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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi,

I know this is like moaning but I think men as newbies on here should be give a shot if not verified just once and fab should put a fake or time waster button on profiles as a option for both men and women

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it's open to abuse.....

'Nsaman is a time waster, was supposed to meet us and didn't turn up. Press his fake button'

Not true of course but you get the problem and the flaw in your suggestion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah it would never ever work

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You think men on here should be given a no questions asked shag? Who would arrange that?

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen


"You think men on here should be given a no questions asked shag? Who would arrange that?"

That's what I wondered

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"You think men on here should be given a no questions asked shag? Who would arrange that?"

the shag fairy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just thinking of ideas for newbies like the eBay positive and negative feedback everyone has different views

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean by given a shot though? How do you propose how it should work?

Sounds interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just thinking of ideas for newbies like the eBay positive and negative feedback everyone has different views "

Just like people have different views on short profiles with no pics, reap what you sow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

I know this is like moaning but I think men as newbies on here should be give a shot if not verified just once and fab should put a fake or time waster button on profiles as a option for both men and women

Thanks "

I don't understand the 'give one shot' bit. Men should be given a guaranteed shag upon joining? Men should be shot? (bit harsh even by my standards) Please elaborate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Give a shot as in chat to people get to know them instead of just deleting mail and not read their profile, if you write everything in profile there's nothing to chat about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah some people do give Newbies a shot. But if you have an interesting profile then you stand a better chance as nothing bores us more than messages pinging back and forth. You have to hook them in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have joined in with the chat rooms, then get to know faces and personalities but don't be pushy

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Give a shot as in chat to people get to know them instead of just deleting mail and not read their profile, if you write everything in profile there's nothing to chat about"

If you know that people delete mail from guys with poor profiles and no picks, then why should Fab have to force people to chat to you? Make an effort!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 it's not just newbies mails that get deleted

2 I've meet newbies people who make an effort with there profiles and have grabbed my attention

Nobodies guaranteed anything for joining

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes but some don't even look just delete, it's like they read mail and it's not one lined it could be a essay I don't believe in one lined messages, I don't put in profile as gives me stuff to chat about

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Yes but some don't even look just delete, it's like they read mail and it's not one lined it could be a essay I don't believe in one lined messages, I don't put in profile as gives me stuff to chat about "

Most people do look before deleting, as the profile (or lack of it) tells us volumes about the effort the bloke has put into getting meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes but some don't even look just delete, it's like they read mail and it's not one lined it could be a essay I don't believe in one lined messages, I don't put in profile as gives me stuff to chat about "

Then you may struggle a bit. Hope your approach works for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes but some don't even look just delete, it's like they read mail and it's not one lined it could be a essay I don't believe in one lined messages, I don't put in profile as gives me stuff to chat about "

Like many I look at the profile before even reading the meaasge

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can see who views me, I make the effort in messages not profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if you make a effort op if ppl dont find you attractive your fab experience is not gonna inprove

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway, nice idea in your op, but similar things have been mentioned pretty regularly before its not easy finding genuine meets regardless of sex, time on site ect so make your chances better and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see who views me, I make the effort in messages not profile "

Depends on a persons privacy settings

lots look in stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see who views me, I make the effort in messages not profile "

Some people perve in stealth mode so it does not show up in your view list.

We stealth perve all the time.

Your not maximising your opportunities op.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I can see who views me, I make the effort in messages not profile "

I don't show up on 'looked at me'. So you'd never know whether they'd looked at you or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks still think feedback of positive and negative on profiles is a good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Positive = good verifications

Negative to open to abuse sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks still think feedback of positive and negative on profiles is a good one "

Meet verification pretty much covers some of this, and regardless of how you dress it up, it still means folk have got to meet to gain feedback, and its the un veried newbies that you are talking about, so there a hole in your plan

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Yes but some don't even look just delete, it's like they read mail and it's not one lined it could be a essay I don't believe in one lined messages, I don't put in profile as gives me stuff to chat about "

How do you know they don't look?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give a shot as in chat to people get to know them instead of just deleting mail and not read their profile, if you write everything in profile there's nothing to chat about"

Newbies are one of the groups I've blocked. Why? Because they are the group that mainly don't make an effort. Poor profiles, one liners,abuse followed by UNLOS. Let them find out a bit more about swinging and that this is not a fuck site first. We were all new once. This site works well for those that put the effort in. As for many things in life you have to make an effort. Things are not just handed to you.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Also, you might make the effort when sending a message but how about those searching for people to message, no pics, no info, you won't entice anyone to send you an opening message...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give a shot as in chat to people get to know them instead of just deleting mail and not read their profile, if you write everything in profile there's nothing to chat about

Newbies are one of the groups I've blocked. Why? Because they are the group that mainly don't make an effort. Poor profiles, one liners,abuse followed by UNLOS. Let them find out a bit more about swinging and that this is not a fuck site first. We were all new once. This site works well for those that put the effort in. As for many things in life you have to make an effort. Things are not just handed to you."

