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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive posted this in the site support thread too :

So as a verified user myself I believe my verifications prove im a good reliable genuine guy ! They say that should anyone ask to see them ...

But someone who's shown themselves on Webcam gets the same green tick and all the benefits that go with it !

Isnt it time we had a two tier verification system ? One for webcammers if thats your thing another for those that meet .

Especially in this day and age where a persons safety has to be upmost ?

Thanks

Just wanted peoples thoughts ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in my opinion camming proves no more than the pic verification flag... It should be removed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"in my opinion camming proves no more than the pic verification flag... It should be removed."

Exactly !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They mean very little to us anyway, they're subjective and ones view of a person/s won't be the same as anothers.

All they do for us is show that that person/s has met somebody and is a fliter for us when deciding who we'd like to contact.

We take no real notice of them either way to be honest. Rather make our minds up using other means too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in my opinion camming proves no more than the pic verification flag... It should be removed.

Exactly !!"

We agree .. could be anyone on the cam .. wasteof time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in my opinion camming proves no more than the pic verification flag... It should be removed."

I like pic verification. A common thing you find is guys pretending to be women. The photo verification at least tells me it is a woman I am chatting to.

For women, I can't imagine there are many girls pretending to be guys so it not quite as useful maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do not class or accept webcam as verifications that folk are genuine all it shows is someone on a cam proves nothing as to whether the person is nice etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Ash i never thought of that !

As my point was more about a ladies safety and a tick by a webcam proves nothing

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed your other thread on the same thing so that we dont have multiple posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in my opinion camming proves no more than the pic verification flag... It should be removed."

I wouldnt meet someone if they only had web cam verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think a verification by meeting is very important, if a person has a substantial amount of verifications by meeting different people and they all say the person is polite and reliable then chances are its true.

Verification by webcam or picture says nothing at all about a persons character and just chatting on phone isnt that reliable either, some people are very good at concealing their true nature and sometimes a very polite individual over the phone turns into a complete numpty when met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They mean very little to us anyway, they're subjective and ones view of a person/s won't be the same as anothers.

All they do for us is show that that person/s has met somebody and is a fliter for us when deciding who we'd like to contact.

We take no real notice of them either way to be honest. Rather make our minds up using other means too."

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Just wanted peoples thoughts ?

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Webcam veri's are easy to ignore.

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By *il_Lou90Woman
over a year ago

falkirk

Doesn't really matter what's done to the verification system, people will still find all the loopholes to make false accounts look genuine.

Take away webcam verifications and you will end up being viewing cams and verifying via meet when they haven't met resulting in more fakes

Personally I ignore what a verification says as I don't trust them or the system as I've had far too many msgs from accounts that are all verified but with fake images with the only intention to gather pics and mislead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Take away webcam verifications and you will end up being viewing cams and verifying via meet when they haven't met resulting in more fakes

"

Dont understand how you can say a person who has been verified by several people who themselves have been verified by meeting others can be a fake, surely this is the safest form of verification?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in my opinion camming proves no more than the pic verification flag... It should be removed.

I like pic verification. A common thing you find is guys pretending to be women. The photo verification at least tells me it is a woman I am chatting to.

For women, I can't imagine there are many girls pretending to be guys so it not quite as useful maybe "

A pic verification is very useful. Would you meet a couple who state they're in a relationship but (a) have no pic veri flag, (b) have no joint pics and yet been on more than a year, and (c) the only veri they have proves the guy exists?

My point is that guys make up couple profiles... A flag is an important tool .

My fwb and i have that in hand for Monday , but others have met us together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wanted peoples thoughts ?

Webcam veri's are easy to ignore. "

Not if the veri isn't published or the veri synopsis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wanted peoples thoughts ?

Webcam veri's are easy to ignore. "

True , but a profile can be verified and one doesn't know it's from cam only .

So why allow them ?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Just wanted peoples thoughts ?

Webcam veri's are easy to ignore.

True , but a profile can be verified and one doesn't know it's from cam only .

So why allow them ?

"

I don't allow them, Admin do.

There is an option to search for people with meet veri's only....so you will know even if a veri is hidden or not.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Just wanted peoples thoughts ?

Webcam veri's are easy to ignore.

Not if the veri isn't published or the veri synopsis."

There is an option to search for people with meet veri's only....so you will know even if a veri is hidden or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wanted peoples thoughts ?

Webcam veri's are easy to ignore.

Not if the veri isn't published or the veri synopsis.

There is an option to search for people with meet veri's only....so you will know even if a veri is hidden or not. "

I didn't know that, thanks.

However I disregard people who don't publish veris or have the synopsis, so it still kind of works .

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By *il_Lou90Woman
over a year ago

falkirk


"

Take away webcam verifications and you will end up being viewing cams and verifying via meet when they haven't met resulting in more fakes

Dont understand how you can say a person who has been verified by several people who themselves have been verified by meeting others can be a fake, surely this is the safest form of verification?"

Bit of an ott way to explain this but imagine you get a msg, several veris saying great guy/girl, get send pics and its of a porn star/celeb etc = fake! I've even had a pic verified account send fake pics which I reported and admin removed.

As for the veris, one fake veris another fake profile and in theory if someone had no life they could create an account with 5-6 veris by meets and all of them faked.

The systems easily fooled so doesn't matter how they edit or change it there will still be some that manage it so to me just leave it as it is and use search and common sense

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Just wanted peoples thoughts ?

Webcam veri's are easy to ignore.

