FabSwingers.com forum: Blocked Profile Issues

By *onacletony OP Couple
over a year ago

Brighton, Greater London

I have an issue with my Fab Profile. First of all, I have a couples and a single male profile. A few weeks back a user messaged our couples' profile (no names of course) with what seemed a decent message. This user was quite young, but seemed very open minded and had certainly had a great deal of experience in a very short time. I sent what I thought was a very polite message back, indicating interest but also asking a few genuinely curious questions about how much activity they had gotten up to, and just expressing my surprise in general, but in what I thought was a pleasant and intellectually curious way. I expressed some slight reservation at her young age, but said that her verifications all pointed to a confident and very mature person. I would have assumed that what appeared to be such an open minded individual would have responded in a similar manner, but instead she deleted the message and blocked us. Here is where I acted somewhat foolishly. From my single male account I sent a short reply:

'Honestly, if that message offended you so much that you deleted us and blocked us, then I guess I was right to assume that you were a little too immature for us. We tend to be a little more open minded.

Enjoy Fab.'

This was impetuous on my part to be sure, but I certainly don't think it qualified as abusive in any way.

Since that message my single male account appears to be at least partially suspended. I can still access it, but cannot send any messages from it, upgrade my membership, and it no longer appears on the friends list of our couples profile or of our actual friends. Can anyone explain what has happened to this profile? Was it reported and suspended? Is there any salvation, or do I need to delete it and start over? Why have I received no message telling me of this limbo-like status? Any help would be welcome, and please save hostile remarks for elsewhere. I am perfectly aware that the message was somewhat rash (though I maintain it had a valid point), and am duly chastened.

Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think its possibly against site rules to use another profile to get around being blocked. Try and see it from the other viewpoint; for whatever reason she decided against continuing to be in contact with you and blocked you so that you got the message. She then gets another message from a different profile asking why. It could be construed as being a bit stalker-ish? Harassment?

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

"Think its possibly against site rules to use another profile to get around being blocked. Try and see it from the other viewpoint; for whatever reason she decided against continuing to be in contact with you and blocked you so that you got the message. She then gets another message from a different profile asking why. It could be construed as being a bit stalker-ish? Harassment? "

This sounds like a reasonable assessment

Admin x

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