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By *oufou OP   Couple
31 weeks ago

Somerset

Has anyone else noticed an increase in M4M profiles here? There seems to be significantly more since COVID. No judgement, but just curious why guys would join here when they have a dedicated community with the sister site, Fabguys?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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31 weeks ago

Central

I've not noticed, with 18 years here but the site overall is much busier, so is better known, presumably than the guy site. Not everyone will know of both sites, some will use both but it makes sense to use the busier of them. A high number of men in mf couples report their own discovery of some limited interest in MM action, when with their wife/girlfriend and wouldn't perhaps venture to the other site, as they want their permanent partner with them for bisexual activities.

Here supports this more complex engagement than probably the other site does.

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By *oufou OP   Couple
31 weeks ago

Somerset


"I've not noticed, with 18 years here but the site overall is much busier, so is better known, presumably than the guy site. Not everyone will know of both sites, some will use both but it makes sense to use the busier of them. A high number of men in mf couples report their own discovery of some limited interest in MM action, when with their wife/girlfriend and wouldn't perhaps venture to the other site, as they want their permanent partner with them for bisexual activities.

Here supports this more complex engagement than probably the other site does."

Fabswingers is roughly double the size of Fabguys in terms of membership, but it seems unlikely that the majority of men here would be interested in a MM experience. Some certainly, but there are far more valid MM users on Fabguys.

You might be right about the complexity of engagement… plus the irony of Fabswingers having plenty of straight guys to view.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago


"Has anyone else noticed an increase in M4M profiles here? There seems to be significantly more since COVID. No judgement, but just curious why guys would join here when they have a dedicated community with the sister site, Fabguys? "

Oh, I think there are many, many reasons - gay men being attracted to straight guys being one. They know that the well hung, married workie who is so horny he is willing to put his cock in any hole isn't going to be logging into Fabguys to find a gay guy...that would be just too 'gay'.

I think it goes back to when Fabguys was started (one reason it was started was to placate the straight men on Fab who were receiving a lot of unwanted attention from other men). All that really happened is those men on here who weren't straight changed their orientation to bi/bi-curious/straight.

One look at my local updates and I can see that the vast majority of males getting verified are straight men being verified by meeting other straight men for fun.

I do not know if these straight mem who meet other straight men for sex truly believe each other is straight. I know there are many who say straight is a spectrum.

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By *piceyMan
31 weeks ago

your marital bed given the chance

Less females and MF couples now on here and therefore males with needs are getting what they can with same sex play?

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By *oufou OP   Couple
31 weeks ago

Somerset


"Has anyone else noticed an increase in M4M profiles here? There seems to be significantly more since COVID. No judgement, but just curious why guys would join here when they have a dedicated community with the sister site, Fabguys?

Oh, I think there are many, many reasons - gay men being attracted to straight guys being one. They know that the well hung, married workie who is so horny he is willing to put his cock in any hole isn't going to be logging into Fabguys to find a gay guy...that would be just too 'gay'.

I think it goes back to when Fabguys was started (one reason it was started was to placate the straight men on Fab who were receiving a lot of unwanted attention from other men). All that really happened is those men on here who weren't straight changed their orientation to bi/bi-curious/straight.

One look at my local updates and I can see that the vast majority of males getting verified are straight men being verified by meeting other straight men for fun.

I do not know if these straight mem who meet other straight men for sex truly believe each other is straight. I know there are many who say straight is a spectrum.

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Agreed. These categories (straight, bi, gay, etc) are not especially useful in practice, but they help us to manage societal expectations.

But I guess my question remains: why after 15 long years has there been an increase in the MM content here?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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31 weeks ago

O o O oo


" (one reason it was started was to placate the straight men on Fab who were receiving a lot of unwanted attention from other men)

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This is not correct

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By *ude12Couple
31 weeks ago

Peterborough

There not much on there fabguys and there a lot of people on here say there not bi but have profile on fabguy so plus there a lot of fake profiles on both

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By *issSexyBootsTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Cardiff

I prefer Fabswingers as I get increasingly fed up with the time wasting men on fabguys hence why I don’t use it. Also I prefer to meet with genuine Bi couples and hot T-Girls which frequent this site. I guess it’s the variety I prefer

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By *oufou OP   Couple
31 weeks ago

Somerset


"I prefer Fabswingers as I get increasingly fed up with the time wasting men on fabguys hence why I don’t use it. Also I prefer to meet with genuine Bi couples and hot T-Girls which frequent this site. I guess it’s the variety I prefer "

Interesting… when did you move over to Fabswingers? Within the last few years?

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By *orthampton jamesMan
31 weeks ago

Northampton

Been here on fab for at least 8 years I think, my messages from women and couple's have dropped by 60% I reckon, get loads of messages now from men which I didn't used to receive

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

We have a gay guy near us and every single day, rain, sun or hurricane he is after cock and PP, must of posted for it everyday for better part of a couple of years

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Sounds greedy to me

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

They are trying to chat with straight guys in the hope of offering oral and to see if they could get more

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By *hiskey_BootsCouple
31 weeks ago

Richmond

Fabstraight is a thing.

Had many guys offering bi but profile says straight

Apparently you get more hits/likes/attention being Fab straight.

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By *oufou OP   Couple
31 weeks ago

Somerset


"Fabstraight is a thing.

Had many guys offering bi but profile says straight

Apparently you get more hits/likes/attention being Fab straight. "

Maybe couples should sign up for Fabguys to see if they can find a closet straight guy? 😂

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By *abba44Man
31 weeks ago

Broadstairs

I`m on both sites and there are a lot of photo hunters on fabguys want to friend but won`t post any photos themselves,l just ignore them.

I also find if the chat is ongoing for a few days then a meet will not happen,if they don`t agree to meet after a coule of messages l bin them.

On this site l have had more luck lately with men,chatted to a couple of ladies but my age is a hindrance with all the under 40s offering more stamina.

So fabguys is my fall back site.

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