!

What do you base that claim on then as I must have missed the survey asking if I meet or just chat. "

yeah i only use the chatrooms and the forums i never meet (as if)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I really don't think that many people are that bothered. A few whiny people on the forum maybe. ..but then many on the forum aren't actually looking to meet people anyway so it really doesn't make that much difference.

And just who is that dig aimed at this time? Are people not allowed an opinion unless it matches yours?

not a dig at anyone. Just pointing out that the forum doesn't represent how the majority use the site as they are more likely to be here "just chatting"etc.

What a load of rubbish, I chat in forums daily yet still meet, have you facts and figures to back up your claims that many in the forum don't meet

My claim is that forum users are more likely to be here just chatting ....I'm not claiming most forum users don't meet. I'm a forum user that meets so that would be a ridiculous thing to day!

What do you base that claim on then as I must have missed the survey asking if I meet or just chat.

yeah i only use the chatrooms and the forums i never meet (as if)"

What's a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forum user who isn't looking for new meets here *waves*. Just to, y'know, redress the balance.

Although it's a good thing I'm not, because even with my filters wide open I'm still waiting for the onslaught of messages about my online status....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I really don't think that many people are that bothered. A few whiny people on the forum maybe. ..but then many on the forum aren't actually looking to meet people anyway so it really doesn't make that much difference.

And just who is that dig aimed at this time? Are people not allowed an opinion unless it matches yours?

not a dig at anyone. Just pointing out that the forum doesn't represent how the majority use the site as they are more likely to be here "just chatting"etc.

What a load of rubbish, I chat in forums daily yet still meet, have you facts and figures to back up your claims that many in the forum don't meet

My claim is that forum users are more likely to be here just chatting ....I'm not claiming most forum users don't meet. I'm a forum user that meets so that would be a ridiculous thing to day!

What do you base that claim on then as I must have missed the survey asking if I meet or just chat. "

When you provide the figures confirming all this extra attention I'll show you my survey results. lol it's a little green dot....seriously!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I really don't think that many people are that bothered. A few whiny people on the forum maybe. ..but then many on the forum aren't actually looking to meet people anyway so it really doesn't make that much difference.

And just who is that dig aimed at this time? Are people not allowed an opinion unless it matches yours?

not a dig at anyone. Just pointing out that the forum doesn't represent how the majority use the site as they are more likely to be here "just chatting"etc.

What a load of rubbish, I chat in forums daily yet still meet, have you facts and figures to back up your claims that many in the forum don't meet

My claim is that forum users are more likely to be here just chatting ....I'm not claiming most forum users don't meet. I'm a forum user that meets so that would be a ridiculous thing to day!

What do you base that claim on then as I must have missed the survey asking if I meet or just chat.

When you provide the figures confirming all this extra attention I'll show you my survey results. lol it's a little green dot....seriously!! "

Not once have I mentioned getting any extra attention. Maybe you should look before writing.

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By *ugby 123 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

OK can we keep this to what it was intended for rather than arguing whether you meet or not.

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By *ILLxxxMan
over a year ago

Durham

Great new feature, well done guys

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By *B1993Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

I like it too

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By *rMrsAdriaCouple
over a year ago

Gosport

I like it but think if you are in stealth mode it shouldn't show the green dot on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it but think if you are in stealth mode it shouldn't show the green dot on your profile. "

ooo i like that idea

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I like it but think if you are in stealth mode it shouldn't show the green dot on your profile.

ooo i like that idea"

This could be a good compromise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it but think if you are in stealth mode it shouldn't show the green dot on your profile.

ooo i like that idea

This could be a good compromise "

who mentioned compromise NO

i want to be able to have its offline, online and invisible

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

Please remove it, or give us the option not to have it, dont think it has been thought through properly, think there are many other parts of the site people have asked to improve you could have spent time on rather than this, we would like to opt out of it please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please remove it, or give us the option not to have it, dont think it has been thought through properly, think there are many other parts of the site people have asked to improve you could have spent time on rather than this, we would like to opt out of it please."