Unless you have a fanny on fab

You could have to heads but aslong as you have a fanny and pair of tits no effort is needed

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Give a shot as in chat to people get to know them instead of just deleting mail and not read their profile, if you write everything in profile there's nothing to chat about

Newbies are one of the groups I've blocked. Why? Because they are the group that mainly don't make an effort. Poor profiles, one liners,abuse followed by UNLOS. Let them find out a bit more about swinging and that this is not a fuck site first. We were all new once. This site works well for those that put the effort in. As for many things in life you have to make an effort. Things are not just handed to you.

Unless you have a fanny on fab

You could have to heads but aslong as you have a fanny and pair of tits no effort is needed "

That's a complete load of pants and you know it. I've sent a fair few messages which have been deleted without reply. I've been to at least one swinger club where no-one has even talked to me. I have to work damn hard at getting my meets, and all I see is a few men regularly posting 'poor me' posts and getting in quick jabs about women always getting meets. Just because YOU don't put in any effort, doesn't mean others don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give a shot as in chat to people get to know them instead of just deleting mail and not read their profile, if you write everything in profile there's nothing to chat about

Newbies are one of the groups I've blocked. Why? Because they are the group that mainly don't make an effort. Poor profiles, one liners,abuse followed by UNLOS. Let them find out a bit more about swinging and that this is not a fuck site first. We were all new once. This site works well for those that put the effort in. As for many things in life you have to make an effort. Things are not just handed to you.

Unless you have a fanny on fab

You could have to heads but aslong as you have a fanny and pair of tits no effort is needed

That's a complete load of pants and you know it. I've sent a fair few messages which have been deleted without reply. I've been to at least one swinger club where no-one has even talked to me. I have to work damn hard at getting my meets, and all I see is a few men regularly posting 'poor me' posts and getting in quick jabs about women always getting meets. Just because YOU don't put in any effort, doesn't mean others don't."

Its not pants....once again i repeat a lady could join fab with a beard...8 eyes and 6 legs and still get meets. Because she as a hole and a pair of tits. END OF.

Also because theres that many guys to ladys on fab 99% of guys will take any hole...myself excluded of course and this results in the ladys thinking there gods gift. Hence why so many guys posting about no replys etc. Ladies have so many guys to choose from.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Give a shot as in chat to people get to know them instead of just deleting mail and not read their profile, if you write everything in profile there's nothing to chat about

Newbies are one of the groups I've blocked. Why? Because they are the group that mainly don't make an effort. Poor profiles, one liners,abuse followed by UNLOS. Let them find out a bit more about swinging and that this is not a fuck site first. We were all new once. This site works well for those that put the effort in. As for many things in life you have to make an effort. Things are not just handed to you.

Unless you have a fanny on fab

You could have to heads but aslong as you have a fanny and pair of tits no effort is needed

That's a complete load of pants and you know it. I've sent a fair few messages which have been deleted without reply. I've been to at least one swinger club where no-one has even talked to me. I have to work damn hard at getting my meets, and all I see is a few men regularly posting 'poor me' posts and getting in quick jabs about women always getting meets. Just because YOU don't put in any effort, doesn't mean others don't.

Its not pants....once again i repeat a lady could join fab with a beard...8 eyes and 6 legs and still get meets. Because she as a hole and a pair of tits. END OF.

Also because theres that many guys to ladys on fab 99% of guys will take any hole...myself excluded of course and this results in the ladys thinking there gods gift. Hence why so many guys posting about no replys etc. Ladies have so many guys to choose from. "

I am aware of your opinion of the women on this site and can only say I am not surprised you aren't as successful as you thought you would be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give a shot as in chat to people get to know them instead of just deleting mail and not read their profile, if you write everything in profile there's nothing to chat about

Newbies are one of the groups I've blocked. Why? Because they are the group that mainly don't make an effort. Poor profiles, one liners,abuse followed by UNLOS. Let them find out a bit more about swinging and that this is not a fuck site first. We were all new once. This site works well for those that put the effort in. As for many things in life you have to make an effort. Things are not just handed to you.

Unless you have a fanny on fab

You could have to heads but aslong as you have a fanny and pair of tits no effort is needed

That's a complete load of pants and you know it. I've sent a fair few messages which have been deleted without reply. I've been to at least one swinger club where no-one has even talked to me. I have to work damn hard at getting my meets, and all I see is a few men regularly posting 'poor me' posts and getting in quick jabs about women always getting meets. Just because YOU don't put in any effort, doesn't mean others don't.