Not if the veri isn't published or the veri synopsis.

There is an option to search for people with meet veri's only....so you will know even if a veri is hidden or not.

I didn't know that, thanks.

However I disregard people who don't publish veris or have the synopsis, so it still kind of works ."

Exactly how it should be, you using the site how it suits you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Take away webcam verifications and you will end up being viewing cams and verifying via meet when they haven't met resulting in more fakes

Dont understand how you can say a person who has been verified by several people who themselves have been verified by meeting others can be a fake, surely this is the safest form of verification?

Bit of an ott way to explain this but imagine you get a msg, several veris saying great guy/girl, get send pics and its of a porn star/celeb etc = fake! I've even had a pic verified account send fake pics which I reported and admin removed.

As for the veris, one fake veris another fake profile and in theory if someone had no life they could create an account with 5-6 veris by meets and all of them faked.

The systems easily fooled so doesn't matter how they edit or change it there will still be some that manage it so to me just leave it as it is and use search and common sense"

Bloody hell if they go to all that effort to get a meet via fake profile I think they deserve one lol x

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By *il_Lou90Woman
over a year ago

falkirk


"

Take away webcam verifications and you will end up being viewing cams and verifying via meet when they haven't met resulting in more fakes

Dont understand how you can say a person who has been verified by several people who themselves have been verified by meeting others can be a fake, surely this is the safest form of verification?

Bit of an ott way to explain this but imagine you get a msg, several veris saying great guy/girl, get send pics and its of a porn star/celeb etc = fake! I've even had a pic verified account send fake pics which I reported and admin removed.

As for the veris, one fake veris another fake profile and in theory if someone had no life they could create an account with 5-6 veris by meets and all of them faked.

The systems easily fooled so doesn't matter how they edit or change it there will still be some that manage it so to me just leave it as it is and use search and common sense

Bloody hell if they go to all that effort to get a meet via fake profile I think they deserve one lol x"

I could say how they could do it but don't wanna give fakes any ideas lol plus I'd imagine admin kicking my booty if I did lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wanted peoples thoughts ?

Webcam veri's are easy to ignore.

True , but a profile can be verified and one doesn't know it's from cam only .

So why allow them ?

I don't allow them, Admin do.

There is an option to search for people with meet veri's only....so you will know even if a veri is hidden or not."

Thank you

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By *EXYDUO3Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Guys should provide a compulsory verification photo with fab id and the days date..but hey there more intrested in monthly subscription. .to many guys on here posing as woman..I gave a guy my number he was texting for a while sending me pics on wattap ect..then few months later after not speaking I gave my number to a female on here..she wattaped me n guess what it was the guy from before I still had the messages from months before sick cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wanted peoples thoughts ?

Webcam veri's are easy to ignore. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in my opinion camming proves no more than the pic verification flag... It should be removed."
proper meet either social or play veris should be the only veri thats a real verification i think

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford


"Ive posted this in the site support thread too :

So as a verified user myself I believe my verifications prove im a good reliable genuine guy ! They say that should anyone ask to see them ...

But someone who's shown themselves on Webcam gets the same green tick and all the benefits that go with it !

Isnt it time we had a two tier verification system ? One for webcammers if thats your thing another for those that meet .

Especially in this day and age where a persons safety has to be upmost ?

Thanks

Just wanted peoples thoughts ?

"

well as u hide yours,your point is all a bit pointless ..i dont know if youve got 1 cam verification or a 100 real meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive posted this in the site support thread too :

So as a verified user myself I believe my verifications prove im a good reliable genuine guy ! They say that should anyone ask to see them ...

But someone who's shown themselves on Webcam gets the same green tick and all the benefits that go with it !

Isnt it time we had a two tier verification system ? One for webcammers if thats your thing another for those that meet .

Especially in this day and age where a persons safety has to be upmost ?

Thanks

Just wanted peoples thoughts ?

well as u hide yours,your point is all a bit pointless ..i dont know if youve got 1 cam verification or a 100 real meets "
well actually yes u do cos my verification summary is on show and i show my verifications to people i want to meet !

I dont put them on my profile as some badge of honour its just not me .

My playing is private but as i say i show to anyone that matrers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't read all thread so apologise if already said. I still don't understand that's I don't understand why anyone would believe the written words of a stranger when thinking about meeting another stranger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven't read all thread so apologise if already said. I still don't understand that's I don't understand why anyone would believe the written words of a stranger when thinking about meeting another stranger. "

For me veris are one small way of building a picture of a potential meet. Veris given to and by that person. In fact I use the entire profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven't read all thread so apologise if already said. I still don't understand that's I don't understand why anyone would believe the written words of a stranger when thinking about meeting another stranger.

For me veris are one small way of building a picture of a potential meet. Veris given to and by that person. In fact I use the entire profile."

It's one of those things that I just can't get my head round but having said that we all use the site the best way for us so nothing is wrong as long as it works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who isn't 'meet' verified and oretty new to the site i couldn't agree more with this post.

Saying that, i've had a couple offers to verify me with no meet so anyway you do it's open to abuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never and will never meet anyone who has just been verified by cam

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By *iss SugarWoman
over a year ago

not far from Brighton


"in my opinion camming proves no more than the pic verification flag... It should be removed.

Exactly !!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven't read all thread so apologise if already said. I still don't understand that's I don't understand why anyone would believe the written words of a stranger when thinking about meeting another stranger. "

I use common sense instead......

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