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" One question does this tally up all your verifications even the ones you choose not to show? " Yes 
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"Thanks Admin great job we have displayed ours and people can now see exactly what we have been verified for. One question does this tally up all your verifications even the ones you choose not to show? " Ooops I see that it does | |||
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"I quite like it... although question for admin... I have a verification (which I have reported to you previously to ask for it to be removed) from someone who couldn't mail me and attempted to contact me that way. I don't generally cam... so dont really want "1 cam" veri showing up if I showel this. Can this veri be removed altogether please.." We'll make sure that blocked users don't show in the count so you'll just need to block the user. Not sure how it works now but we'll fix/resolve tomorrow Admin x | |||
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"I think its great and should be put on profile with no opt out esp the bit that says they have met as some wont show veri cause there only cam veri so you still dont no if there genuine meets " | |||
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"I quite like it... although question for admin... I have a verification (which I have reported to you previously to ask for it to be removed) from someone who couldn't mail me and attempted to contact me that way. I don't generally cam... so dont really want "1 cam" veri showing up if I showel this. Can this veri be removed altogether please.. We'll make sure that blocked users don't show in the count so you'll just need to block the user. Not sure how it works now but we'll fix/resolve tomorrow Admin x" He is blocked... but still showing as "xx meet 1 cam" on the summary  | |||
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"I think its great and should be put on profile with no opt out esp the bit that says they have met as some wont show veri cause there only cam veri so you still dont no if there genuine meets " | |||
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Is there any reason why you can't just make old verifications show up instead though?
Seems unfair that if someone leaves you lose their verification. In our case, nearly a dozen of them  | |||
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"I quite like it... although question for admin... I have a verification (which I have reported to you previously to ask for it to be removed) from someone who couldn't mail me and attempted to contact me that way. I don't generally cam... so dont really want "1 cam" veri showing up if I showel this. Can this veri be removed altogether please.. We'll make sure that blocked users don't show in the count so you'll just need to block the user. Not sure how it works now but we'll fix/resolve tomorrow Admin x" Admin, how would this work if user no longer on site? | |||
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"I quite like it... although question for admin... I have a verification (which I have reported to you previously to ask for it to be removed) from someone who couldn't mail me and attempted to contact me that way. I don't generally cam... so dont really want "1 cam" veri showing up if I showel this. Can this veri be removed altogether please.. We'll make sure that blocked users don't show in the count so you'll just need to block the user. Not sure how it works now but we'll fix/resolve tomorrow Admin x Admin, how would this work if user no longer on site?" It seems to just show as a number Mine says I have 5 (i think) veris from MF cpls... on my actual veri list I can only see 2.. the other 3 have left the site.. | |||
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"A great addition to a profile and we think if the people are definitely genuine then they will display (as we have). Brilliant idea." I like the idea - and am definitely genuine - I just don't like the idea showing how many veris I have in total - it doesn't differentiate between social meets and play meets or repeat veris (I don't think so, anyway) - so I look like I've shagged half of fab from the numbers lol!! I also have a few 'spoof' veris from friends  | |||
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"I quite like it... although question for admin... I have a verification (which I have reported to you previously to ask for it to be removed) from someone who couldn't mail me and attempted to contact me that way. I don't generally cam... so dont really want "1 cam" veri showing up if I showel this. Can this veri be removed altogether please.. We'll make sure that blocked users don't show in the count so you'll just need to block the user. Not sure how it works now but we'll fix/resolve tomorrow Admin x Admin, how would this work if user no longer on site? It seems to just show as a number Mine says I have 5 (i think) veris from MF cpls... on my actual veri list I can only see 2.. the other 3 have left the site.." Yes but if you didn't want that webcam veri and the person had left the site. You wouldn't be able to block them, so it would still show in your summary | |||
