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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a relative newbie and not a hardened swinger I'm interested in some soft swing meets with some friendly people. My impression from reading profiles is that many members are rude, demanding and dismissive of newbies. Hardly a welcome! I wonder if there could be a filter for members to say if they're prepared to meet newbies? It would help save embarrassment all round. Just a thought?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a relative newbie and not a hardened swinger I'm interested in some soft swing meets with some friendly people. My impression from reading profiles is that many members are rude, demanding and dismissive of newbies. Hardly a welcome! I wonder if there could be a filter for members to say if they're prepared to meet newbies? It would help save embarrassment all round. Just a thought?"

What gives you that impression? I really don't see any prejudice being expressed towards new folk.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World


"As a relative newbie and not a hardened swinger I'm interested in some soft swing meets with some friendly people. My impression from reading profiles is that many members are rude, demanding and dismissive of newbies. Hardly a welcome! I wonder if there could be a filter for members to say if they're prepared to meet newbies? It would help save embarrassment all round. Just a thought?

What gives you that impression? I really don't see any prejudice being expressed towards new folk."

There are quite a few threads at the moment about can we have filters to stop new/un-veried from viewing our profile, unable to mail our profile. Shouldn't newbies be able to send x amount of messages etc etc

There isn't at the moment, but just read the profile, see if you potentially match and send a message that consists of more than hi, hows you?

It is a numbers game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a relative newbie and not a hardened swinger I'm interested in some soft swing meets with some friendly people. My impression from reading profiles is that many members are rude, demanding and dismissive of newbies. Hardly a welcome! I wonder if there could be a filter for members to say if they're prepared to meet newbies? It would help save embarrassment all round. Just a thought?

What gives you that impression? I really don't see any prejudice being expressed towards new folk.

There are quite a few threads at the moment about can we have filters to stop new/un-veried from viewing our profile, unable to mail our profile. Shouldn't newbies be able to send x amount of messages etc etc

There isn't at the moment, but just read the profile, see if you potentially match and send a message that consists of more than hi, hows you?

It is a numbers game "

What does a crap message have to do with whether the sender is new?

And if some folk would prefer not to receive messages from new members, that is fine. I would prefer not to receive messages from hairy blokes but there are many people on here with many preferences and we can't please everyone all of the time.

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