FabSwingers.com forum: Site scammers?

By *anderlustDesire OP Couple
6 weeks ago

TWICKENHAM

Anyone know of scams run on the site? For the 3rd time in about a month we have had young attractive girls hit us up saying all the usual "u guys are so hot" etc profiles are usally no more than a week old. Then it eventually moves to telegram then after little to no convo on there,poof their gone, profile on here either goes or we are

Thought it was jus bad luck but it's the 3rd time it's happened now

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Report to Admin and block

Trixie

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By *anderlustDesire OP Couple
6 weeks ago

TWICKENHAM

"Report to Admin and block

Trixie

What am I reporting? Suspicious behaviour? It's not like they asked for my bank account details lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Report to Admin and block

Trixie

As above let admin deal with it.

As a general rule if it looks too good to be true it generally is and if they want to move you off site immediately they're looking to say something that they can't be reported for

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By *esparate danMan
6 weeks ago

glasgow

They see you as easy prey

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Report to Admin and block

Trixie

What am I reporting? Suspicious behaviour? It's not like they asked for my bank account details lol "

There are a number of option. If you think they aren't who they say they are you can report them as fake. If you suspect they're scammers you can report for that.

I don't know of any scams.

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By *anderlustDesire OP Couple
6 weeks ago

TWICKENHAM

No doubt, none of them have tried anything thou haha unless there jus collecting telegram accounts, we have hidden our number on tele so maybe that's it, can't see our number to sell so they jus block us and fuck off

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By *anderlustDesire OP Couple
6 weeks ago

TWICKENHAM

"Report to Admin and block

Trixie

What am I reporting? Suspicious behaviour? It's not like they asked for my bank account details lol

There are a number of option. If you think they aren't who they say they are you can report them as fake. If you suspect they're scammers you can report for that.

I don't know of any scams."

OK thanks

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Central

I don't get any scams but if you get multiple issues, it may be that your area is more full of people trying it on.

Changing your filtering and tactics could potentially improve things. Sticking with longer established users and meet verified could get rid of the duff.

Reporting to Admin helps them to see what's going on and to improve Fab for us all

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By *herrybakewellCouple
6 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Also realise that sometimes on an initial conversation people seem perfect. But once conversation develops and you get to know each other more, it can become obvious you aren't a good match.

Finding the right people is very difficult.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
6 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Change message filters.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'd suggest blocking new and unverified profiles feom messaging you.

Problem instantly solved. 🤷‍♂️

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By *anderlustDesire OP Couple
6 weeks ago

TWICKENHAM

"I'd suggest blocking new and unverified profiles feom messaging you.

Problem instantly solved. 🤷‍♂️"

Yea not a bad idea, better than filtering single ladies, might be excluding genuine messages doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"Anyone know of scams run on the site? For the 3rd time in about a month we have had young attractive girls hit us up saying all the usual "u guys are so hot" etc profiles are usally no more than a week old. Then it eventually moves to telegram then after little to no convo on there,poof their gone, profile on here either goes or we are

Thought it was jus bad luck but it's the 3rd time it's happened now "

Yeah, you get used to that kind of behaviour having a single male profile...🕺😎

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By *uckurcumMan
5 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

Only thing I've had this year apart from the normal profile that suddenly goes,are younger guys from Eastern European areas,you can spot them so easily,usually early 20's,generally Greater London area,although some are now using Greater Manchester too...usually wink,profile pics random generic Eastern European lads.

Ask for friendship etc...go onto private e mail,then eventually ask for money ... I'm sure they must find the odd victim who actually sends them money, sadly......I've noticed the format always stays the same ...

Have reported a few but generally they go after a short while but some return ...

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By *CLovebirdsCouple
5 weeks ago

Birmingham

I recently turned down the opportunity to chat on WhatsApp and was immediately blocked

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By *iura1234Man
5 weeks ago

aberdeen

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By *iura1234Man
5 weeks ago

aberdeen

"[Removed by poster at 07/06/25 20:32:45]"

I’ve had it before they move it telegram or snap then try and say they want too meet. I play along with it sometimes eventually they ask for ££££

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"I recently turned down the opportunity to chat on WhatsApp and was immediately blocked "

I don't chat on WhatsApp either, if people don't like it that's their problem.

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