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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Would it not be a cool idea to be able to show who verried who on someones profile or at leat min how many people you varried.

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By *ougarsandcubsWoman
over a year ago

Medway

Don't understand what you mean ?

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

So i varrified couple x so long as both us publish the verification it appears on both profiles.

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Or have lets say couple x have varied 3 people 1 MF and 2 men for instance.

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By *lttattoocoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

There is a verification summary should people choose too show it and the verifications show who posted them.

Don't really think your adding to that in anyway :/

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By *orgeouslyyoursWoman
over a year ago

essex just looking around

Agree with above I personally. Think the every summary ( not break down. Just numbers ). Should automatically show

Not sure what the point of hiding numbers shows. Other than to let fakes. Players and less honest people find their activities

Ie self proclaimed selective people. That have had more meets than hot dinners. But chose to show 5 verifications ..

If the count was always live as it is on other sites. Everyone would be in same boat

And no one would be disillusioned or conned xx

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Agree with above I personally. Think the every summary ( not break down. Just numbers ). Should automatically show

Not sure what the point of hiding numbers shows. Other than to let fakes. Players and less honest people find their activities

Ie self proclaimed selective people. That have had more meets than hot dinners. But chose to show 5 verifications ..

If the count was always live as it is on other sites. Everyone would be in same boat

And no one would be disillusioned or conned xx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with above I personally. Think the every summary ( not break down. Just numbers ). Should automatically show

Not sure what the point of hiding numbers shows. Other than to let fakes. Players and less honest people find their activities

Ie self proclaimed selective people. That have had more meets than hot dinners. But chose to show 5 verifications ..

If the count was always live as it is on other sites. Everyone would be in same boat

And no one would be disillusioned or conned xx "

All you would achieve, which I know already happens is people asking not to be left verifications to keep numbers down.

Or Closing profiles and starting new ones, again I know this happens.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I don't show my verification summary because it's heading towards 200. And just as some won't meet unverified others won't meet those with 'too many' verifications!

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

What i meant was to have showed how many times you buried other profiles not your veri summary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So i varrified couple x so long as both us publish the verification it appears on both profiles."

It does already if you choose to display it!

You serm to be asking for something we already have!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't show my verification summary because it's heading towards 200. And just as some won't meet unverified others won't meet those with 'too many' verifications! "

I have come across this too....mine has passed 200 (yes I am a fairly average single guy). When you see the 47 whinge posts every week from single guys who get no merts....point them in my direction!

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

How are you so lucky man. Tell me whats your secret lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No secret....this site is awesome if you put in even a little effort and are truthful etc.

Treat members with respect, dont have unrealistic expectations.

Put yourself out there, attend clubs/socials etc. (I also host parties).

Many of my meets now dont show on here. I have 3 ladies who have now left the site....but I still see them. A couple more on the site that we don't bother with verifications etc. And one very special "friend" that i spend 3 out of 4 saturdays with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that you shouldn't be able to hide how many veris you have had as I met a woman who only choose to display 2 veris but it turns out she had met over 200 people !!! I would not have met her had I known this ... Turns my stomach sick !!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I think that you shouldn't be able to hide how many veris you have had as I met a woman who only choose to display 2 veris but it turns out she had met over 200 people !!! I would not have met her had I known this ... Turns my stomach sick !! "

Why?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"What i meant was to have showed how many times you buried other profiles not your veri summary."

but it may not be buried as you like to look at it.... for example... I only show 1 veri from each person (normally the last one.... i dont need this territory marking shit!)

if i meet people at socials and they forget they have already verified me... i'll show the last one and unshow the one before...

for some people... it's all "numbers numbers numbers" they like to read everything into something small......

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I think that you shouldn't be able to hide how many veris you have had as I met a woman who only choose to display 2 veris but it turns out she had met over 200 people !!! I would not have met her had I known this ... Turns my stomach sick !! "

where did the 200 come from..

it may have been 200 from the same social for all you know, and just decided to show 2 of them....

this is why i hate people just seeing a number and creating a narrative which may not be true... thats on you and the way your mind works....

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

It could have been 200 sex meets too, which is exactly what most people are on here for, which is also fine in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It could have been 200 sex meets too, which is exactly what most people are on here for, which is also fine in my eyes "
well said we are a swing site lol mainly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are on a swinging site yes, doesn't mean we can't have personal preferences , I choose to meet people with low veris and ones who have return meets! My choice ! It was over 200 different people in 6 months ... Come on now !!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"We are on a swinging site yes, doesn't mean we can't have personal preferences , I choose to meet people with low veris and ones who have return meets! My choice ! It was over 200 different people in 6 months ... Come on now !!! "

okay....... now going to play devils advocate

so in the world of "Androdameia"

how many meets is too many meets?

or what period of time?

does it matter if they are social meets or play one?

or is it just the flat number?

does it matter if they are repeat meets?

see.... a lot of people just see a number! whether that be 2 or 200.... and make judgements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are on a swinging site yes, doesn't mean we can't have personal preferences , I choose to meet people with low veris and ones who have return meets! My choice ! It was over 200 different people in 6 months ... Come on now !!!

