FabSwingers.com forum: Using filters

By *ame-room-no-swap OP Couple
6 weeks ago

Taunton

I've lost count of the couples profiles which say "Single men - if you contact us you will be blocked"

I'm just wondering if there's any reason you wouldn't just put the filter on, apart from not being aware you can do that. Maybe some kind user can enlighten me

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Stupidity ?

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

It’s amazing how many can’t read which is one reason and the second reason is they are so special that you shouldn’t say no to them as that will affect their ego

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By *bi HaiveMan
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6 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I guess they may just live in hope that people will read their profile? 🤔🤷‍♂️

My filters are all off, but I do reference the fact I won't reply to those outside my preferences.

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By *aomilatteCouple
6 weeks ago

Midlands

They'll give a different reason, but it's likely the Man likes receiving messages especially to compliment his partner.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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6 weeks ago

East Sussex

Some people aren't aware that you can set mail filters.

I do think there might be one or two couples who enjoy complaining because when I've suggested they filter single men out their reply has been 'we shouldn't have to'.

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By *ealitybitesMan
6 weeks ago

Belfast

I had a message once from a couple who were staying in the same hotel and they wanted me to go to their room.

They were well verified but I'd never heard of them or spoken to them.

They had that exact line on their profile but also had another in capital letters stating that idiots should read their profile and they weren't interested in men at all full stop. They were only interested in talking to and meeting single women.

I was called a time waster and a loser when I pointed this out to them and when I asked why they didn't filter out single men I was told they shouldn't have to.

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By *ixiekissesWoman
6 weeks ago

Happy place

"I've lost count of the couples profiles which say "Single men - if you contact us you will be blocked"

I'm just wondering if there's any reason you wouldn't just put the filter on, apart from not being aware you can do that. Maybe some kind user can enlighten me"

Because a filter would exclude men from contacting them and a lot are actually well verified from meeting men!

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By *immers123Woman
5 weeks ago

South Molton

Because some people feel self important. One woman was moaning because men of a certain age messaged her so I said u can change the filter to a different age... then she went off on one saying I shouldn't have to ! They should read my profile! Then blocked me. Same as men complaining about men messaging them. When you say well filter them out then they wont

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By *uckurcumMan
5 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

The amount of messages - winks I get from single guys who have 'not interested in single guys' in their profile is amusing ...

Plus the ones that have messaged before numerous times with the same old crap!

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By *ame-room-no-swap OP Couple
4 weeks ago

Taunton

"Some people aren't aware that you can set mail filters.

I do think there might be one or two couples who enjoy complaining because when I've suggested they filter single men out their reply has been 'we shouldn't have to'. "

Sadly , part of modern life seems to be enjoying complaining about a problem much more than solving it with the simple solution provided

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By *enelope2UWoman
4 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

For starters it was admin themselves which stated that there's no rule on couples or single partners using individual profiles and labelling themselves as single. Plus some couples want other cheating "singles" so the term "single" is irrelevant on fab. It means zero.

So again if people read and only messaged the profiles relevant to their mutual interests it would work.

But nothing on here works as it should because people lie..are lazy..or just don't care.

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