FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think you should only be allowed to be verified if you have had at least one meet not by viewing some one on CAM.

It is a swinging site, yes people who meet other people for sex. If I wanted to watch some one I don't know I can buy a porn film. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people should be allowed to use the site the way they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree to a certain degree but the problem with cam veris is they are given far too easily and to the detriment of the site. We think this is alot of the reason people are on hete with bad attitudes and are the ones which usually spoil the chatrooms and forums.

Domething which is difficult to gain is usually something people like to hold onto so they think more about their actions. So we are all for meet only veries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry about spelling finger probs on phone but im not deleting and writing again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being verified by meets is not a 100% guarantee of anything

I don't see anything wrong with a cam veri if its to say the profile holder is representative to the profile

Lots of people just cam on here as thats their thing,if its not yours then its easy to concentrate on people that have meet veris only

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Being verified by meets is not a 100% guarantee of anything

I don't see anything wrong with a cam veri if its to say the profile holder is representative to the profile

Lots of people just cam on here as thats their thing,if its not yours then its easy to concentrate on people that have meet veris only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab Swingers is not just used as a swinging site.

There are singles that meet only singles (not swinging), people that look for cam fun (exhibitionists and voyeurs), Bi guys looking for bi guys and other types of users.

Therefore as the site is used by others for more then just "swinging", it up to the individual how they wish to use the site, including the use of verifications.

So if you just want to meet "meet verified", then you stick to that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given that there are so many complaints about 'fake' profiles (i.e. a guy pretending to be a couple), I think cam-verifications are useful, to verify the existence of a female.

I won't cam-verify a single guy though, as I think it's pointless - no-one ever pretends to be a single guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab Swingers is not just used as a swinging site.

There are singles that meet only singles (not swinging), people that look for cam fun (exhibitionists and voyeurs), Bi guys looking for bi guys and other types of users.

Therefore as the site is used by others for more then just "swinging", it up to the individual how they wish to use the site, including the use of verifications.

So if you just want to meet "meet verified", then you stick to that..

One problem with that - if people hide their verifications and summary, then the profile reader doesn't know what type of verification the tick represents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the verification process is good but we will only verify if we have met or cammed with a potential meet. There are some that will verify others at the drop of a hat and that's when the issues arise. Unfortunately there will always be some who try to get round the system, but a phone call and cam to cam sorts this out usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the fact this site has a verification process. A previous site I was on, men paid an extortionate subscription free. Women joined free but there was still a huge gender imbalance. Amongst the women there were scammers, men posing as women, escorts and fake profiles by admin.

The last time I went on there was to promote this site. I had scores of hungry men

clamouring to meet me. So I told them to join here for free and get verified, then it's a possibility

One of those men would have been a mod, who then deleted me hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab Swingers is not just used as a swinging site.

There are singles that meet only singles (not swinging), people that look for cam fun (exhibitionists and voyeurs), Bi guys looking for bi guys and other types of users.

Therefore as the site is used by others for more then just "swinging", it up to the individual how they wish to use the site, including the use of verifications.

So if you just want to meet "meet verified", then you stick to that..

One problem with that - if people hide their verifications and summary, then the profile reader doesn't know what type of verification the tick represents."

You could ask them,or ignore those profiles or if you really like the look of someone you could just chat and work out if you like them or not from actually speaking to them

Or you could use the search function that will only show people that have been verified by meets

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I love the fact this site has a verification process. A previous site I was on, men paid an extortionate subscription free. Women joined free but there was still a huge gender imbalance. Amongst the women there were scammers, men posing as women, escorts and fake profiles by admin.

The last time I went on there was to promote this site. I had scores of hungry men

clamouring to meet me. So I told them to join here for free and get verified, then it's a possibility

One of those men would have been a mod, who then deleted me hahaha"

So it was you who lured all the fakes in here !

Get her lads.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people should be allowed to use the site the way they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verification is just that verifying that the person who's pics are on profile are real, and that can be done by cam just as well as by meeting. A useful tool for single men who don't get a fair chance as it is to prove they are genuinely who they say they are, I don't see a problem with cam verifs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've known of some people getting verified by not even meeting and have admitted it, i think the whole verifercation system leaves a lot to be desired

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've known of some people getting verified by not even meeting and have admitted it, i think the whole verifercation system leaves a lot to be desired

No verification system is 100% foolproof - therefore every user should use it with a dash of common sense.

