FabSwingers.com forum: verifications

By *adybee77 OP Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Is there any way we could easily separate out social veris from play meets?

Just seen a few comments about excessive veris... and a lot of meets can be social - would be handy to see that at a glance

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over a year ago

"Is there any way we could easily separate out social veris from play meets?

Just seen a few comments about excessive veris... and a lot of meets can be social - would be handy to see that at a glance

Good idea

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over a year ago

"Is there any way we could easily separate out social veris from play meets?

Just seen a few comments about excessive veris... and a lot of meets can be social - would be handy to see that at a glance

Thanks!"

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over a year ago

"Is there any way we could easily separate out social veris from play meets?

Just seen a few comments about excessive veris... and a lot of meets can be social - would be handy to see that at a glance

Thanks!"

Why is there need to separate the two? Surely the point of verifications is to prove that you meet people and you are who you say you are? Yes?

It doesn't matter one iota if they have more socials than play meets, that could be for a variety of reasons.

Goodness me whatever next? Verification catagories for what sexual acts they do/don`t perform?

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over a year ago

Why is there need to separate the two? Surely the point of verifications is to prove that you meet people and you are who you say you are? Yes?

It doesn't matter one iota if they have more socials than play meets, that could be for a variety of reasons.

Goodness me whatever next? Verification catagories for what sexual acts they do/don`t perform?

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

Paignton

I would also like the cam veri removed as well, or make them so you cannot hide them, remember this is a swingers site, to us its all about meeting people who like sex, and are looking for sex, will it happen no because to many time wasters, day dreamers, etc.

we use Facebook for socializing why not try it , you can even post photos of food.. lov and peace Connie xx

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

Paignton

Goodness me whatever next? Verification catagories for what sexual acts they do/don`t perform?

and why not ? would save a lot of time finding out..connie xx

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I only write social veris, even if I've played with them. I have a social/coffee meet first and writ the veri based on that.

As a single female what I want from a veri is if they turned up, if they are as described on their profile, are they presentable and comfortable to be with. Sexual attraction is so individual that I'm not interested in whether anyone else wanted to or did fuck him. Nor do I need to know how many positions or if he made her gush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there any way we could easily separate out social veris from play meets?

Just seen a few comments about excessive veris... and a lot of meets can be social - would be handy to see that at a glance

Thanks!

Why is there need to separate the two? Surely the point of verifications is to prove that you meet people and you are who you say you are? Yes?

It doesn't matter one iota if they have more socials than play meets, that could be for a variety of reasons.

Goodness me whatever next? Verification catagories for what sexual acts they do/don`t perform?

Total agreement to the o p why not put on profile lot of your meets are social and or as i do i only show my veris to folk when there is realistic chance of a meet otherwise folk have no need to see them the summary shows the amount etc.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Goodness me whatever next? Verification catagories for what sexual acts they do/don`t perform?

and why not ? "

Because it is no-one elses business what I do or dont do when I meet with someone.

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By *adybee77 OP Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

wow, ehm no, i wouldn't suggest veri on what sexual acts happen - its why I took all the interest tick boxes off, some folks saw it as a menu, and expected to pick and choose, rather than go with the flow.

as for social veri - it comes up time and again in other threads that some people think you can have too many veris, and as loads of swingers enjoy a good social, and may well get loads of veris from a social, I just thought it would help.

And yes, I do use facebook for socialising, but fab is a different group of friends, but still social to me - maybe I'm one of those weird people who think fab is for more than a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there any way we could easily separate out social veris from play meets?

Just seen a few comments about excessive veris... and a lot of meets can be social - would be handy to see that at a glance

Thanks!

Why is there need to separate the two? Surely the point of verifications is to prove that you meet people and you are who you say you are? Yes?

It doesn't matter one iota if they have more socials than play meets, that could be for a variety of reasons.

Goodness me whatever next? Verification catagories for what sexual acts they do/don`t perform?

Agreed

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"wow, ehm no, i wouldn't suggest veri on what sexual acts happen - its why I took all the interest tick boxes off, some folks saw it as a menu, and expected to pick and choose, rather than go with the flow.

And yes, I do use facebook for socialising, but fab is a different group of friends, but still social to me - maybe I'm one of those weird people who think fab is for more than a fuck "

Very well said A+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Goodness me whatever next? Verification catagories for what sexual acts they do/don`t perform?

and why not ?

