FabSwingers.com forum: Surely a cpl 2 cpl mail deserves a reply?

By *urreysexysurrey OP Couple
over a year ago

Epsom/Carshalton

I understand the 1000s of single men not getting replies, but surely when a polite, friendly cpl send another cpl a polite message, they deserve a thanks but no thanks?

This lifestyle is meant to have etiquette, and lets be honest even Brad and Angelina wouldn't have 200 emails on here from GENUINE couples!

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

Nope, sorry, don't agree.

No message DESERVES a reply. It's up to the person on the receiving end to decide if they want to reply to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you've missed the OP's point here. She is just asking for people to have a bit of a heart and not be quite so ruthless if rejecting people.

We usually send a little message saying, thanks for your interest but we wont be taking this further. Often you have the urge to say because of such and such but..... It's probs best just left at that unless the other people send you a reply demanding why you have rejected their awesome persona. Then I might let them have it both barrels but probably take the cowards approach, bite fingers and stop myself from doing that
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So in simple terms, saying nothing, which according to the site rules is NOT rude, is polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we receive a well written message then we tend to reply even if not interested.

But you seem to imply that couples all send decent messages. And they don't. I have better things to do than reply to crap messages from people that we have no interest in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we receive a well written message then we tend to reply even if not interested.

But you seem to imply that couples all send decent messages. And they don't. I have better things to do than reply to crap messages from people that we have no interest in."

So because your a couple your above single guys ?

Not good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we receive a well written message then we tend to reply even if not interested.

But you seem to imply that couples all send decent messages. And they don't. I have better things to do than reply to crap messages from people that we have no interest in.

So because your a couple your above single guys ?

Not good "

I'd love to know how you come to that conclusion from this post?

Though I did think the same from the tone of the OP's post. Saying it was understandable that single men didn't get them but that couples deserved them is a pretty unpleasent and elitest attitude.

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

"I think you've missed the OP's point here. She is just asking for people to have a bit of a heart and not be quite so ruthless if rejecting people.

I'm not missing any point. Posting about this is no different to a single guy posting and being told that he isn't guaranteed a reply.

If we received a message from a couple who we had no interest in then we would probably just delete too. We receive a message, we read it, then we read the profile and if we aren't interested then nothing. No message back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we receive a well written message then we tend to reply even if not interested.

But you seem to imply that couples all send decent messages. And they don't. I have better things to do than reply to crap messages from people that we have no interest in.

So because your a couple your above single guys ?

Not good

I'd love to know how you come to that conclusion from this post?

Though I did think the same from the tone of the OP's post. Saying it was understandable that single men didn't get them but that couples deserved them is a pretty unpleasent and elitest attitude."

Sorry no thumbs up to what you said the bit after was to th op

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

"If we receive a well written message then we tend to reply even if not interested.

But you seem to imply that couples all send decent messages. And they don't. I have better things to do than reply to crap messages from people that we have no interest in.

So because your a couple your above single guys ?

Not good

I'd love to know how you come to that conclusion from this post?

Though I did think the same from the tone of the OP's post. Saying it was understandable that single men didn't get them but that couples deserved them is a pretty unpleasent and elitest attitude."

I think it was aimed at the OP tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you've missed the OP's point here. She is just asking for people to have a bit of a heart and not be quite so ruthless if rejecting people.

If people are so sensitive that they genuinely view no reply as "ruthless" they really need to ask if they should be on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we receive a well written message then we tend to reply even if not interested.

But you seem to imply that couples all send decent messages. And they don't. I have better things to do than reply to crap messages from people that we have no interest in.

So because your a couple your above single guys ?

Not good

I'd love to know how you come to that conclusion from this post?

Though I did think the same from the tone of the OP's post. Saying it was understandable that single men didn't get them but that couples deserved them is a pretty unpleasent and elitest attitude.

Sorry no thumbs up to what you said the bit after was to th op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one is deserving of a reply if the recipient chooses not to reply,I really can't see that it makes it anymore deserving if its couple to couple rather than single male to couple

The sense of entitlement along with total disregard for a big section of the site as being expected to be ignored does'nt come across as very respectful

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

It's everyone's choice to reply or not

Just take no reply as not interested

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