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"I quite like it... although question for admin... I have a verification (which I have reported to you previously to ask for it to be removed) from someone who couldn't mail me and attempted to contact me that way. I don't generally cam... so dont really want "1 cam" veri showing up if I showel this. Can this veri be removed altogether please.. We'll make sure that blocked users don't show in the count so you'll just need to block the user. Not sure how it works now but we'll fix/resolve tomorrow Admin x Admin, how would this work if user no longer on site? It seems to just show as a number Mine says I have 5 (i think) veris from MF cpls... on my actual veri list I can only see 2.. the other 3 have left the site.. Yes but if you didn't want that webcam veri and the person had left the site. You wouldn't be able to block them, so it would still show in your summary" Aah I get ya now.. Although at the minute having them blocked isn't making a difference anyway. | |||
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"A great addition to a profile and we think if the people are definitely genuine then they will display (as we have). Brilliant idea. I like the idea - and am definitely genuine - I just don't like the idea showing how many veris I have in total - it doesn't differentiate between social meets and play meets or repeat veris (I don't think so, anyway) - so I look like I've shagged half of fab from the numbers lol!! I also have a few 'spoof' veris from friends "Only shagged half of fab ??? Don't put yourself down lol | |||
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I wouldn't like it if you couldn't opt out of showing it. | |||
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"Nice Idea if you have a lot of meets, But as i do read peoples profiles that should tell me whether or not they are into singles or couples or own sex (Unless they are lying...) i do think some will find it useful though even if i don't want to use it. The Muncher" Same a verification from same sex however does not always mean a play meet - it would be good if there was a way of marking a verification as "social" or "play" so it does not cause confusion. (I can hear a few bi guys rumbling "but you claim to be straight yet have verifications from guys! Are you in the closet??" - No, I just don't have a problem chatting and having a laugh with other guys at socials - if they choose to verify me, I won't complain | |||
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"A great addition to a profile and we think if the people are definitely genuine then they will display (as we have). Brilliant idea. I like the idea - and am definitely genuine - I just don't like the idea showing how many veris I have in total - it doesn't differentiate between social meets and play meets or repeat veris (I don't think so, anyway) - so I look like I've shagged half of fab from the numbers lol!! I also have a few 'spoof' veris from friends "Does give an idea of repeat meets as it shows how many of each type of profile have verified you and how many veris you have for meet/cam....so you could, for example, be verified by 10 couples but from 20 meets | |||
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"DISLIKE! Mine counts 14 verifications, yet some of these are from the same guys who I have met more than once. It does not distinguish between regular meets. " Ours counts 11 veris from 9 people, That tells anyone reading it that at least two people are repeat meets. The same would apply to yours, surely.....?? | |||
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"DISLIKE! Mine counts 14 verifications, yet some of these are from the same guys who I have met more than once. It does not distinguish between regular meets. " Good point. Note to admin - perhaps a "count(user)" then "group by user" rather than "count(*)" then "group by profile type" will be more accurate? | |||
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"I Just want to pick up on the point about it being opt in for existing users Does this mean that it will be compulsory for new profiles? " Good point! I'm beginning to have second thoughts about this. The only thing we really want to know about someone is if they have either had at least one veri by meeting, or are photo-verified. How many they have and with whom is of no interest to us....
Just a different coloured tick would do it, to be honest. Green for meet verified, orange for web verified only maybe...????
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"I don't particularly like it,I would rather have the ticks that say either a meet or cam veri.....I don't like the counter at all,and already people are tossing the genuine word around regarding using it Im glad its an opt in feature,ill keep my profile as it is "I tend to agree. I don't understand the point of a site feedback forum where members voice their views only for something different to be implemented. I could be completely wrong and if so I apologise but I always thought it was to show a different icon for cam or meet in person. To all the people saying make it compulsory. How would you like to be forced to show all your veris on the current system? | |||
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"I don't particularly like it,I would rather have the ticks that say either a meet or cam veri.....I don't like the counter at all,and already people are tossing the genuine word around regarding using it Im glad its an opt in feature,ill keep my profile as it is
I tend to agree. I don't understand the point of a site feedback forum where members voice their views only for something different to be implemented.
I could be completely wrong and if so I apologise but I always thought it was to show a different icon for cam or meet in person.
