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A similar screen to the out of age range for messages would be a hit with me  | |||
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"No the profile is either open to be viewed or hidden. The filters are message filters. Blocking profiles from whole groups of people would segregate the site & encourage fake profiles as men would be the biggest group to be blocked. " Indeed I would prefer to be blocked. Id save wasted time looking at unsuitable profiles. If I still wanted to view the out of age profiles I could surely alter my age appropriately as so many do anyhow.  A bit pointless as I am here to meet not here to perve .
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"How would they know how old you are until they look at your profile?" It does say before you open a profile. Re mountain : Its not a big issue for me its just a comment / observation and yes using the search age filters I can avoid searching inappropriate profiles myself. I guess its just curiosity that makes people look at profiles that aren't within their specific age criteria. I personally dont mind being looked at. My original post refers to the disappointment of seeing someone has looked at my profile and ive wanted to contact them then realise I cant as im age blocked . Once I realise I am out of age range thats fine obviously no point anyhow.. and equally there is no point in them being able to see me in the first place - which is my original point !
Indeed a very buxon young lass viewed me earlier great but not of much use!
But if any fabsters that like 50 yr old men want to perve my profile please feel free LOL.
Thanks for your responses and love to you all ! x l | |||
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"How would they know how old you are until they look at your profile? It does say before you open a profile. Re mountain : Its not a big issue for me its just a comment / observation and yes using the search age filters I can avoid searching inappropriate profiles myself. I guess its just curiosity that makes people look at profiles that aren't within their specific age criteria. I personally dont mind being looked at. My original post refers to the disappointment of seeing someone has looked at my profile and ive wanted to contact them then realise I cant as im age blocked . Once I realise I am out of age range thats fine obviously no point anyhow.. and equally there is no point in them being able to see me in the first place - which is my original point !
Indeed a very buxon young lass viewed me earlier great but not of much use!
But if any fabsters that like 50 yr old men want to perve my profile please feel free LOL.
Thanks for your responses and love to you all ! x l"I look at profiles for all sorts of reasons...I might see a picture that intrigues me, they might post something interesting in the forum, they may have looked at ys or fabbed a picture...you're inside our age preference but we're not interested in single men...perhaps we should be filtered from looking at you too...after all it would be terrible if we entered into a conversation on here because we have something in common if we're never going to fuck... Oh by the way-it doesn't show your age on a forum post...just sayin' | |||
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"Is there a way to stop people viewing my profile if I am out of their age range? Why bother letting them see me if I cant contact them and im apparently not of interest ? ( why do they look ? ) Indeed if I also couldnt see them too when browsing it would save a lot of disapointment if they are hot
A similar screen to the out of age range for messages would be a hit with me "In some ways we agree with you. Whats the point of having those outside of our inetrests and ranges being able to look at our profile? However, there is also that other side thinking why should you not be able to look? Just because they look, doesn;t mean they are INTERESTED. They may just be looking at your profile for some other reason - that reason you just don't know. Perhaps it's something you said in the forums? Usually most looks from those outside your interests are people checking your profile from something you have said in the forum - go without the forum for a month, and see how many looks your profiles declines by. Because generally you will only get those looking within your interests cos they come across you by "searching". and the rest will come along, by you being on people friend or validation lists. In summery - dont think too much about it. If your of interest to others, they will contact you, and you will contact those that interest you - they rest dont matter.  | |||
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"Is there a way to stop people viewing my profile if I am out of their age range? Why bother letting them see me if I cant contact them and im apparently not of interest ? ( why do they look ? ) Indeed if I also couldnt see them too when browsing it would save a lot of disapointment if they are hot
A similar screen to the out of age range for messages would be a hit with me
In some ways we agree with you.
Whats the point of having those outside of our inetrests and ranges being able to look at our profile?
However, there is also that other side thinking why should you not be able to look?
Just because they look, doesn;t mean they are INTERESTED. They may just be looking at your profile for some other reason - that reason you just don't know. Perhaps it's something you said in the forums?
Usually most looks from those outside your interests are people checking your profile from something you have said in the forum - go without the forum for a month, and see how many looks your profiles declines by.
Because generally you will only get those looking within your interests cos they come across you by "searching".
and the rest will come along, by you being on people friend or validation lists.
In summery - dont think too much about it. If your of interest to others, they will contact you, and you will contact those that interest you - they rest dont matter.
"You are right . It doesnt matter. Its not really a big issue just a comment for debate and I pretty much agree with most of the replies. After all we are all free to use fab to suit our own requirements. Again no issues for me being looked at but id rather not know they had looked if the lookers are not suitable - purely from an idealists point of view. Anyhow ive been here a long time so know how it works ( yep fab is still the best site) and appreciate your replies . As always love to you all and good luck on this Friday 13th .  | |||
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"How would they know how old you are until they look at your profile? It does say before you open a profile. ! x l"It doesn't as I am looking at your profile right now. Maybe the buxom blonde was looking from the same place too
I look at lots of profiles for lots of reasons, it doesn't mean I am looking for a meet from it, maybe people are just doing the same | |||
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"How would they know how old you are until they look at your profile? It does say before you open a profile. ! x l
It doesn't as I am looking at your profile right now. Maybe the buxom blonde was looking from the same place too
I look at lots of profiles for lots of reasons, it doesn't mean I am looking for a meet from it, maybe people are just doing the same "I am more than happy said buxom lady found my profile even if she may have made a hasty exit . Lol . Indeed I too look at many profiles out of curiosity and realise I dont want to meet either Buxon lady wasnt in that category haha.
At least in forum I can reply to out of age range people . By the way I have met out of age range people on here. ( An exception or two both ways I must add) Luckily they lifted those filters.
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PS we are not rigid on the age range we look for and have met people outside of it....so if you were blocked from people viewing you then you may lose out on people who are not rigid either | |||
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PS we are not rigid on the age range we look for and have met people outside of it....so if you were blocked from people viewing you then you may lose out on people who are not rigid either "I know . I do agree with you
Its just typical of fab that the ones you would like to make an exception to after reading their profile are the ones with their filter on.
I think I also recall being winked but then optimistically defeated at 5th base or below where ever that is hehe - i couldnt reply or wink back as I was just too old (as if) lol. Teasers eh?
As always love to you all whatever your age or preference | |||
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PS we are not rigid on the age range we look for and have met people outside of it....so if you were blocked from people viewing you then you may lose out on people who are not rigid either
I know . I do agree with you
Its just typical of fab that the ones you would like to make an exception to after reading their profile are the ones with their filter on.
I think I also recall being winked but then optimistically defeated at 5th base or below where ever that is hehe - i couldnt reply or wink back as I was just too old (as if) lol. Teasers eh?
As always love to you all whatever your age or preference "No if they wink at you, you can respond. Unless they then block you individually. Winks, pm's, fr remove any filters in place. | |||
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PS we are not rigid on the age range we look for and have met people outside of it....so if you were blocked from people viewing you then you may lose out on people who are not rigid either
I know . I do agree with you
Its just typical of fab that the ones you would like to make an exception to after reading their profile are the ones with their filter on.
I think I also recall being winked but then optimistically defeated at 5th base or below where ever that is hehe - i couldnt reply or wink back as I was just too old (as if) lol. Teasers eh?
As always love to you all whatever your age or preference
No if they wink at you, you can respond. Unless they then block you individually. Winks, pm's, fr remove any filters in place. "As I said I couldnt remember exactly what as it was ages ago (more than a year or so) . However maybe i was put on their block list Look , wink block ? Probably for the best. Haha.
But thanks for pointing that out.
So once again love to you all and lets hope friday the 13th is lucky for some.
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