FabSwingers.com forum: verifications when people leave the sitr

By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

When people leave the site their verification vanishes...it still shows as a meet but the actual verification vanishes....why is that? Could it not show who left it and how long they ere on site etc ?

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes good queston ? Let see if admin repair ???

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Indeed

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Verifications belong to the author, if they leave the site the verification disappears.

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Why...The verification should still be valid even if it says the author has left the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone leaves the site I'm assuming they want everything about fab gone the profile and pics and veris hence why they all disappear

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

But their name could be removed but wording of veri remain

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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago

Warrington & Glasgow

"Yes good queston ? Let see if admin repair ??? "
Repair what??

"It's been discussed a number of times. If I understand correctly, Admin's opinion is that the text of the veri belongs to the person that left it, so, if they go, so does it! Seems reasonable to me!"

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By *inkyCouple1927Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Forum posts stay so the point about belonging to the person is quite invalid...

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forum posts stay so the point about belonging to the person is quite invalid..."
If you click on a forum post that a user has put up but left the site click on the green arrow ( all forum posts have gone)

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"If someone leaves the site I'm assuming they want everything about fab gone the profile and pics and veris hence why they all disappear "

Their messages to you stay though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone leaves the site I'm assuming they want everything about fab gone the profile and pics and veris hence why they all disappear

Their messages to you stay though.."

similar to if you block someone the messages stay annoys me they can see avatar changes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forum posts stay so the point about belonging to the person is quite invalid... If you click on a forum post that a user has put up but left the site click on the green arrow ( all forum posts have gone) "

The green arrow takes you to the posts by that profile.

If that profile is deleted, the system cant take you to them, and throws up a blank screen.

However all the post they did, do still exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The green arrow takes you to the posts by that profile.

If that profile is deleted, the system cant take you to them, and throws up a blank screen.

However all the post they did, do still exist."

indeed. As do messages with UNLOS as user name. No reason why vetifications can't do same.

Reckon I've lost about 100 unlos veris?

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

So will they finally sort this out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gutted as over the last couple of years Iv list some great verifications. I think they should do it like forum post and messages UNLOS. Where your verification stays on your profile

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Completely agree

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

We agree to. Bring back the veris

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"We agree to. Bring back the veris"
thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We lost some good one but don't care to be honest still stays on the summary

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Lose the quote tho and then people think we've hidden for a reason

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By *hyandtwistedCouple
over a year ago

loughborough

Wife was gutted when a guy she spent a whole evening dominating (her first meet alone) left the site and the veri disappeared, would have been nice to have user left the site name instead of dumping the whole veri

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no they wont show the veri but when someone leaves the site they leae their threads on the forum open taking space away from other threads if no op on a thread why keep it running

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"no they wont show the veri but when someone leaves the site they leae their threads on the forum open taking space away from other threads if no op on a thread why keep it running "
eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone leaves the site I'm assuming they want everything about fab gone the profile and pics and veris hence why they all disappear "

So why dont their comments in the forums disappear

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"If someone leaves the site I'm assuming they want everything about fab gone the profile and pics and veris hence why they all disappear

So why dont their comments in the forums disappear "
exactly

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Wife was gutted when a guy she spent a whole evening dominating (her first meet alone) left the site and the veri disappeared, would have been nice to have user left the site name instead of dumping the whole veri"

It's to prevent people getting round the 'not verifying yourself from a fake profile' rule. This way veris are trackable and you can use your own judgement about the profile which left the words you've just read.

A resounding endorsement from someone who you can't check out is no endorsement at all.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

So make an UNLOS veri impossible to display on profile.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"So make an UNLOS veri impossible to display on profile.

It already is. You keep the tick and it stays in your tally on the verification summary but the text is removed.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I know that, I was talking in the circumstances where the text was retained

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes retain the txt!