To all the people saying make it compulsory. How would you like to be forced to show all your veris on the current system?"Don't worry Ryan! Nobody believed that 'brokeback mountain' thread! | |||
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"Don't worry Ryan! Nobody believed that 'brokeback mountain' thread! "you reckon...... ? | |||
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"I don't particularly like it,I would rather have the ticks that say either a meet or cam veri.....I don't like the counter at all,and already people are tossing the genuine word around regarding using it Im glad its an opt in feature,ill keep my profile as it is
I tend to agree. I don't understand the point of a site feedback forum where members voice their views only for something different to be implemented.
I could be completely wrong and if so I apologise but I always thought it was to show a different icon for cam or meet in person.
To all the people saying make it compulsory. How would you like to be forced to show all your veris on the current system?"I'd have to leave if I was forced to show all my veri's. | |||
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"I don't particularly like it,I would rather have the ticks that say either a meet or cam veri.....I don't like the counter at all,and already people are tossing the genuine word around regarding using it Im glad its an opt in feature,ill keep my profile as it is
I tend to agree. I don't understand the point of a site feedback forum where members voice their views only for something different to be implemented.
I could be completely wrong and if so I apologise but I always thought it was to show a different icon for cam or meet in person.
To all the people saying make it compulsory. How would you like to be forced to show all your veris on the current system?
Don't worry Ryan!
Nobody believed that 'brokeback mountain' thread! "They bloody will. You verified me | |||
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"I don't particularly like it,I would rather have the ticks that say either a meet or cam veri.....I don't like the counter at all,and already people are tossing the genuine word around regarding using it Im glad its an opt in feature,ill keep my profile as it is
I tend to agree. I don't understand the point of a site feedback forum where members voice their views only for something different to be implemented.
I could be completely wrong and if so I apologise but I always thought it was to show a different icon for cam or meet in person.
To all the people saying make it compulsory. How would you like to be forced to show all your veris on the current system?
Don't worry Ryan!
Nobody believed that 'brokeback mountain' thread!
They bloody will. You verified me "I did not!!!
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"Don't worry Ryan! Nobody believed that 'brokeback mountain' thread!
you reckon...... ? "I believe it | |||
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"I Just want to pick up on the point about it being opt in for existing users Does this mean that it will be compulsory for new profiles? " No, but we might make the default on. Users will always be able to change from manage verifications page. Admin x | |||
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"DISLIKE! Mine counts 14 verifications, yet some of these are from the same guys who I have met more than once. It does not distinguish between regular meets. Good point. Note to admin - perhaps a "count(user)" then "group by user" rather than "count(*)" then "group by profile type" will be more accurate?" When it says "verified by x people" those x are people, not verifications. Ditto for x men x women etc. The verifications by type e.g. cam/meet/etc are verifications and not grouped. Admin x | |||
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"Nice Idea if you have a lot of meets, But as i do read peoples profiles that should tell me whether or not they are into singles or couples or own sex (Unless they are lying...) i do think some will find it useful though even if i don't want to use it. The Muncher Same a verification from same sex however does not always mean a play meet - it would be good if there was a way of marking a verification as "social" or "play" so it does not cause confusion. (I can hear a few bi guys rumbling "but you claim to be straight yet have verifications from guys! Are you in the closet??" - No, I just don't have a problem chatting and having a laugh with other guys at socials - if they choose to verify me, I won't complain " | |||
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"I Just want to pick up on the point about it being opt in for existing users Does this mean that it will be compulsory for new profiles? No, but we might make the default on. Users will always be able to change from manage verifications page. Admin x" Thanks thats reasonable | |||
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"I think its good and should be turned on for all to show if verifications by meeting,camming and so on ... However I think the option should be to display the actual verification count or not." | |||
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It just scared me as to the extent of fun I've actually had ...... Might be time to settle down lol
Nah, with so many gorgeous ladys on here, I'm disabling my delete button as we speak.
Fab is the best | |||
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"I think its great and should be put on profile with no opt out esp the bit that says they have met as some wont show veri cause there only cam veri so you still dont no if there genuine meets " Curious as to why you think someone else should be allowed to choose what I put on my profile? I think that my instincts are sufficient for me to decide to meet someone. I don't dictate how you should make decisions on how you choose to select people to meet. Why do you think you have the right to dictate my choices? A little green tick tells you that someone has been verified if that's what you need to decide. I don't and I certainly don't need to be forced to show any sort of verification information to ensure a meet. I'm aware I'm a girl thus making it slightly (!) easier for me than a single bloke for example. 
