FabSwingers.com forum: Who’s online

By *BWseeker69 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Comber

Fabswingers really needs to sort out their who’s online.

You see someone online and send them a message. When you go into sent messages you see they haven’t been online for 5 minutes.

Sort it out guys. This shouldn’t be happening.

By *bi HaiveMan
2 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Fabswingers really needs to sort out their who’s online.

You see someone online and send them a message. When you go into sent messages you see they haven’t been online for 5 minutes.

Sort it out guys. This shouldn’t be happening. "

There's a slight lag. Always has been. Some people just minimise a tab/screen and leave it there. The site doesn't know if thats essentially them logging off, or just taking a break, so it won't assume either instantly.

They may have been online when you started writing the message and then logged off whilst you were typing. Whether they're online or not there's no guarantee they will look at messages anyway. Some log on to browse, use the forums/chat rooms, edit their profiles, upload photos/videos or post a status update.

Being online has no bearing to the speed someone reads a message, and expecting to have one read and potentially even get a reply is likely to lead to disappointment and frustration.

Patience is key. If someone is going to reply, they will.

At their own pace.