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By (user no longer on site) OP   
41 weeks ago

Hi everyone.

I just wanted to reach out and find people's opinions.

I understand women get many many mails sent to then and sometimes this is unmanageable.

However, I would ask (or put forward suggestion) that if you do read a mail and are not interested that possibly you press the delete button rather that leaving an ambiguity as to how you felt about message.

I know if my messages get deleted then I need to block and remove messages so that I don't accidentally message.again. at moment its a guessing game, some people don't instantly reply anyway so you don't want to delete

What do people think. I'm interested in perspectives even if its completely different to mine. Then at least I can adjust how I treat it.

Thank you for taking time to read this.

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By *ear_TinkerbellCouple
41 weeks ago

The lost village

Or you could just leave a private note on the profile reminding yourself you messaged them and didn't get a reply? It also shows the recent message history at the top of the profile to site supporters.

Tink

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By *ucka39Man
41 weeks ago

Newcastle

You could leave the message for a week and if no reply then do what you think would be right like delete and block and continue your search

And is also the cam chat rooms whereas you'll be engaging in conversation which paints a different picture can lead anywhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
41 weeks ago

I normally give it a day or two or after seeing their last log on . But i like to keep my message and members who I could chat to relevant. Its a personal thing I appreciate. But it would be stocking up their inbox too.if u open and then hit delete then it feels like a win win . Despite fact that you haven't actually been able to connect with that person of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Fab tells you if you go to message someone you've messaged already and and not had a reply. Move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"Hi everyone.

I just wanted to reach out and find people's opinions.

I understand women get many many mails sent to then and sometimes this is unmanageable.

However, I would ask (or put forward suggestion) that if you do read a mail and are not interested that possibly you press the delete button rather that leaving an ambiguity as to how you felt about message.

I know if my messages get deleted then I need to block and remove messages so that I don't accidentally message.again. at moment its a guessing game, some people don't instantly reply anyway so you don't want to delete

What do people think. I'm interested in perspectives even if its completely different to mine. Then at least I can adjust how I treat it.

Thank you for taking time to read this.

"

Perhaps let people run their accounts the way they want to?

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