I would like to have the option to not have the green dot. I have had several messages this morning assuming that u want to meet just because I appear as being online. Which is fine sometimes but would be nice to switch it off too

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

To those who don't want the dot to show because they don't want messages (or for any other reason), you can do this via your privacy page, "hide profile" and the green dot won't show

We're continuing to monitor this and all feedback good and bad is appreciated

Admin x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To those who don't want the dot to show because they don't want messages (or for any other reason), you can do this via your privacy page, "hide profile" and the green dot won't show

We're continuing to monitor this and all feedback good and bad is appreciated

Admin x"

Thats Crap and you know it

why should i hide profile if im looking to meet, i dont need a green dot to tell me im online and chatting shit

or is this a way to get more number owners

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By *rMrsAdriaCouple
over a year ago

Gosport


"To those who don't want the dot to show because they don't want messages (or for any other reason), you can do this via your privacy page, "hide profile" and the green dot won't show

We're continuing to monitor this and all feedback good and bad is appreciated

Admin x"

But we don't want to hide our profile. We just don't want the extra messages because we are showing online. Surely if in stealth mode that should include the green dot not showing?

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"To those who don't want the dot to show because they don't want messages (or for any other reason), you can do this via your privacy page, "hide profile" and the green dot won't show

We're continuing to monitor this and all feedback good and bad is appreciated

Admin x"

I dont want to hide my profile, I just want it as it was before this green dot came along, without the extra "you are online why havent you replied" messages, and "I see you are online so I presume you are looking to meet" etc etc, I still want my profile viewable but exactly as it was before, ever heard the saying if its not broke dont fix it.

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By *rMrsAdriaCouple
over a year ago

Gosport


"To those who don't want the dot to show because they don't want messages (or for any other reason), you can do this via your privacy page, "hide profile" and the green dot won't show

We're continuing to monitor this and all feedback good and bad is appreciated

Admin x

I dont want to hide my profile, I just want it as it was before this green dot came along, without the extra "you are online why havent you replied" messages, and "I see you are online so I presume you are looking to meet" etc etc, I still want my profile viewable but exactly as it was before, ever heard the saying if its not broke dont fix it."

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By *emini1637Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Maybe you should add the option to 'appear offline' instead of having to hide profiles if we don't want to visible the whole time!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I had a quick coffee with someone at lunchtime as a result of the green dot function. So I rather like it. :D

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By *helsea 22Woman
over a year ago

barnsley


"Who would have thought a little green dot could cause so much drama

Oh wait, sorry, I forgot where I was.

(Still waiting for my first "I see you're online" message )"

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who would have thought a little green dot could cause so much drama

Oh wait, sorry, I forgot where I was.

(Still waiting for my first "I see you're online" message ) "

No joke....I'm still waiting for one and I had a photo in most fabbed and everything

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

I like it, it means going through my inbox I can see who's on line

You show when you're online if you're on someones hotlist or they do a search while you are on line,

The chancer emails tend to come from those using the search function I find, so the dot doesn't really make that much difference In tterms of unwanted messages

I do have to laugh on here sometimes at the knickers that get twisted over things lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To those who don't want the dot to show because they don't want messages (or for any other reason), you can do this via your privacy page, "hide profile" and the green dot won't show

We're continuing to monitor this and all feedback good and bad is appreciated

Admin x

Thats Crap and you know it

why should i hide profile if im looking to meet, i dont need a green dot to tell me im online and chatting shit

or is this a way to get more number owners "

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"To those who don't want the dot to show because they don't want messages (or for any other reason), you can do this via your privacy page, "hide profile" and the green dot won't show

We're continuing to monitor this and all feedback good and bad is appreciated

Admin x"

I really wouldn't have expected such a suggestion from the site owners themselves, due to an update that I have never even seen anyone request! Just seems very flippant to me.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We are in the "good idea... but would like an opt in/out option too" brigade.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what a great idea to bring more time wasters and more fakes to the site

great lets implement a green dot

shame thou as the opt button id love

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By *outhEastPaulMan
over a year ago

Thames Ditton surrey

Well I must be totally missing something here - when you look at profiles from a search or hotlist or whatever it says "online" or nothing if not the case - only time I see green dot is in home page - Something about nothing me thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what a great idea to bring more time wasters and more fakes to the site

great lets implement a green dot

shame thou as the opt button id love"

How is it going to bring more time wasters or fakes to the site? They'd have to join the site to even know of the existence of the mighty green dot in the first place.