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Optional is good.
We all have a mind of our own. If you need help with choosing the people you meet then it's a great system for you. However, I don't require outside help in choosing who I meet. | |||
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" I don't dictate how you should make decisions on how you choose to select people to meet. A little green tick tells you that someone has been verified if that's what you need to decide. " While we would never think that anyone should be forced into showing their verifications, the current system doesn't give enough information! The little green tick is not enough information for us, we want to meet people who have verifications via meets and not cams. So the problem is that anyone who like you wants to hide their verifys and we cannot see if they have meet verifications we have to pass them by
But if we had a 2 colour system, green tick verified by meeting or orange tick cam verified, we could see they had met someone and perhaps then meet them!
The new feature, for us gives to much information, we don't need to know someone has met 100 times with 3 different people, just that they have actually met someone.
But we have found a new way to verify our meets! We meet people at clubs! or we meet people via recommendations from other FAB members, we know or have met.
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Wowsers!! That's a whole other level of discretion or lack of that I'm just not comfortable with!
Like I said... choice and options! I'll stick with opting out until it becomes compulsory then I'll delete all my verifications and take my chances! Each to their own etc. | |||
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Wowsers!! That's a whole other level of discretion or lack of that I'm just not comfortable with!
Like I said... choice and options! I'll stick with opting out until it becomes compulsory then I'll delete all my verifications and take my chances! Each to their own etc."We to like to use the site while being discreet and would of thought the two colourer tick system would have been a better system to adopt and as a site supporter if it was made compulsory don't think we would stay on here as who and when we meet and the number of times we meet is our business and not the whole sites. | |||
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"Recommendations?
Wowsers!! That's a whole other level of discretion or lack of that I'm just not comfortable with!
Like I said... choice and options! I'll stick with opting out until it becomes compulsory then I'll delete all my verifications and take my chances! Each to their own etc."Why we ONLY meet single guys and their recommendation are of their friends and people who are members of their own groups! Or as today someone will point us in the direction of a FAB profile we may be interested in! Surely a verification is a recommendation anyway!! | |||
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Wowsers!! That's a whole other level of discretion or lack of that I'm just not comfortable with! "So you never take verifications anyway, as they are recommendations and you see those as a lack of discretion? We have recently been contacted by a guy who actually asked us to ask another guy about him, as he knew we had met him as at the time he was a guy who had verified us and was showing on our profile. | |||
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"I don't believe it makes people fake or less real because they don't show them. I don't need to know how good Joe was at making Doris cum like a train and gush all over the place. *vomits* That's between Joe and Doris. " We also don't believe in not showing your verifications makes you less real or fake..but we would like to know if a person has actually played and not just cammed! Again we also don't take too much notice of what the words say, though to say we cringe would be going a little too far! But as we travel quite a few miles to meet someone, not having any idea of if they will turn up or not is important to us, so we only have verification to go on and usually if they have turned up for a few others then they normally show , we have only ever had 1 or 2 back out and they have given us notice, so has worked so far. Discretion while important to us also, as we meet at parties and clubs with lots of people, we understand that discretion in these circumstances is more difficult. We also let people know our FAB profile name and if they then let others know about us that's OK, as again we have met many good meets this way over the years. As we meet ONLY single guys (no females or couples)there are obviously loads of single guys joining the site after a few beers on FRi/Sat night they may be married etc..so again the verification allows us to filter a little | |||
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I just wondered in my original response why the poster thought there should be no option to opt out... I'm still none the wiser. | |||
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"I quite like it... although question for admin... I have a verification (which I have reported to you previously to ask for it to be removed) from someone who couldn't mail me and attempted to contact me that way. I don't generally cam... so dont really want "1 cam" veri showing up if I showel this. Can this veri be removed altogether please.. We'll make sure that blocked users don't show in the count so you'll just need to block the user. Not sure how it works now but we'll fix/resolve tomorrow Admin x" Could be tricky to block the user if they have already left the site. I have one veri from a male that is mentioned on the summary, but I cannot display the veri to show it was a fellow social attendee and not a play meet. As I result I am now considering that it may be better to hide the summary. Shame as I would prefer to be transparent (rather than hiding information) to more correctly portray myself. | |||
