FabSwingers.com forum: verifacations

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know people say verifacations do not matter but it is allways nice to have one or two .So my question why do verifacation get taken off when a person blocks u or leaves the site ? In my case i have met 2 lovely ladies who i had great sex with and both left me very good verifacations but then they started getting attached to me and said it hurts them to see me going with other ladies . so they said they are blocking me and for me to block them so they cant see what im up too .Now they have blocked me i lose there veris . Why is that right ? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, but I agree that there has to be a way for people to withdraw their verifications, if something changes.

It's not just about the sex, it's about how you and the verifier get along in other ways. I once verified a "single" male (he was great in bed! And I hoped to meet him again.) But once his wife started mailing me, I felt I had to withdraw my verification of the lying cheating b*****d!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i do agree but i did nothing wrong they just got emotionly attached but i can see your point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm see now I agree with the op, he should keep the veri's.

He was verified as being real, turning up, putting out and anything else is not what a veri is for.

Maybe keeping the veri but having the writers name removed from it, would have been a better option, alas fabs doesn't have this function.

You do keep your tick though, so you will just have to explain that the veri's are no longer available to display as they have been removed...

Most people understand the veri's go when the person leaving it, leaves the site or what ever

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

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I agree with the op too. Whilst I don't use verifications I understand others do. Verifications let people know you turned up and were pleasant: that didn't change, so why remove the veri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree with the op too. Whilst I don't use verifications I understand others do. Verifications let people know you turned up and were pleasant: that didn't change, so why remove the veri."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a fantastic meet a while back and I left a really good (if I say so myself)verification. I have asked him on a few occasions now if he will leave me one and as to date he still hasn't. This is annoying as it now looks like I haven't had a meet for a while. If I leave him a verification and he hasn't left me one then I should be able to withdraw mine. I know I can do this by blocking him but I don't want to do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree with the OP, i have some great veri's but lost them because the user became too attatched so I had to block them.. I think its only fair if you've been verified genuine that there should be a way to keep them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think site should re-instate veris where someone has left and just indentify/mark them as "left site"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think site should re-instate veris where someone has left and just indentify/mark them as "left site""

I agree with this.

But I think if someone makes a conscious decision to block someone then the verification should go as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think site should re-instate veris where someone has left and just indentify/mark them as "left site"

I agree with this.

But I think if someone makes a conscious decision to block someone then the verification should go as well. "

Yes a block is a block is a block...including veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think site should re-instate veris where someone has left and just indentify/mark them as "left site""

Suggested this around a 1.5 years ago, admin were for it, but nothing happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think site should re-instate veris where someone has left and just indentify/mark them as "left site"

Suggested this around a 1.5 years ago, admin were for it, but nothing happened."

Shall we write to our local MPS?

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

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"Think site should re-instate veris where someone has left and just indentify/mark them as "left site"

I agree with this.

But I think if someone makes a conscious decision to block someone then the verification should go as well.

Yes a block is a block is a block...including veris

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

See this is where i disagree ..The lady in question bkocked me because she became attached to me .So had nothing to do with the veri she left me after a great meet .I would agree if the veri was left then she found out i lied or something but she blocked me out of spite so i would lose my veris off her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope...blocked or whatever, verifications go...so it just means u have to work harder and get other meets...so be it..

and personally speaking, if someone got attached to me..from a few shags I wouldnt want their verifies if they became jealous, namely because Im single...now if I felt differently about the person(ie wanted a relationship)then I'd understand and see what happens.

I'm sensing though, these where supposed to be FB relationships..since all still being on fab and playing around

hope u never promised more than u should have

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Think site should re-instate veris where someone has left and just indentify/mark them as "left site"

Suggested this around a 1.5 years ago, admin were for it, but nothing happened."

I am not sure Admin have ever said they were for this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fabs sister site if a user leaves the veri stays but name changes to (user no longer on site) but on there the veri doesn't disappear if u block them which it should also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On fabs sister site if a user leaves the veri stays but name changes to (user no longer on site) but on there the veri doesn't disappear if u block them which it should also"

So the technology exists - bit of programming

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