okay....... now going to play devils advocate

so in the world of "Androdameia"

how many meets is too many meets?

or what period of time?

does it matter if they are social meets or play one?

or is it just the flat number?

does it matter if they are repeat meets?

see.... a lot of people just see a number! whether that be 2 or 200.... and make judgements"

Well for me personally if a man or woman has had 200 all of which sexual meets in 6 months, it speaks volumes. And no return meets on that! Safety comes to mind first ! And how many meets have those 200 folk had ... It's not rocket science it's icky and skanky !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad that we don't have to keep a collective tally of all our meets on various websites, contact magazines and socials then, in the 14 years or so I've been at this I couldn't even guesstimate the amount of play meets I've had and that wouldn't be half the social meets I've had either.

Surely we are here to meet and I'm bemused how anyone can say someone's had 200 meet verifications and they were all play ones! Some are so vague you can't tell.

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"No secret....this site is awesome if you put in even a little effort and are truthful etc.

Treat members with respect, dont have unrealistic expectations.

Put yourself out there, attend clubs/socials etc. (I also host parties).

Many of my meets now dont show on here. I have 3 ladies who have now left the site....but I still see them. A couple more on the site that we don't bother with verifications etc. And one very special "friend" that i spend 3 out of 4 saturdays with."

Sounds like i need to get out more then.

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town


"We are on a swinging site yes, doesn't mean we can't have personal preferences , I choose to meet people with low veris and ones who have return meets! My choice ! It was over 200 different people in 6 months ... Come on now !!!

okay....... now going to play devils advocate

so in the world of "Androdameia"

how many meets is too many meets?

or what period of time?

does it matter if they are social meets or play one?

or is it just the flat number?

does it matter if they are repeat meets?

see.... a lot of people just see a number! whether that be 2 or 200.... and make judgements

Well for me personally if a man or woman has had 200 all of which sexual meets in 6 months, it speaks volumes. And no return meets on that! Safety comes to mind first ! And how many meets have those 200 folk had ... It's not rocket science it's icky and skanky !"

Some would say 3 meets in 3 weeks is also icky and skanky!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"

Some would say 3 meets in 3 weeks is also icky and skanky!"

indeed ...glasshouses ...stones !!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"We are on a swinging site yes, doesn't mean we can't have personal preferences , I choose to meet people with low veris and ones who have return meets! My choice ! It was over 200 different people in 6 months ... Come on now !!! "

I wouldn't care how many veris anyone I meet have as long as they don't display the narrow-mindedness this poster does. Suggesting a person is 'icky and skanky' because they choose to use this site to enable them to have an active sex life is mean and petty. OK, personal preference may be for virginal ladies to play with, but dont insult people for not being up to your lofty, and quite frankly unattainable, standards.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Ive got 48 veri's. That is over 6 years of being here. Doesn't mean I have had 48 sexual meets tho.. I have, like many been to various socials and gatherings.

I choose to show the summery so people know I am genuin and not a timewaster.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I think that you shouldn't be able to hide how many veris you have had as I met a woman who only choose to display 2 veris but it turns out she had met over 200 people !!! I would not have met her had I known this ... Turns my stomach sick !! "

Best you not meet anyone then as people can and will choose not to display veri's. I know of a lot of people on here with a lot of veri's that only display one or two recent ones to prove they have been meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with above I personally. Think the every summary ( not break down. Just numbers ). Should automatically show

Not sure what the point of hiding numbers shows. Other than to let fakes. Players and less honest people find their activities

Ie self proclaimed selective people. That have had more meets than hot dinners. But chose to show 5 verifications ..

If the count was always live as it is on other sites. Everyone would be in same boat

And no one would be disillusioned or conned xx "

Dont agree at all with any of that. Why should i show all my veris? Why cant i hide them? Whats the point ib showing veris from years ago if i choose not too? Why wont you band anything that moves on this site?

I can answer all above.... Its called choice!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive got 48 veri's. That is over 6 years of being here. Doesn't mean I have had 48 sexual meets tho.. I have, like many been to various socials and gatherings.

I choose to show the summery so people know I am genuin and not a timewaster. "

snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are on a swinging site yes, doesn't mean we can't have personal preferences , I choose to meet people with low veris and ones who have return meets! My choice ! It was over 200 different people in 6 months ... Come on now !!!

I wouldn't care how many veris anyone I meet have as long as they don't display the narrow-mindedness this poster does. Suggesting a person is 'icky and skanky' because they choose to use this site to enable them to have an active sex life is mean and petty. OK, personal preference may be for virginal ladies to play with, but dont insult people for not being up to your lofty, and quite frankly unattainable, standards. "

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of my verifications are showing except where the person has left the site. I think my veri summary is visible. It is a lot lower than the amount of people I have had sex with from this site. That is without the men I have I didn't meet on here. Anyone who doesn't want a woman who loves sex and is open minded is more than welcome to leave me alone. I don't want that kind of man in my bed

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