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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone know what the point of winks actually are lol?. I never use them myself, mainly because I don't see what use they are!!

Anyone want to enlighten me?

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

Try looking here -

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum-search/winks

35 threads asking about winks so you might find the answer you are looking for in one of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i ignore winks if ppl cant be arsed to write a message i cant be arsed to wink back lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i ignore winks if ppl cant be arsed to write a message i cant be arsed to wink back lol"

where as I/we on the other hand like winks, if someone's good enough to wink and we like the look of their profile then we wink back, then it's back in their hands to message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Isn't it just easier to just message in the first place, without the wink ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont mind winks,if we get one we like look of we will get in touch with the winker lol If not they get deleted,some people on here do prefere an email,so its down to personal choice,if you prefere to send an email then do what you think is best x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just seems like an extra step for nothing.If you like the look of someone you'd message them anyway, wouldn't you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I prefer a wink to a message and encourage them

I would much rather get a wink from a well written profile than a message from someone that I think has a rubbish profile

People moan all the time about messages being deleted or ignored,Im just making life a bit easier for people

If I like someone ill wink or send a message back to start the ball rolling

I have met some fabulous people because of a wink

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"I prefer a wink to a message and encourage them

I would much rather get a wink from a well written profile than a message from someone that I think has a rubbish profile

People moan all the time about messages being deleted or ignored,Im just making life a bit easier for people

If I like someone ill wink or send a message back to start the ball rolling

I have met some fabulous people because of a wink"

I agree with you. A wink to me, means someone might be interested, and would like to know more about me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think I still agree with Kitten, if someone can't be bothered to write a message, why should you take notice of a wink.

Isn't it the easy option to wink at someone in the hope they will make the next move ?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I think I still agree with Kitten, if someone can't be bothered to write a message, why should you take notice of a wink.

Isn't it the easy option to wink at someone in the hope they will make the next move ?"

There is'nt going to be a wrong or right answer

Some people like them and some don't, for every point you make about sending a message I could come back with one for sending a wink

Everyone should do what they feel is best for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are happy with winks its a nice way for someone to let us know they're interested, if we like them we wink back or message them. At the end of the day it beats someone taking a long time writing a message for us to look at their profile and decide they're not for us. No one has wasted their time then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Too much winking is bad for you they say though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me a wink is a bit like catching someones eye in the 'real world' - obviously I like the look of the winkee and maybe if they wink back they like the look of me, so it makes the next step easier. After all I dont just start talking to strangers in bars etc... well not since THAT restraining order .ahem!

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