FabSwingers.com forum: Negative Verifications

By *BC TWO OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Leicester / Birmingham /Bucks

How about a rework on the Verifications system so that people do not get the chose which verifications to display.

A verification that has been left will stay and also an additional negative verification feature with a red mark...A bit like ebay.

This way people will know who is a time waster, who doesn't wash before meets, who has cheesy breath and who's dick/pussy smells of stale pork rinds

I would love to leave a negative feedback for a certain someone but they'll just not display it! So no point leaving it at all!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I don't know you and have never met you, but what would stop me sending you a negative veri?

It would be far too open for abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know you and have never met you, but what would stop me sending you a negative veri?

It would be far too open for abuse. "
True... I agree with the op but cant see how it could be done reliably ....

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

This is why the sensible people here treat veris with lots of caution and why I don't bother asking for them

Far too open to just getting a friend to write something nice and just not posting the bad ones

Not sure how I'd design a perfect system as an alternative though

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

"How about a rework on the Verifications system so that people do not get the chose which verifications to display.

A verification that has been left will stay and also an additional negative verification feature with a red mark...A bit like ebay.

This way people will know who is a time waster, who doesn't wash before meets, who has cheesy breath and who's dick/pussy smells of stale pork rinds

I would love to leave a negative feedback for a certain someone but they'll just not display it! So no point leaving it at all!"

Having recieved an unsolicited verification from a couple I'd never even spoken to, nevermind met, I'd say that your suggestion would be far too open to abuse. If your system was in place I could post negative feedback about you right now and there would be nothing you could do about it.

There will always be lairs, fakes and time wasters, it's your job to try and filter them out and find the genuine people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And what stops the person with a negative veri, just closing down the profile and popping back 2 minutes later?

It works for ebay, luckily this is not ebay.

If this was implemented I would do a new profile & wouldn't get verified period.

I wouldn't give out my fabs name ever, because anyone I reject will leave me a negative feedback.

I'd block any one from mailing me, so as not to upset anyone by declining.

For a site that connects people, it would disconnect myself and I would imagine a lot of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And what stops the person with a negative veri, just closing down the profile and popping back 2 minutes later?

It works for ebay, luckily this is not ebay.

If this was implemented I would do a new profile & wouldn't get verified period.

I wouldn't give out my fabs name ever, because anyone I reject will leave me a negative feedback.

I'd block any one from mailing me, so as not to upset anyone by declining.

For a site that connects people, it would disconnect myself and I would imagine a lot of people "

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"And what stops the person with a negative veri, just closing down the profile and popping back 2 minutes later?

It works for ebay, luckily this is not ebay.

If this was implemented I would do a new profile & wouldn't get verified period.

I wouldn't give out my fabs name ever, because anyone I reject will leave me a negative feedback.

I'd block any one from mailing me, so as not to upset anyone by declining.

For a site that connects people, it would disconnect myself and I would imagine a lot of people "

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

As various other posters have said this idea may need a bit of a rethink.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"How about a rework on the Verifications system so that people do not get the chose which verifications to display.

A verification that has been left will stay and also an additional negative verification feature with a red mark...A bit like ebay.

This way people will know who is a time waster, who doesn't wash before meets, who has cheesy breath and who's dick/pussy smells of stale pork rinds

I would love to leave a negative feedback for a certain someone but they'll just not display it! So no point leaving it at all!"

Just had an idea if it's worth considering.

The idea of displaying feedback is bit too much and something i can't really agree with. It is still my choice to display who i have met and played with as it is to show or not show my pics but the positive or negative feedback may be worth it if you can control or even stop unsolicited feedbacks and negative comments being left.

If it is possible to leave an ebay style pos/beg feedback then can you make it annonymous until the person who the feedback is left for responds with thier feedback. Then you display both at the same time so that the issue of unsolicited feedback dissapears.

for example

- miss-a and mr-b have a meet

- miss-a leaves a pos/neg feedback

- mr-b comes online and sees he has feedback but NOT what it is

- mr-b confirms he has met miss-a and leaves his feedback

- the system accepts both have met and displays the pos/neg feedback

i'm not sure what the feedback comments are going to be to have ratings on them and some, such as was it a good meet/shag will be highly opinionated but the above example (if its possible to do) may relieve some concerns regarding unsolicited feedback

of course this relies on everyone using the set up correctly and not just accepting the feedback for the sake of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about a rework on the Verifications system so that people do not get the chose which verifications to display.

A verification that has been left will stay and also an additional negative verification feature with a red mark...A bit like ebay.

This way people will know who is a time waster, who doesn't wash before meets, who has cheesy breath and who's dick/pussy smells of stale pork rinds

I would love to leave a negative feedback for a certain someone but they'll just not display it! So no point leaving it at all!"

So, basically, you want to be able to leave negative feedback, and FORCE people to display it?

So, if I'd met you, and you don't have a 10" cock, I could say "small cock", and you would be forced to display it?

Not gonna work! Never in a month of Sundays! Sex is far too personal for ebay-style verifications.

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