FabSwingers.com forum: No Thanks button

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

AS a single male, have had more than a few knockbacks on this site. However, less knockbacks than mail messages I have sent. Some people just don't bother with the courtesy to say "No thanks". How about a button that appears whenever you open a mail that simply allows the reader to click and a "no thanks" response is automatically sent to the sender with very little effort from the reader.

Still won't cut out all the people who ignore messages, but am sure people would prefer this to having to write a response if they are not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

next you will be asking for a yes please button

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not at all. I'd hope if someone was interested, they'd be willing to offer more than "Yes please".

I mean, not as if am an ugly fook. I shave my forehead daily, clean pants on once a week whether I need them or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Would an automated no thanks actually make anyone feel better

It means as much as if you were not replied to at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would an automated no thanks actually make anyone feel better

It means as much as if you were not replied to at all"

i think it would make it 10times worse that you aren't the persons/couples type and then using the big no button will make there confidence go down

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We can't all be attractive to each other. A simple no thanks is surely not a difficult thing to take? Better than being ignored completely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We can't all be attractive to each other. A simple no thanks is surely not a difficult thing to take? Better than being ignored completely."

trust me some people cant take a simple no thanks

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

A site we are on people complained of the auto No thanks button as they didn't write it themselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Then that's what the block is for.

I'd never ignore a message, no matter who it is from. Happy to block though if pestered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A site we are on people complained of the auto No thanks button as they didn't write it themselves

Yep,we are also on another site and people complain if they recieve an auto no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Then that's what the block is for.

I'd never ignore a message, no matter who it is from. Happy to block though if pestered."

im happy to use the block button also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, its nice to told no thanx rather than just be ignored....BUT after saying it about 56435 times, it gets bit tedious....

If the guy has taken NO NOTICE of my preferences in my profile, he deserves to be ignored just as he has ignored my wishes!!!

If he ticks all the boxes and im still not interested I will always say so....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe an individual automatic message we could customize and save.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe an individual automatic message we could customize and save."

Ooh now we are getting in to the relms of cut and paste lol and how many complaints o you get about that !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now then cut and paste, the poor mans auto reply...lol

now an auto destruct button where the unfortunate ceases to exist for having the affront to send an unsolicited message..........magnitude better than delete and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

plus it makes it all too easy just to say no... rather than take a short time to write it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that's the point of the original question? The fact that people DON'T take a short time to write it.

I'm all for a no thanks button.

Mindst you....theres a lot of functionality built into this site for members use....such as the wink button or invite as a friend. All controllable next to the profile you're interested at looking at....so presumably for your use. Yet how many profiles do you read, dictating to members NOT to wink, NOT to invite me as a friend, until you've messaged me and when you do message, you don't get a reply....and round and round it goes lol

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By *eviousLiasonsCouple
over a year ago

Travelling

Surely it is pretty obvious tho....??

No Reply = No thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear ya fella

but I was answering the question raised.

Should there be a function button for it?

I agreed it would be a good idea

Or pander to the disfunctional who can't be bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Surely it is pretty obvious tho....??

No Reply = No thanks

You'd think so wouldn't you? Obviously not!!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

This question is often asked, almost always by single men - who may get 3 or 4 messages a day if they're lucky.

Some ladies get dozens of messages a dayn many of whom are incompatible with them in some way.

So who's being rude? The person sending a rubbish message, or the person not saying "thanks very much but I don't fancy you"?

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"This question is often asked, almost always by single men - who may get 3 or 4 messages a day if they're lucky.

Some ladies get dozens of messages a dayn many of whom are incompatible with them in some way.

So who's being rude? The person sending a rubbish message, or the person not saying "thanks very much but I don't fancy you"?

... 3 or 4 messages a day?? What planet? I'd think I hit the lottery if I got that many a week!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"... 3 or 4 messages a day?? What planet? I'd think I hit the lottery if I got that many a week!

Liar, liar, pants on fire...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This question is often asked, almost always by single men - who may get 3 or 4 messages a day if they're lucky.

Some ladies get dozens of messages a dayn many of whom are incompatible with them in some way.

So who's being rude? The person sending a rubbish message, or the person not saying "thanks very much but I don't fancy you"?

and when the pic attached is just a cock pic and nothing but that said cock pic on the profile pretty hard to decide if you are going to fancy them by a cock pic !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indeed not....

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