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By *ugby 123 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"what a great idea to bring more time wasters and more fakes to the site

great lets implement a green dot

shame thou as the opt button id love"

I think you are clutching at straws now as to why you think it should have an opt out button. You don't need to do that, just making your feelings known is good enough and you have done that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The green dot is fine, it's the red cross-hairs you have to watch out for... lol.

Seriously, I think the green dot is a good idea.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"To those who don't want the dot to show because they don't want messages (or for any other reason), you can do this via your privacy page, "hide profile" and the green dot won't show

We're continuing to monitor this and all feedback good and bad is appreciated

Admin x"

I don't want to hide my profile. If I am doing that, I'd be as well to leave the site - and thats one less single female on here, which affects the balance on the site too - granted only one, but still. I want to me able to search for meets and message people, I just want to have control over my on site visibility for being on or offline. An opt out - same as we can opt out of showing in the who looked would be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has the green dot thingy gone .. I can't see any today? .. I was liking them lol!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Has the green dot thingy gone .. I can't see any today? .. I was liking them lol!"

Its showing on messages but not on friendslist etc. I suppose because it already shows when they're online.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"To those who don't want the dot to show because they don't want messages (or for any other reason), you can do this via your privacy page, "hide profile" and the green dot won't show

We're continuing to monitor this and all feedback good and bad is appreciated

Admin x

I really wouldn't have expected such a suggestion from the site owners themselves, due to an update that I have never even seen anyone request! Just seems very flippant to me."

And somehow or another I really don't think the feedback will be taken on board at all, especially with suggesting the 'if you don't like, then just hide your profile' seems to be what your site is trying to not promote does it not? As it will be mainly single females hiding and then the men will just be moaning more as less females to choose from, or is my business acumen shot, as if I have to hide, I will have no need to upload pics and therefore stop site supporter as I will no longer need the site supporter in order to upload additional pics as a hidden profile wont have the need for them in the first place.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"To those who don't want the dot to show because they don't want messages (or for any other reason), you can do this via your privacy page, "hide profile" and the green dot won't show

We're continuing to monitor this and all feedback good and bad is appreciated

Admin x

I really wouldn't have expected such a suggestion from the site owners themselves, due to an update that I have never even seen anyone request! Just seems very flippant to me.

And somehow or another I really don't think the feedback will be taken on board at all, especially with suggesting the 'if you don't like, then just hide your profile' seems to be what your site is trying to not promote does it not? As it will be mainly single females hiding and then the men will just be moaning more as less females to choose from, or is my business acumen shot, as if I have to hide, I will have no need to upload pics and therefore stop site supporter as I will no longer need the site supporter in order to upload additional pics as a hidden profile wont have the need for them in the first place."

No point being a supporter and hiding profile... will affect things like looked at me, and I'll stop browsing as the ability to hide from that is site supporter only if I remember right...?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"

No point being a supporter and hiding profile... will affect things like looked at me, and I'll stop browsing as the ability to hide from that is site supporter only if I remember right...?"

Good points I hadn't even thought of! Well done, so no point being here really then never mind being a site supporter with a hidden profile as site supporter really doesn't work while being hidden...just doesn't work does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To those who don't want the dot to show because they don't want messages (or for any other reason), you can do this via your privacy page, "hide profile" and the green dot won't show

We're continuing to monitor this and all feedback good and bad is appreciated

Admin x

I really wouldn't have expected such a suggestion from the site owners themselves, due to an update that I have never even seen anyone request! Just seems very flippant to me.

And somehow or another I really don't think the feedback will be taken on board at all, especially with suggesting the 'if you don't like, then just hide your profile' seems to be what your site is trying to not promote does it not? As it will be mainly single females hiding and then the men will just be moaning more as less females to choose from, or is my business acumen shot, as if I have to hide, I will have no need to upload pics and therefore stop site supporter as I will no longer need the site supporter in order to upload additional pics as a hidden profile wont have the need for them in the first place.

No point being a supporter and hiding profile... will affect things like looked at me, and I'll stop browsing as the ability to hide from that is site supporter only if I remember right...?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To those who don't want the dot to show because they don't want messages (or for any other reason), you can do this via your privacy page, "hide profile" and the green dot won't show

We're continuing to monitor this and all feedback good and bad is appreciated

Admin x

I really wouldn't have expected such a suggestion from the site owners themselves, due to an update that I have never even seen anyone request! Just seems very flippant to me.