Because it is no-one elses business what I do or dont do when I meet with someone."

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By *urly-sueWoman
over a year ago

kilmarnock

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

I'd like a different colour tick for cam veris to meet (whether play or social) veris - if all the veris are hidden (and the summary) then it's hard to see whether the person has ever actually met before. Cam veris aren't worth anything in my personal opinion.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Is there any way we could easily separate out social veris from play meets?

Just seen a few comments about excessive veris... and a lot of meets can be social - would be handy to see that at a glance

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

"I only write social veris, even if I've played with them. I have a social/coffee meet first and writ the veri based on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only write social veris, even if I've played with them. I have a social/coffee meet first and writ the veri based on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like a different colour tick for cam veris to meet (whether play or social) veris - if all the veris are hidden (and the summary) then it's hard to see whether the person has ever actually met before. Cam veris aren't worth anything in my personal opinion. "

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

"I would also like the cam veri removed as well, or make them so you cannot hide them, remember this is a swingers site, to us its all about meeting people who like sex, and are looking for sex, will it happen no because to many time wasters, day dreamers, etc.

we use Facebook for socializing why not try it , you can even post photos of food.. lov and peace Connie xx "

Absolutely.

Veris by webcam are meaningless. Worth a fraction more than the old verification by phone call.

But as you say, lots of people like to pretend they swing so they'll remain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we use Facebook for socializing why not try it , you can even post photos of food.. lov and peace Connie xx "

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"Is there any way we could easily separate out social veris from play meets?

Just seen a few comments about excessive veris... and a lot of meets can be social - would be handy to see that at a glance

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I'd prefer to have ONLY "in person" verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only write social veris, even if I've played with them. I have a social/coffee meet first and writ the veri based on that.

im the same

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By *iss SugarWoman
over a year ago

not far from Brighton

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By *iss SugarWoman
over a year ago

not far from Brighton

Personally I like to see verifications as an indicator of who the person im looking at has previously met with..

I agree cam veri should have a different colour tick or flag..I dont like meeting people that have the summary hidden and no veris displayed as I get the impression they had a cam veri and dont actually turn up to meets..

Ref what a person does or doesnt do at a meet re sex.. why not find out via messages if ur that concerned?

I have alot of social meets.. I socialise here aswell as play here.. Facebook banned me for posting boob pix haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see a valid point on this. Many people publish none of their veris. It just shows as a tick and the statement verified genuine.

Don't always take these as serious because...could be JUST cam veris ...they never meet. Or just ONE veri from another profile they set up.

I prefer to read the veris and also to check on WHO verified them etc...

Not fool proof but does help to dredge out the wasters.

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By *iss SugarWoman
over a year ago

not far from Brighton

"I can see a valid point on this. Many people publish none of their veris. It just shows as a tick and the statement verified genuine.

Don't always take these as serious because...could be JUST cam veris ...they never meet. Or just ONE veri from another profile they set up.

I prefer to read the veris and also to check on WHO verified them etc...

Not fool proof but does help to dredge out the wasters."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All veri's are meaningless. Why can't people just use their common sense instead of relying on a few words left by a total stranger.

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

Don't see the point, verification should be a simple thing to show the person or couple are what they say they are, nothing more nothing less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yes, I do use facebook for socialising, but fab is a different group of friends, but still social to me - maybe I'm one of those weird people who think fab is for more than a fuck

Very well said A+

and from me 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yes, I do use facebook for socialising, but fab is a different group of friends, but still social to me - maybe I'm one of those weird people who think fab is for more than a fuck "

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By *itKatChunky80Woman
over a year ago

wirral

Great idea.....too many judgemental people on such a "open minded" site.....

people see lots of veris and think "fucks anything" "easy" etc....especially while lots clumped together....

I've done it myself....then read through and seen lots of socials too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social veri be great I cant have gentle folk on here thinking I'm a tart

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"All veri's are meaningless. Why can't people just use their common sense instead of relying on a few words left by a total stranger.

Verifications are meaningless? I disagree. My verifications show that I am a decent bloke, always turn up and you are safe meeting me.

Agreed, it is someonelse's opinion but a range from different people - well, it's hard to fake that.

