FabSwingers.com forum: No answer is a polite no.

By *acapism51 OP Man
29 weeks ago

sandy

When you receive a message but you’re not interested in meeting the person wouldn’t it be easier if every message sent had a little icon you could press to say you’re not interested. Even though it doesn’t take long to type no thanks, one press of a little icon surely everyone can do that. I think it would stop multiple messages and be so much easier

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
29 weeks ago

East Sussex

The FAQs which are here

https://www.fabswingers.com/articles/FAQ

State the following

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

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By *uperstar76Woman
29 weeks ago

North Lanarkshire

"When you receive a message but you’re not interested in meeting the person wouldn’t it be easier if every message sent had a little icon you could press to say you’re not interested. Even though it doesn’t take long to type no thanks, one press of a little icon surely everyone can do that. I think it would stop multiple messages and be so much easier "

If someone gets no reply then thats on them for re messaging, no reply is a not interested why would pressing a button make any difference?

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By *ins and secretsWoman
29 weeks ago

Glasgow and SW Scotland

Never understood why some people need written rejection

An inbox full of no will not add value to your life

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By *parkleisback79Woman
29 weeks ago

Essex

It's when you don't reply then receive a load of abuse like I did a few days ago calling me a fat c**t, nobody wants me, my pics make him feel sick etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

You've clearly never seen a ladies or a cpls inbox on here. I met a lady a while ago and she had 118 msgs in one morning. She can't possibly type no thank you 118 times. So she replies to who fits her likes and everyone else knows no answer is the same as no

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By *wBiMan
29 weeks ago

somewhere nice

"It's when you don't reply then receive a load of abuse like I did a few days ago calling me a fat c**t, nobody wants me, my pics make him feel sick etc..."

That's just terrible and shouldn't be tolerated you should report them.

I do agree, a small icon button with an polite auto response would be very helpful.

But what you got is terrible.

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