And somehow or another I really don't think the feedback will be taken on board at all, especially with suggesting the 'if you don't like, then just hide your profile' seems to be what your site is trying to not promote does it not? As it will be mainly single females hiding and then the men will just be moaning more as less females to choose from, or is my business acumen shot, as if I have to hide, I will have no need to upload pics and therefore stop site supporter as I will no longer need the site supporter in order to upload additional pics as a hidden profile wont have the need for them in the first place.

No point being a supporter and hiding profile... will affect things like looked at me, and I'll stop browsing as the ability to hide from that is site supporter only if I remember right...?"

What stealth mode doesn't work unless a site supporter ? I didnt know that , shit

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"What stealth mode doesn't work unless a site supporter ? I didnt know that , shit "

Stealth mode works for everyone. Its the looked at me list that only site supporters have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What stealth mode doesn't work unless a site supporter ? I didnt know that , shit

Stealth mode works for everyone. Its the looked at me list that only site supporters have."

Cheers ears , I had a panic and checked. Phew all good on that point.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"To those who don't want the dot to show because they don't want messages (or for any other reason), you can do this via your privacy page, "hide profile" and the green dot won't show

We're continuing to monitor this and all feedback good and bad is appreciated

Admin x

I really wouldn't have expected such a suggestion from the site owners themselves, due to an update that I have never even seen anyone request! Just seems very flippant to me.

And somehow or another I really don't think the feedback will be taken on board at all, especially with suggesting the 'if you don't like, then just hide your profile' seems to be what your site is trying to not promote does it not? As it will be mainly single females hiding and then the men will just be moaning more as less females to choose from, or is my business acumen shot, as if I have to hide, I will have no need to upload pics and therefore stop site supporter as I will no longer need the site supporter in order to upload additional pics as a hidden profile wont have the need for them in the first place.

No point being a supporter and hiding profile... will affect things like looked at me, and I'll stop browsing as the ability to hide from that is site supporter only if I remember right...?

"

But the helpful advise of hiding will be taken onboard until my site supporter pass runs out or the site owners acknowledge their error or not as the case may be and whilst we may be in the minority, until I can control the green dot I will hide and therefore miss out but hey ho we all know how stubborn women can be and if we have to leave then so be it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just find it all really silly. I have no problem at all with people liking it I just want it to be like most things on here an option

Win win all round then.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I just find it all really silly. I have no problem at all with people liking it I just want it to be like most things on here an option

Win win all round then. "

Ok maybe I wont leave if I can still stealth mode without site supporter all other features are null and void and wont be required with a hidden profile and therefore site supporter not required

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

yes I like it,great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just find it all really silly. I have no problem at all with people liking it I just want it to be like most things on here an option

Win win all round then.

Ok maybe I wont leave if I can still stealth mode without site supporter all other features are null and void and wont be required with a hidden profile and therefore site supporter not required "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big fuss over nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daft idea and pointless too. Be better off spending time on a call a mod thing in the chat rooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sure the question has been already asked but , Why ? Appear offline option would of been a lot better surely. That way you can just chat to the people you want without having to answer other messages

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone


"To those who don't want the dot to show because they don't want messages (or for any other reason), you can do this via your privacy page, "hide profile" and the green dot won't show

We're continuing to monitor this and all feedback good and bad is appreciated

Admin x

I don't want to hide my profile. If I am doing that, I'd be as well to leave the site - and thats one less single female on here, which affects the balance on the site too - granted only one, but still. I want to me able to search for meets and message people, I just want to have control over my on site visibility for being on or offline. An opt out - same as we can opt out of showing in the who looked would be fine."

Are you looking for an opt out for all "online now" or just for the green dot?

If there was a new privacy option just like "hide profile" that worked the same as it does, but was called "don't show in online lists or search" and didn't hide your profile text is that what you're looking for here?

Please keep the feedback coming everyone

Admin x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"If there was a new privacy option just like "hide profile" that worked the same as it does, but was called "don't show in online lists or search" and didn't hide your profile text is that what you're looking for here?

Please keep the feedback coming everyone

Admin x"

What I'd rather have was an option that I could tick which shows me offline when I am online, but your suggestion would be a compromise I can live with.

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone


"If there was a new privacy option just like "hide profile" that worked the same as it does, but was called "don't show in online lists or search" and didn't hide your profile text is that what you're looking for here?