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"Nice Idea if you have a lot of meets, But as i do read peoples profiles that should tell me whether or not they are into singles or couples or own sex (Unless they are lying...) i do think some will find it useful though even if i don't want to use it. The Muncher Same a verification from same sex however does not always mean a play meet - it would be good if there was a way of marking a verification as "social" or "play" so it does not cause confusion. (I can hear a few bi guys rumbling "but you claim to be straight yet have verifications from guys! Are you in the closet??" - No, I just don't have a problem chatting and having a laugh with other guys at socials - if they choose to verify me, I won't complain " | |||
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" I just wondered in my original response why the poster thought there should be no option to opt out... I'm still none the wiser. "I think they can see the same issue that we have, the current system if you decide to hide your verifications, you are unable to see if the verification is for a meet or a cam. The new system only allows you to work this out if you show the new features, which most won't! so they want to make people show the info so they can see if someone has been verified by meet as like us we ONLY want to meet people who are verified by meet as we disregard cams ONLY verifications. Like we said originally we don't want to make anything compulsory, just different colours so you can see if they are verified by meet, cam or both,seems easy, no kneed to see the wording, as like you what's it matter, or to see how many of each or how many people etc... | |||
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"Great idea - although the tick allows other to see you have been verified, that could have been from one very old verification. Now you have an idea of how many and when was the last verification, even if not shown. This all helps to give an indication of those who are genuine. Obviously having no verifications does not make for fake or timewaster but helps people to make up their own minds." Very true x | |||
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"Well i realise everyone loves this option but I have a gripe: Fab stores data, if users left the site the data is still stored. what else is stored? All messages? photos? Videos? When we signed up for the site we were not informed that all data sent /recieved would be stored. We dont see this function as a positive move.. MT" We keep a count but no personal data is retained. This is why we cannot show the verification text once a user leaves the site. Over a million messages are sent each day. Even if we wanted to and were allowed to (we don't and we aren't), it wouldn't be practical in terms of storage to retain anything - the numbers are far too big. Admin x | |||
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" We keep a count but no personal data is retained. This is why we cannot show the verification text once a user leaves the site. Admin x" Thanks for clarifying this Admin. Is this the first time you have revealed this? Members have been requesting this for months and months. Would have saved a fair bit of time and frustration. | |||
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" We keep a count but no personal data is retained. This is why we cannot show the verification text once a user leaves the site. Admin x Thanks for clarifying this Admin. Is this the first time you have revealed this? Members have been requesting this for months and months. Would have saved a fair bit of time and frustration. " We have said dozens of times, mostly every time that this comes up, that we can't show verification details once someone leaves the site because it is removed. We'll add to the FAQ so we can just refer folks there. Admin x | |||
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" We keep a count but no personal data is retained. This is why we cannot show the verification text once a user leaves the site. Admin x Thanks for clarifying this Admin. Is this the first time you have revealed this? Members have been requesting this for months and months. Would have saved a fair bit of time and frustration. We have said dozens of times, mostly every time that this comes up, that we can't show verification details once someone leaves the site because it is removed. We'll add to the FAQ so we can just refer folks there. Admin x" Good idea. Thanks | |||
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"It seemed as if I was being judged by the amount of meets showing on my summary and I was surprised by the attitude from someone on a site like this." If they are judging you for the way you choose to play then would you have been compatible? My guess is probably not, so if they are put off by the numbers then to me it's worked to deter someone I'm most likely better off not meeting...great tool to me! | |||
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"I've had an email already from a guy telling me to turn my summary off because it doesn't look good, what people are not gonna realise is that i've been on Fabs for four years and that some are from social meets too. Maybe we should have how long we've been a member on here for showing." This post kind of proves my earlier point about where the verification system is going. To explain the contributors stats would need more detail in the summary (eg. length of time on Fabs, avg meets per year, social or play meet, etc) and would anyone viewing it actually understand the picture the summary is painting, or even read it at all??? We see enough threads in the forums complaining about peoples profiles not being read as it is, so it's a bit unrealistic to expect this addition to be read too, isn't it..? I doubt it in either case, to be honest. The only thing that the above user has learned about the guy questioning her veri summary is that he seems quite judgemental and would probably not be the kind of guy she'd want to meet anyway I keep coming back to my experience on another site with no veri system at all - you took people for what they ARE, and NOT for how many people they'd shagged. I think it needs to be sorted out exactly WHAT the veri system is there for? To us, all we want to know is if someone has actually been met in person by other users, thus confirming there is a real person behind the profile. We are not interested in what they did, or did not do, with anyone else - only what they 'could' do with US... I just hope this prompts a more intelligent discussion about the veri system on here, cos it badly needs it... | |||
