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By *eleTL99 OP   Man
7 weeks ago

Near you

Could we maybe consider separating Crossdressing from the Trans options?

I feel like 90% of the category is just cross dressers, and there’s certainly a large enough community to justify the split.

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By *eekyscotMan
7 weeks ago

Rhyl

I'd agree with this as I'm fine with trans women but i don't want to meet folks that are cross dressers etc.

not judging I'm just only interested in women.

I had to adjust my looking for settings due to constantly getting messaged by guys that are just dressed in their wives underwear thinking I'll be interested

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
7 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Here here.

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By *appyPandaMan
7 weeks ago

Kilkenny and Waterford

Totally agree.

No offence to anyone, but there is a very big difference between those who may have struggled a long time feeling their body didn't match who they were as a person and those who just love the rush of wearing the opposite gender's clothes for the rush of it (I've done that a few times for the sake of someone else's enjoyment and in no way would I consider myself trans).

To just lump them together is really conflating two very distinct but close categories.

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By *illySlutinOxfordshireTV/TS
7 weeks ago

North Oxfordshire


"Could we maybe consider separating Crossdressing from the Trans options?

I feel like 90% of the category is just cross dressers, and there’s certainly a large enough community to justify the split. "

I rather agree but I fear that this point has been raised a few times before and nothing has happened and I suspect it won’t, partly because there is a bit of a ‘grey area’ between the two anyway, even though occasional cross-dressers, especially the ‘HPW’/wife’s lingerie wearers are nothing like trans-women/ transgender people.

My profile explains my situation as a trans-woman clearly but I still get men asking in messages ‘if I will turn up dressed’! Well it’s not very likely that I will drive somewhere in nightie/negligee dressing gown and slippers is it?!

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By *illySlutinOxfordshireTV/TS
7 weeks ago

North Oxfordshire


"Totally agree.

No offence to anyone, but there is a very big difference between those who may have struggled a long time feeling their body didn't match who they were as a person and those who just love the rush of wearing the opposite gender's clothes for the rush of it (I've done that a few times for the sake of someone else's enjoyment and in no way would I consider myself trans).

To just lump them together is really conflating two very distinct but close categories."

Quite so. Although both may dress in women’s clothes a transvestite who likes doing so for relaxation or a sexual thrill, regularly or occasionally, has a very different perspective to that of a trans-woman who ‘lives as a woman’ and has been or would like to be physically altered.

If you asked TVs/CDs if they wanted to be castrated/emasculated and physically feminised I think that the great majority would run a mile, but that is what I long for!

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