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By *evilish Tongue OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

Many of you single guys will feel the familar sting of not being replied to... Im not sure if its a lack of decency or time or an inundation of messages that couples and single females recieve.

Heres my idea how about the site gives pre formatted reply options i.e.

:Thanks but no thanks

:Not my /our type

:Currently not looking for (insert perticulars)

Its just an idea that even if its a refusal the constant waiting for a reply might be eased and lessening the frustrations of decent guys on the site ?

Also in the meet tonight section i see theres only a "Meet at OURS" in the drop down how about a "Meet at Mine" option for singles ?

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By *eviousLiasonsCouple
over a year ago

Travelling

There is an automatic answer system already in place, if you know where to find it.

If you send someone a mail, and you get no reply, it means they are not interested. Simples!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A deleted email usual indicates their not interested, unfortunately there are a lot people that can't be arsed giving a polite 'no thanks' but hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A deleted email usual indicates their not interested, unfortunately there are a lot people that can't be arsed giving a polite 'no thanks' but hey ho"
and a polite no thankyou is usually replied with a 'but why?' Or abuse! Sometimes easier just to delete

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By *evilish Tongue OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

So theres no winning ?

People will just delete and i will go off feeling rejected and hated once more.

Oh the joys of having BPD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many of you single guys will feel the familar sting of not being replied to... Im not sure if its a lack of decency or time or an inundation of messages that couples and single females recieve.

Heres my idea how about the site gives pre formatted reply options i.e.

:Thanks but no thanks

:Not my /our type

:Currently not looking for (insert perticulars)

Its just an idea that even if its a refusal the constant waiting for a reply might be eased and lessening the frustrations of decent guys on the site ?

Also in the meet tonight section i see theres only a "Meet at OURS" in the drop down how about a "Meet at Mine" option for singles ? "

I wish the site would do this, but to include option to block user to, as from style of some first message, you know a no thanks will generate abuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A deleted email usual indicates their not interested, unfortunately there are a lot people that can't be arsed giving a polite 'no thanks' but hey ho"

But there are also a lot of people who can't be arsed to read profiles before mailing. Politeness works both ways.

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By *evilish Tongue OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

See my first messages always follow a polite manner and id much prefer a polite thanks but no thanks over complete (percieved as) ignorance.

I read all the updates on peoples profiles askig for more than one line, i see the request for face pics and i provide a decent paragraph, politely written and no text speak which in my opinion deserves at least the decency of a reply of some sort ?

I guess the old addage of the idiotic few spoiling it fo the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A deleted email usual indicates their not interested, unfortunately there are a lot people that can't be arsed giving a polite 'no thanks' but hey ho

But there are also a lot of people who can't be arsed to read profiles before mailing. Politeness works both ways."

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A deleted email usual indicates their not interested, unfortunately there are a lot people that can't be arsed giving a polite 'no thanks' but hey hoand a polite no thankyou is usually replied with a 'but why?' Or abuse! Sometimes easier just to delete "

I see... Never thought about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So theres no winning ?

People will just delete and i will go off feeling rejected and hated once more.

Oh the joys of having BPD "

No one hates you x prob just busy with there own lives

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"So theres no winning ?

People will just delete and i will go off feeling rejected and hated once more.

Oh the joys of having BPD "

If having BPD effects your social skills that much, then possibly a site such as this with a high rejection rate for single males, possibly isn't for you at this period in your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's BPD?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's BPD? "

Just googled it borderline personality disorder, and I can only say what someone else has said this May not be the best site for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's BPD?

Just googled it borderline personality disorder, and I can only say what someone else has said this May not be the best site for you "
thankyou. X

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