Please keep the feedback coming everyone

Admin x

What I'd rather have was an option that I could tick which shows me offline when I am online, but your suggestion would be a compromise I can live with. "

and the reason for this is so you don't get mails from people who see you online? But you'd still like your profile text to be visible? Is that correct?

Admin x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To those who don't want the dot to show because they don't want messages (or for any other reason), you can do this via your privacy page, "hide profile" and the green dot won't show

We're continuing to monitor this and all feedback good and bad is appreciated

Admin x

I don't want to hide my profile. If I am doing that, I'd be as well to leave the site - and thats one less single female on here, which affects the balance on the site too - granted only one, but still. I want to me able to search for meets and message people, I just want to have control over my on site visibility for being on or offline. An opt out - same as we can opt out of showing in the who looked would be fine.

Are you looking for an opt out for all "online now" or just for the green dot?

If there was a new privacy option just like "hide profile" that worked the same as it does, but was called "don't show in online lists or search" and didn't hide your profile text is that what you're looking for here?

Please keep the feedback coming everyone

Admin x"

This sounds like a good idea. Sometimes I just want to sneak on and off without getting noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all, Am i missing something here , if i am searching for people on-line then i look at the who.s on-line? as to the green dot its just a tool to help highlight people who are on line. receiving to many message's from single men, most are the short "can i fuk you" easy to spot and delete ...connie xx

PS can we have a tick box in search for verified by meeting..please

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone


"

This sounds like a good idea. Sometimes I just want to sneak on and off without getting noticed "

Have you tried hiding your profile? Or do you still want your profile text visible?

We're just trying to understand the subtleties of this.

Admin x

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone


"

PS can we have a tick box in search for verified by meeting..please"

Yes, it's already there at the bottom of the advanced search page

Admin x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This sounds like a good idea. Sometimes I just want to sneak on and off without getting noticed

Have you tried hiding your profile? Or do you still want your profile text visible?

We're just trying to understand the subtleties of this.

Admin x"

I don't like hiding my profile unless I am not going to be online for a few days or more, so just to show offline now and again would be useful.

Thanks x

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone


"

This sounds like a good idea. Sometimes I just want to sneak on and off without getting noticed

Have you tried hiding your profile? Or do you still want your profile text visible?

We're just trying to understand the subtleties of this.

Admin x

I don't like hiding my profile unless I am not going to be online for a few days or more, so just to show offline now and again would be useful.

Thanks x"

So if the "hide online" (or indeed, the hide profile) thing had a "hide me for next hour (or whatever)" so it reset itself would that be useful to you?

Admin x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This sounds like a good idea. Sometimes I just want to sneak on and off without getting noticed

Have you tried hiding your profile? Or do you still want your profile text visible?

We're just trying to understand the subtleties of this.

Admin x

I don't like hiding my profile unless I am not going to be online for a few days or more, so just to show offline now and again would be useful.

Thanks x

So if the "hide online" (or indeed, the hide profile) thing had a "hide me for next hour (or whatever)" so it reset itself would that be useful to you?

Admin x"

Yes, that would be great if it was possible! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This sounds like a good idea. Sometimes I just want to sneak on and off without getting noticed

Have you tried hiding your profile? Or do you still want your profile text visible?

We're just trying to understand the subtleties of this.

Admin x

I don't like hiding my profile unless I am not going to be online for a few days or more, so just to show offline now and again would be useful.

Thanks x

So if the "hide online" (or indeed, the hide profile) thing had a "hide me for next hour (or whatever)" so it reset itself would that be useful to you?

Admin x

Yes, that would be great if it was possible! x"

Preferably to show offline though as people on your friends list or if you are on their hotlist still show you as online even if your profile is hidden x

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone


"

This sounds like a good idea. Sometimes I just want to sneak on and off without getting noticed

Have you tried hiding your profile? Or do you still want your profile text visible?

We're just trying to understand the subtleties of this.

Admin x

I don't like hiding my profile unless I am not going to be online for a few days or more, so just to show offline now and again would be useful.

Thanks x

So if the "hide online" (or indeed, the hide profile) thing had a "hide me for next hour (or whatever)" so it reset itself would that be useful to you?