By all means say person who left was only a member for 5mins (eg Pos fake veri) or years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone leaves the site I'm assuming they want everything about fab gone the profile and pics and veris hence why they all disappear "

But there forum posts don't disappear, user name replaced with UNLOS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone leaves the site I'm assuming they want everything about fab gone the profile and pics and veris hence why they all disappear

So why dont their comments in the forums disappear exactly"

The forum thread would appear disjointed and hard to read If this happened.

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"If someone leaves the site I'm assuming they want everything about fab gone the profile and pics and veris hence why they all disappear

But there forum posts don't disappear, user name replaced with UNLOS"
exactly

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a shame they're not left on as UNLOS... I've lost some of my favourite veris

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Agreed

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a shame they're not left on as UNLOS... I've lost some of my favourite veris

I honestly don't know why they remove it altogether when someone leaves the site.

They are words on a screen. You can't tie that to anyone.

I don't display mine anyway but I like getting them and I've lost some good ones.

Especially when it's someone that you'd consider a friend (s) that have left.

I don't see why it can't just substitute the username with "unlos" instead of wiping out the entire verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people would like the veris to remain why can't you copy and paste them and enter these onto ur profile text therefore it will always remain?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree

keep the veris please

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"If people would like the veris to remain why can't you copy and paste them and enter these onto ur profile text therefore it will always remain?"

Because by the time one finds out that someone has left, the veri has already gone.

And showing verifications might not be what one wants to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why...The verification should still be valid even if it says the author has left the site"

Copy and paste it when you first get it ..keep it somewhere safe if it matters to you

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"It's a shame they're not left on as UNLOS... I've lost some of my favourite veris

I honestly don't know why they remove it altogether when someone leaves the site.

They are words on a screen. You can't tie that to anyone.

I don't display mine anyway but I like getting them and I've lost some good ones.

Especially when it's someone that you'd consider a friend (s) that have left.

I don't see why it can't just substitute the username with "unlos" instead of wiping out the entire verification. "

I quite agree. I have 3 friends, we still meet up occasionally for fun, and e mail each other too. However they got fed up with fabs timewasters and left the fabs site. Their veris of course went too. So now it looks like I havent met anyone for 18mths. Soo annoying.

So please lets leave veris in place when someone leaves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest verifications can sometimes be a load of rubbish...what people say about someone is subjective (for example "best fuck ever") depending on previous experience...people are hardly going to leave crap verification as the profile it was left on will hide it...and also make the person leaving the verification look bad...

It is like leaving consumer reviews about products...some like...some don't ...as everyone has different expectations and preferences...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a shame they're not left on as UNLOS... I've lost some of my favourite veris

I honestly don't know why they remove it altogether when someone leaves the site.

They are words on a screen. You can't tie that to anyone.

I don't display mine anyway but I like getting them and I've lost some good ones.

Especially when it's someone that you'd consider a friend (s) that have left.

I don't see why it can't just substitute the username with "unlos" instead of wiping out the entire verification.

So please lets leave veris in place when someone leaves."

But your summary says you last met 2 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a shame they're not left on as UNLOS... I've lost some of my favourite veris

I honestly don't know why they remove it altogether when someone leaves the site.

They are words on a screen. You can't tie that to anyone.

I don't display mine anyway but I like getting them and I've lost some good ones.

Especially when it's someone that you'd consider a friend (s) that have left.

I don't see why it can't just substitute the username with "unlos" instead of wiping out the entire verification.

So please lets leave veris in place when someone leaves.

But your summary says you last met 2 weeks ago "

Busted lol

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"It's a shame they're not left on as UNLOS... I've lost some of my favourite veris

I honestly don't know why they remove it altogether when someone leaves the site.

They are words on a screen. You can't tie that to anyone.

I don't display mine anyway but I like getting them and I've lost some good ones.

Especially when it's someone that you'd consider a friend (s) that have left.

I don't see why it can't just substitute the username with "unlos" instead of wiping out the entire verification.

