FabSwingers.com forum: Are you interested?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So it seems the majority of people on here don't like friend requests or winks and they get ignored.

My own use of them is it means I may be interested but would like to see a face pic maybe etc and then chat. I know everyone is going to say 'message first' and I totally agree about sending a message and trying to make an impression. But the women on here get so many messages you don't know if it's going to get read and if you've wasted your time. At least if they accept a friend request or wink back then you may be in with a chance.

It seems like I'm in the minority with this way of thinking though, so I have a suggestion;

replace the wink button with "Are you interested?" this sends the other person a clickable request which has two options;

"Maybe, message me"

"No thanks"

By *ustyBrunette35Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

Can we just leave it as it is.

It really isn't broken in my opinion so doesn't need fixing

By *ustyBrunette35Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

"It seems like I'm in the minority with this way of thinking though, so I have a suggestion;

replace the wink button with "Are you interested?" this sends the other person a clickable request which has two options;

"Maybe, message me"

"No thanks""

Would there be a 3rd option to ignore it completely ?

By *eviousLiasonsCouple
over a year ago

Travelling

We already have this system in place???

You wink someone.... it means you are interested.

They wink or mail back... they are interested too.

You get nothing... they are not interested.

genius eh?