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"To explain the contributors stats would need more detail in the summary (eg. length of time on Fabs, avg meets per year, social or play meet, etc)" At the moment, the only info, from that selection, that Fab actually has is Avg _VERIS_ per year! People who meet each other regularly tend not to continue issuing a Veri for every meet. "To us, all we want to know is if someone has actually been met in person by other users, thus confirming there is a real person behind the profile." Which is what the Veri system is designed to do! | |||
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" It is merely a snapshot, and shouldn't be usedsolely tomake any decisions." It should'nt but it is! Next thing people will be wanting to attend your meets with other people just to make sure you're genuine and that you fuck in manner thats acceptable to them  | |||
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"I still hate it,it makes people even more judgmental and prone to making completely wrong assumptions about any profiles that choose not to display it People are becoming needlessly obssessed by other peoples profiles and verifications,its beyond ridiculous " | |||
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" It is merely a snapshot, and shouldn't be usedsolely tomake any decisions. It should'nt but it is! Next thing people will be wanting to attend your meets with other people just to make sure you're genuine and that you fuck in manner thats acceptable to them "Haha, don't give some ideas. | |||
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" It is merely a snapshot, and shouldn't be usedsolely tomake any decisions. It should'nt but it is! Next thing people will be wanting to attend your meets with other people just to make sure you're genuine and that you fuck in manner thats acceptable to them "It's fine , admin are going to attend every meet whether social or play thereby ensuring everyone is just what they say they are. I also hear they gonna provide a plan on how said meets should go so everyone is singing from same hymn sheet. | |||
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"There is this member andi on fab we meet and I verified her genuine instead of her doing same she rather block me..pls help I wanna delete my verification frm hers pls help " You can't. The only way you can remove the verification from her profile is to block her. If you remove the block the verification will show again. | |||
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"Great feature - it is very useful for sorting out fakes from genuine swingers - some peeps say they won't publish their verifications - but there is no excuse not to publish this new "summary" .. We have started using it as a brilliant filter tool - if they don't publish verification summary or recent verifications - we block / dont respond - because we have found repeatly they are fakes! So it's a great feature - and should be made compulsory !;-) "Yes fake here block me now because I don't think its anyones elses business on this site how many people I have met so I won't be showing the summary to anyone Im photo verified and meet verified and now even that is'nt good enough,the whole feature is nothing but a tool to accuse people of being fake for not showing it
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"Great feature - it is very useful for sorting out fakes from genuine swingers - some peeps say they won't publish their verifications - but there is no excuse not to publish this new "summary" .. We have started using it as a brilliant filter tool - if they don't publish verification summary or recent verifications - we block / dont respond - because we have found repeatly they are fakes! So it's a great feature - and should be made compulsory !;-)
Yes fake here block me now because I don't think its anyones elses business on this site how many people I have met so I won't be showing the summary to anyone
Im photo verified and meet verified and now even that is'nt good enough,the whole feature is nothing but a tool to accuse people of being fake for not showing it
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"I don't think ive ever felt as strongly about a change on this site in 5 years,this one has pissed me off so much,all we asked for was a coloured tick system to show cam from meet veris because so many people don't like cam veris and we get this instead Im taking my fake ass with my fake meet veris and my fake photo veri out of this thread as its winding me up now " I'm with you there | |||
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"I don't think ive ever felt as strongly about a change on this site in 5 years,this one has pissed me off so much,all we asked for was a coloured tick system to show cam from meet veris because so many people don't like cam veris and we get this instead Im taking my fake ass with my fake meet veris and my fake photo veri out of this thread as its winding me up now
I'm with you there "I'm with you too... But.... If people need to see the summary so badly and think I am fake because I don't show it then that's fine by me. If they are so uptight and pathetic then I don't want to meet them. So it's actually a great tool for ing out the uptight people that can't think for themselves. | |||
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"I don't think ive ever felt as strongly about a change on this site in 5 years,this one has pissed me off so much,all we asked for was a coloured tick system to show cam from meet veris because so many people don't like cam veris and we get this instead Im taking my fake ass with my fake meet veris and my fake photo veri out of this thread as its winding me up now
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I'm with you too... But.... If people need to see the summary so badly and think I am fake because I don't show it then that's fine by me. If they are so uptight and pathetic then I don't want to meet them.