So please lets leave veris in place when someone leaves.

But your summary says you last met 2 weeks ago "

I did indeed meet a couple 2 weeks ago well spotted. They left me a veri, then left fabs 2 days ago, and alas the veri went with them. So if you look at my veri list it looks like I haven't met for 18mths but you of course being an observant person now know I have

So maybe veri's aren't so important then?

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It stays on your verification summary even when the individual verification has gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a shame they're not left on as UNLOS... I've lost some of my favourite veris

I honestly don't know why they remove it altogether when someone leaves the site.

They are words on a screen. You can't tie that to anyone.

I don't display mine anyway but I like getting them and I've lost some good ones.

Especially when it's someone that you'd consider a friend (s) that have left.

I don't see why it can't just substitute the username with "unlos" instead of wiping out the entire verification.

So please lets leave veris in place when someone leaves.

But your summary says you last met 2 weeks ago

So maybe veri's aren't so important then?"

Folk get too hung up on veris I use them as just a guide and thats all.

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes but it doesn't show the veri so women assume it's either fake or with a min get or a man! Why can't they show with the name simply changed to user left site?!?!?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forum posts stay so the point about belonging to the person is quite invalid..."

Very valid point. Perhaps Admin can explain why Forum posts (which belong to the author) stay, when Verifications (which belong to the author) have to be removed. Somehow doubt they'll be arsed to though.

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"Forum posts stay so the point about belonging to the person is quite invalid...

Thank you...This has been my question since the start of this thread!!!

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Thank you...This has been my question since the start of this thread!!!"

that made me giggle..

It's a very long thread..maybe not everyone reads it from top to bottom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications belong to the author, if they leave the site the verification disappears.

If author writes a forum post, that remains and username changes to UNLOS can't see why veries can't be same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think when a member leaves the site, there should be an option if they wish to delete verifications or not, not make it default.

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By *o_added_sugarWoman
over a year ago

A club not so many miles away

Their club reviews remain in place as well as the forum posts and it just states they have left the site. So why not verifications?? I believe they should stay. If people didn't want their writings to be read, they wouldn't leave them in the first place. We have a choice if to leave a verification or not. Regardless if we are on the site we write them to be read.

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"I think when a member leaves the site, there should be an option if they wish to delete verifications or not, not make it default."

that's it you are a star. that's the solution give them the option.

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"If people would like the veris to remain why can't you copy and paste them and enter these onto ur profile text therefore it will always remain?"

Coz then people will think u made it up?!?!

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"I think when a member leaves the site, there should be an option if they wish to delete verifications or not, not make it default.

that's it you are a star. that's the solution give them the option. "
agreed

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"Their club reviews remain in place as well as the forum posts and it just states they have left the site. So why not verifications?? I believe they should stay. If people didn't want their writings to be read, they wouldn't leave them in the first place. We have a choice if to leave a verification or not. Regardless if we are on the site we write them to be read.

Thank you...agreed

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"Verifications belong to the author, if they leave the site the verification disappears.

If author writes a forum post, that remains and username changes to UNLOS can't see why veries can't be same"
exactly

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Thank you...This has been my question since the start of this thread!!!

that made me giggle..

It's a very long thread..maybe not everyone reads it from top to bottom?

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lol

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By *ubywants2playCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

This REALLY annoys me!!! Part of our play is me listening to or watching past meets and as part of that I enjoy reading the veris that I left people and that they left me from those meets. It's a huge turn on for me, and it really bothers me when they're removed for no reason.

It's also a pain in the butt that people can't resurrect their old profiles as when most of them come back they naturally ask to be re-verified and naturally re verify us. The only downside is that this skews the summary. I've had the same individuals verify me 2 and 3 times which means the stats are wrong and out of date (I've ended up with up to 3 veris being left on the same day making it look like 3 separate meets on the same day - which isn't something I'd normally entertain!