Admin x

Yes, that would be great if it was possible! x

Preferably to show offline though as people on your friends list or if you are on their hotlist still show you as online even if your profile is hidden x"

But if we changed hide profile so it hid them from those lists too presumably that would be OK?

Adminx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"If there was a new privacy option just like "hide profile" that worked the same as it does, but was called "don't show in online lists or search" and didn't hide your profile text is that what you're looking for here?

Please keep the feedback coming everyone

Admin x

What I'd rather have was an option that I could tick which shows me offline when I am online, but your suggestion would be a compromise I can live with.

and the reason for this is so you don't get mails from people who see you online? But you'd still like your profile text to be visible? Is that correct?

Admin x"

Yes. I know people think its weird but showing online means I get messages. Hiding my profile means I get messages from people asking why I've hidden my profile. Even if its temporary, it would be great to log in, check messages and updates, then log out without 25 messages being there when I next log in!

Hiding profiles may seem a simple fix but you also have to remember to filter messages, hide all pics, and several other things. then you have to remember to reverse all of that when you want to show. One tick box I can tick to say 'show offline', even only temporarily, would be great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

PS can we have a tick box in search for verified by meeting..please

Yes, it's already there at the bottom of the advanced search page

Admin x"

nope there's one for "That have been verified genuine" which means cam or meet. I would like to only search for verified by meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there was a new privacy option just like "hide profile" that worked the same as it does, but was called "don't show in online lists or search" and didn't hide your profile text is that what you're looking for here?

Please keep the feedback coming everyone

Admin x

What I'd rather have was an option that I could tick which shows me offline when I am online, but your suggestion would be a compromise I can live with.

and the reason for this is so you don't get mails from people who see you online? But you'd still like your profile text to be visible? Is that correct?

Admin x"

Yes yes yes perfect

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone


"If there was a new privacy option just like "hide profile" that worked the same as it does, but was called "don't show in online lists or search" and didn't hide your profile text is that what you're looking for here?

Please keep the feedback coming everyone

Admin x

What I'd rather have was an option that I could tick which shows me offline when I am online, but your suggestion would be a compromise I can live with.

and the reason for this is so you don't get mails from people who see you online? But you'd still like your profile text to be visible? Is that correct?

Admin x

Yes. I know people think its weird but showing online means I get messages. Hiding my profile means I get messages from people asking why I've hidden my profile. Even if its temporary, it would be great to log in, check messages and updates, then log out without 25 messages being there when I next log in!

Hiding profiles may seem a simple fix but you also have to remember to filter messages, hide all pics, and several other things. then you have to remember to reverse all of that when you want to show. One tick box I can tick to say 'show offline', even only temporarily, would be great."

Are you sure you're getting the messages because you're online? Would a "stop messages" work better?

Admin x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This sounds like a good idea. Sometimes I just want to sneak on and off without getting noticed

Have you tried hiding your profile? Or do you still want your profile text visible?

We're just trying to understand the subtleties of this.

Admin x"

Still want profile text in show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there was a new privacy option just like "hide profile" that worked the same as it does, but was called "don't show in online lists or search" and didn't hide your profile text is that what you're looking for here?

Please keep the feedback coming everyone

Admin x

What I'd rather have was an option that I could tick which shows me offline when I am online, but your suggestion would be a compromise I can live with.

and the reason for this is so you don't get mails from people who see you online? But you'd still like your profile text to be visible? Is that correct?

Admin x

Yes. I know people think its weird but showing online means I get messages. Hiding my profile means I get messages from people asking why I've hidden my profile. Even if its temporary, it would be great to log in, check messages and updates, then log out without 25 messages being there when I next log in!

Hiding profiles may seem a simple fix but you also have to remember to filter messages, hide all pics, and several other things. then you have to remember to reverse all of that when you want to show. One tick box I can tick to say 'show offline', even only temporarily, would be great."

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I still want my profile text and pictures to show, so I can still search and look to meet, but I want to be able to opt out of showing as online so I can control my site visibility that way.

I don't want to hide my profile as then I would not be able to meet, but a way to switch off the green button would be very helpful.

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone


"I still want my profile text and pictures to show, so I can still search and look to meet, but I want to be able to opt out of showing as online so I can control my site visibility that way.

I don't want to hide my profile as then I would not be able to meet, but a way to switch off the green button would be very helpful."

All useful feedback

Admin x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it ??

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