So it's actually a great tool for ing out the uptight people that can't think for themselves. "Now that's the best post I've read on this, never thought of it like that so thank you | |||
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"Great feature - it is very useful for sorting out fakes from genuine swingers - some peeps say they won't publish their verifications - but there is no excuse not to publish this new "summary" .. We have started using it as a brilliant filter tool - if they don't publish verification summary or recent verifications - we block / dont respond - because we have found repeatly they are fakes! So it's a great feature - and should be made compulsory !;-) "I knew we'd have a post like this in this thread eventually. Sorry to say this, but if you are that naive to put ALL your ENTIRE faith in a list of veris and now the summary too, then I think you really need to take a good long look in the mirror at how you're going about all of this. We're not fakes - far from it - but I am getting sick and tired of justifying 'who we are' to people based on THEIR judgement of what is displayed on our profile. Going away now to have a serious think about what we display for the 'judgement' of others..... An annoyed ted. | |||
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"Can we please have a delete verification option too please admin" If you block them the verifications don't show. If you unblock them they show again. | |||
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"Can we please have a delete verification option too please admin" It still won't change your summary | |||
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"Very welcome addition to our profile
Is there any reason why you can't just make old verifications show up instead though?
Seems unfair that if someone leaves you lose their verification. In our case, nearly a dozen of them "Make a note of your verifications on word, that way if someone leaves, you can incorporate it in your profile as I have seen some people do | |||
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"Continuous Improvements to the site make for a better experience for all. However, such improvements ought to be tested and put to a panel of people before they are implemented. This would out the potential issues and raise the recurring important questions, hence helping Admins to develop a better tool more customised to the needs of the members. Admitedly it is impossible to please everyone, but to not try to gain an understanding of what a customer wants is not best practice in any industry." Absolutely as realistically, if one is verified, why have both or is this new idea geared towards those who don't like to show their verifications? | |||
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" It is merely a snapshot, and shouldn't be usedsolely tomake any decisions. It should'nt but it is! Next thing people will be wanting to attend your meets with other people just to make sure you're genuine and that you fuck in manner thats acceptable to them "ooo a gangbang in the local Asda | |||
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" It is merely a snapshot, and shouldn't be usedsolely tomake any decisions. It should'nt but it is! Next thing people will be wanting to attend your meets with other people just to make sure you're genuine and that you fuck in manner thats acceptable to them
ooo a gangbang in the local Asda "Pasta aisle, Thursday..??
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" It is merely a snapshot, and shouldn't be usedsolely tomake any decisions. It should'nt but it is! Next thing people will be wanting to attend your meets with other people just to make sure you're genuine and that you fuck in manner thats acceptable to them
ooo a gangbang in the local Asda
Pasta aisle, Thursday..??
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" It is merely a snapshot, and shouldn't be usedsolely tomake any decisions. It should'nt but it is! Next thing people will be wanting to attend your meets with other people just to make sure you're genuine and that you fuck in manner thats acceptable to them
ooo a gangbang in the local Asda
Pasta aisle, Thursday..??
oooo ya sweet talker you"Well, you wouldn't want it in 'Bleach and Wu Liq' would you..????
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