I mean - if you want to hire a builder - do you choose at random out of the phone book - or do you seek feedback from others? I always choose personal recommendations first...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore cam veris. They prove nothing about meeting. Other veris I just use to see that the person exists, are what they say they are and meets (tho that's no guarantee that they will turn up for a meet with me) Common sense and social meet before and then decide whether its going to go further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All veri's are meaningless. Why can't people just use their common sense instead of relying on a few words left by a total stranger.

Your spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we use Facebook for socializing why not try it , you can even post photos of food.. lov and peace Connie xx "

Totally agree , this is a swinging site not a camming site so camming veri's should be removed

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

Cambridge

That's a good idea....as i get loads of messages from couples I'm not Bi but.because a couple left me a veri they think i am it was a social veri.....nothing more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we use Facebook for socializing why not try it , you can even post photos of food.. lov and peace Connie xx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I want that to, imagine if you just meet for coffe all the time and no sex takes place.. I want all the dirty details in the veris from sex separate from the social meets lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All veri's are meaningless. Why can't people just use their common sense instead of relying on a few words left by a total stranger.

I don't agree that veris are meaningless. As a single woman living in a remote area I like to know the man I'm chatting to wit the intention of possibly meeting does actually meet. A green tick at the moment can just mean a cam veri which is meaningless as far as I'm concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All veri's are meaningless. Why can't people just use their common sense instead of relying on a few words left by a total stranger.

I know my post sounded rude but it wasn't meant that way. If veri's didn't exist, people would think for themselves instead of relying on a stranger that left a veri from one meet.

If no veri was there people would be much more wary and make their own decision on a person. Just because a stranger said they turned up, doesn't mean they ever will again. Or not be a nutter .. or worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All veri's are meaningless. Why can't people just use their common sense instead of relying on a few words left by a total stranger.

I know my post sounded rude but it wasn't meant that way. If veri's didn't exist, people would think for themselves instead of relying on a stranger that left a veri from one meet.

I think the point here is the usefulness of veris .... If someone is well verified then a single girl will feel less worried than if they aren't .

Regarding the op ... Social veris are OK as at least we know the person exists and are who they say they are and if they could be identified as social only then great .

Webcam veris are a complete waste of time and should be done away with .

We only get play veris and are pleased to say we have no social ones at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there any way we could easily separate out social veris from play meets?

Just seen a few comments about excessive veris... and a lot of meets can be social - would be handy to see that at a glance

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Brilliant. I wont play with anyone who shags the whole site but some people have hundreds of social veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

"Is there any way we could easily separate out social veris from play meets?

Just seen a few comments about excessive veris... and a lot of meets can be social - would be handy to see that at a glance

Thanks!

Brilliant. I wont play with anyone who shags the whole site but some people have hundreds of social veris

Hate to tell you... but people have sex without leaving veri's. Some even have sex with people... not on Fab....! Gangbangs. Bi men pretending to be straight but with profiles on gay sites. But hey... veri's are to be trusted. Brilliant.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All veri's are meaningless. Why can't people just use their common sense instead of relying on a few words left by a total stranger.

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over a year ago

"Is there any way we could easily separate out social veris from play meets?

Just seen a few comments about excessive veris... and a lot of meets can be social - would be handy to see that at a glance

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Brilliant. I wont play with anyone who shags the whole site but some people have hundreds of social veris

Shhh...people with think I'm enough of a hussy with all my meet veri's as it is, don't want them knowing I'm actually a complete and utter tart who has sex that isn't logged against my profile on here too

As for the OP...I'm honestly not arsed about the meets being split between socials and play meets but what would stop someone asking for social veris instead of play veris to keep the numbers in their favour? Or what happens if someone leaves a play veri for a social meet by mistake? Sounds like a ballache to me to be honest!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Why should the site be changed because a small handful of people set too much store by the number of verifications? Isn't it their own problem?

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Why should the site be changed because a small handful of people set too much store by the number of verifications? Isn't it their own problem?"

I don't care massively about the split between play/ social - but (as I said above) I would like to see cam veris differentiated somehow from meet veris - eg: diff coloured tick.

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over a year ago

"Is there any way we could easily separate out social veris from play meets?

Just seen a few comments about excessive veris... and a lot of meets can be social - would be handy to see that at a glance

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That's a good idea it would help a lot.

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