Your own due diligence checks/methods should also be used!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've known of some people getting verified by not even meeting and have admitted it, i think the whole verifercation system leaves a lot to be desired

No verification system is 100% foolproof - therefore every user should use it with a dash of common sense.

Your own due diligence checks/methods should also be used!"

And that is what we do try to do, and yes we know that, and they soon go running once the excuses run out lol

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I won't cam-verify a single guy though, as I think it's pointless - no-one ever pretends to be a single guy."

Thats what you think - you should see the size of my cock

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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I won't cam-verify a single guy though, as I think it's pointless - no-one ever pretends to be a single guy.

Thats what you think - you should see the size of my cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good point we use the phone to make sure they are genuine but don't verify people unless we have met them and they look like there pics xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab Swingers is not just used as a swinging site.

There are singles that meet only singles (not swinging), people that look for cam fun (exhibitionists and voyeurs), Bi guys looking for bi guys and other types of users.

Therefore as the site is used by others for more then just "swinging", it up to the individual how they wish to use the site, including the use of verifications.

So if you just want to meet "meet verified", then you stick to that..

I think your definition if swinging is wrong or very out of date.

"Swinging or (rarely) partner swapping is a non-monogamous behavior, in which singles or partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.[1] Swinging can take place in a number of contexts, ranging from spontaneous sexual activity at informal gatherings of friends to planned regular social meetings to "hooking up" with like-minded people at a swingers' club. It can also involve Internet-based swinger social networking services online.

The phenomenon of swinging, or at least its wider discussion and practice, is regarded by some as arising from the upsurge in sexual activity during the sexual revolution of the 1960s, made possible by the invention of the contraceptive pill and the emergence of treatments for many of the sexually transmitted diseases that were known at that time.

The swinger community is sometimes referred to as the Lifestyle, or the Alternative Lifestyle.[2] This term has replaced the older term wife-swapping, once considered to be equivalent to "swinging." The term "wife-swapping" is criticized today for being androcentric, for presuming that the partners are a married heterosexual couple, and for presuming that it is the male who is in control of the sexual activities. Additionally, the term "wife-swapping" is criticized for not accurately describing the full range of sexual activities in which both singles or couples may take part."

So singles meeting singles is swinging, swinging is not just couples.

As to the original point, I think the verification process works well, it's a guide to assist you, nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab Swingers is not just used as a swinging site.

There are singles that meet only singles (not swinging), people that look for cam fun (exhibitionists and voyeurs), Bi guys looking for bi guys and other types of users.

Therefore as the site is used by others for more then just "swinging", it up to the individual how they wish to use the site, including the use of verifications.

So if you just want to meet "meet verified", then you stick to that..

I think your definition if swinging is wrong or very out of date.

So singles meeting singles is swinging, swinging is not just couples.

As to the original point, I think the verification process works well, it's a guide to assist you, nothing more. "

A term like swinging is defined by many different ways by many different people.

There is no definite definition of swinging.. it's just a made up broad term, which covers many outcomes.

Personally, singles playing with singles is just naturally playing the field.

Which is why it was originally used in this context to shop the OP there are many people here for many different things.

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By *cott katieCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury Shropshire

We hide our verifications because a person we friended then contacted our meets to ask questions about us, thankfully our friends didn't give out details x

We are more than willing to display them for a few minutes to anyone who we are chatting to and hopefully going to meet if they wish to see them xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really care about verifications..someone else's (usually also unknown to me) opinion? Bah! I have met with verified that were total duds but had friends vouch for them. And I've met unverified and had a lovely time. So no thanks, I'd rather talk on the phone & meet than count on what someone else has said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you should only be allowed to be verified if you have had at least one meet not by viewing some one on CAM.

It is a swinging site, yes people who meet other people for sex. If I wanted to watch some one I don't know I can buy a porn film. x

There site is many things for many people you can usually see who meets and who doesn't but its not hard to only chat with people who have meet verifications so why try and impose restrictions on others when its not necessary.

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