Come on admin - what do we have to do to convince you?!

R x

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"This REALLY annoys me!!! Part of our play is me listening to or watching past meets and as part of that I enjoy reading the veris that I left people and that they left me from those meets. It's a huge turn on for me, and it really bothers me when they're removed for no reason.

Come on admin - what do we have to do to convince you?!

R x

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Admin what I would really like is for verifications to be done away with completely, never understand why so many think they so blooming important that they want to keep them even from those that left the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications belong to the author, if they leave the site the verification disappears.

They disappear through them leaving yes, they may not object to the verification staying. At the moment there is no option for them to leave people with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why...The verification should still be valid even if it says the author has left the site"

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes, totally agree. Just change the author name to UNLOS, simple as that.

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"Yes, totally agree. Just change the author name to UNLOS, simple as that."
exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone leaves the site I'm assuming they want everything about fab gone the profile and pics and veris hence why they all disappear

So why dont their comments in the forums disappear "
because the reference or veri I give belongs to me,the posts I put on an open forum belonging to fab belong to fab..simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone leaves the site I'm assuming they want everything about fab gone the profile and pics and veris hence why they all disappear

So why dont their comments in the forums disappear because the reference or veri I give belongs to me,the posts I put on an open forum belonging to fab belong to fab..simples"

That is a very good point you make and well put.

I am well verified and when looking at others profiles I use as only a guide and do not take as gospel.

When folk leave fab or even block and verification vanishes so what accept it and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone leaves the site I'm assuming they want everything about fab gone the profile and pics and veris hence why they all disappear

So why dont their comments in the forums disappear because the reference or veri I give belongs to me,the posts I put on an open forum belonging to fab belong to fab..simples

That is a very good point you make and well put.

I am well verified and when looking at others profiles I use as only a guide and do not take as gospel.

When folk leave fab or even block and verification vanishes so what accept it and move on."

Yeah but if you're running around there with a tripodius willyus then you probably don't need the verification as much as the next guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there anyway that the Verification Summary could still list the number of verifications a person has received even if people have left and the text of the verification has been deleted

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Is there anyway that the Verification Summary could still list the number of verifications a person has received even if people have left and the text of the verification has been deleted"

It does.

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"Is there anyway that the Verification Summary could still list the number of verifications a person has received even if people have left and the text of the verification has been deleted

It does."
but doesn't say who left it (not even man woman or whatever) or what they said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone leaves the site I'm assuming they want everything about fab gone the profile and pics and veris hence why they all disappear

So why dont their comments in the forums disappear because the reference or veri I give belongs to me,the posts I put on an open forum belonging to fab belong to fab..simples

That is a very good point you make and well put.

I am well verified and when looking at others profiles I use as only a guide and do not take as gospel.

When folk leave fab or even block and verification vanishes so what accept it and move on.

Yeah but if you're running around there with a tripodius willyus then you probably don't need the verification as much as the next guy

Thats quite funny but my point is I dont take verifications too serious.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Is there anyway that the Verification Summary could still list the number of verifications a person has received even if people have left and the text of the verification has been deleted

It does. but doesn't say who left it (not even man woman or whatever) or what they said"

I was replying to someone about the summary, not the actual verifications.

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

If you block someone or get blocked after you had maybe a fall out for whatever reason you still lose your verifications, it's like deniying you ever met that person, I thought they were about what happend when you met and what you thought of eachother at that meet, whatever happens after, fall out or left site, they should remain

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By *ensualNorthants OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"If you block someone or get blocked after you had maybe a fall out for whatever reason you still lose your verifications, it's like deniying you ever met that person, I thought they were about what happend when you met and what you thought of eachother at that meet, whatever happens after, fall out or left site, they should remain

That's different if blocked prob for a reason so veri should go. But if person jus leaves site it should stay albeit annon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's different if blocked prob for a reason so veri should go. But if person jus leaves site it should stay albeit annon"

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