Its not pants....once again i repeat a lady could join fab with a beard...8 eyes and 6 legs and still get meets. Because she as a hole and a pair of tits. END OF.

Also because theres that many guys to ladys on fab 99% of guys will take any hole...myself excluded of course and this results in the ladys thinking there gods gift. Hence why so many guys posting about no replys etc. Ladies have so many guys to choose from.

I am aware of your opinion of the women on this site and can only say I am not surprised you aren't as successful as you thought you would be."

Im having a great time ty. Just meeting my regular ladies so not looking to meet...hence my profile hidden. Its the op having problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you only have to look at some of the men's profiles to see it's possible to be very successful go look and take tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you only have to look at some of the men's profiles to see it's possible to be very successful go look and take tips"

Or just close your eyes and think of England

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give a shot as in chat to people get to know them instead of just deleting mail and not read their profile, if you write everything in profile there's nothing to chat about

Newbies are one of the groups I've blocked. Why? Because they are the group that mainly don't make an effort. Poor profiles, one liners,abuse followed by UNLOS. Let them find out a bit more about swinging and that this is not a fuck site first. We were all new once. This site works well for those that put the effort in. As for many things in life you have to make an effort. Things are not just handed to you.

Unless you have a fanny on fab

You could have to heads but aslong as you have a fanny and pair of tits no effort is needed

That's a complete load of pants and you know it. I've sent a fair few messages which have been deleted without reply. I've been to at least one swinger club where no-one has even talked to me. I have to work damn hard at getting my meets, and all I see is a few men regularly posting 'poor me' posts and getting in quick jabs about women always getting meets. Just because YOU don't put in any effort, doesn't mean others don't.

Its not pants....once again i repeat a lady could join fab with a beard...8 eyes and 6 legs and still get meets. Because she as a hole and a pair of tits. END OF.

Also because theres that many guys to ladys on fab 99% of guys will take any hole...myself excluded of course and this results in the ladys thinking there gods gift. Hence why so many guys posting about no replys etc. Ladies have so many guys to choose from. "

Most of them fantasists or complete arseholes. It is not easy for women on here. Yes we get lots of mail. Sifting thro that to get the genuine ones is a pain. I had a meet up this week. Lots of offers to take me to a club I was already going to. Five men and one lady - yeh we will be there. All no shows. Utter bollocks that it's easy. Thats why I only meet in clubs. At least the people there have made the effort and are real swingers not wannabes

As for thinking we are 'gods gift' I know my own worth and don't need my ego inflating by people who don't know me. Some men on here don't like that women are on here for their fantasies and not as just a cum dump for the desperate.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Thanks still think feedback of positive and negative on profiles is a good one "

You've obviously put not a lot of effort into selling yourself, people will assume that you will put a similar amount of effort in when meeting, so won't bother.

It's up to you!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Give a shot as in chat to people get to know them instead of just deleting mail and not read their profile, if you write everything in profile there's nothing to chat about

Newbies are one of the groups I've blocked. Why? Because they are the group that mainly don't make an effort. Poor profiles, one liners,abuse followed by UNLOS. Let them find out a bit more about swinging and that this is not a fuck site first. We were all new once. This site works well for those that put the effort in. As for many things in life you have to make an effort. Things are not just handed to you.

Unless you have a fanny on fab

You could have to heads but aslong as you have a fanny and pair of tits no effort is needed

That's a complete load of pants and you know it. I've sent a fair few messages which have been deleted without reply. I've been to at least one swinger club where no-one has even talked to me. I have to work damn hard at getting my meets, and all I see is a few men regularly posting 'poor me' posts and getting in quick jabs about women always getting meets. Just because YOU don't put in any effort, doesn't mean others don't.

Its not pants....once again i repeat a lady could join fab with a beard...8 eyes and 6 legs and still get meets. Because she as a hole and a pair of tits. END OF.

Also because theres that many guys to ladys on fab 99% of guys will take any hole...myself excluded of course and this results in the ladys thinking there gods gift. Hence why so many guys posting about no replys etc. Ladies have so many guys to choose from.

I am aware of your opinion of the women on this site and can only say I am not surprised you aren't as successful as you thought you would be.

Im having a great time ty. Just meeting my regular ladies so not looking to meet...hence my profile hidden. Its the op having problems "

Blimey he went from woe is me to meeting his regular ladies to leaving for a vanilla girlfriend in under an hour! That's quick work x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes saw that and how quickly the profile got hidden with in the thread

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