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"Why are you so concerned about profiles you aren't compatible with? There are lots of reasons including the one mentioned above and not everyone is in a position to or wants to meet so quickly. That doesn't make them any less genuine. They are many people on fab who don't use the site to meet others and therefore don't use the verification system. I've been here for years but my last verification was 3 years ago. Does that make me less genuine than those who are meeting regularly? That was from a group social and I haven't spoken to any of those people before or since and it was nothing more than a 5 minute conversation on the night so their verifications say very little about me as a person. All the tools already exist to avoid people who don't fit what you want from the site. " This 100% | |||
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"Why are there profiles over 3 months old with no photo or meet verifications? I mean it’s supposed to be a site for genuine. A small thing like closing those down would take off around 10-15% of all profiles " Those profiles are just as entitled to be on Fab as you are. How do you know they haven't met others? There's often a thread from an unverified profile saying they have met another unverified person and neither can verify each other.Just set your filters to block non verified profiles. And what do you class as genuine anyway? What were you expecting on joining Fab?? Also some people like to just chat or use the forum and there nothing wrong with that. It's not compulsory to photo verify either... | |||
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"Why are there profiles over 3 months old with no photo or meet verifications? I mean it’s supposed to be a site for genuine. A small thing like closing those down would take off around 10-15% of all profiles " How does it effect you? People are entitled to run their profiles as they see fit. | |||
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" Love hearing differing opinions too, some points we agree with, but no one will convince us that 95% of all non verified profiles are not serious swingers, unfortunately taints the rest. Have a lovely weekend all, try not to get too upset by other people’s opinions if you want your own! " It takes time for many, especially single men. I'm sure most women could arrange a meet instantly, but would it be with someone they really wanted? As for couples? Finding four way attraction is waaaaay harder than it is for two singles to find. Hence plenty wouldn't hit your three month timescale. Filters are useful. They'll stop any unwanted attention from unverified people, but don't forget, everyone was unverified once. I'm sure you're correct that some profiles aren't looking to meet. But I doubt it's 95%. 🤷♂️ | |||
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"I have had 2 meets with the same people but unfortunately we have not verified each other, so how am I able to get verified, as I'm a Single guy, and most couples dont want to meet single guys? Am I wasting my time on here ,? " You could nip in to a cam room and ask someone to verify you | |||
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"Why are there profiles over 3 months old with no photo or meet verifications? I mean it’s supposed to be a site for genuine. A small thing like closing those down would take off around 10-15% of all profiles " Why are there profiles over 3 months old with no meet verifications? It's a long shot, hear me out, perhaps they haven't yet found anyone who wants to meet them. | |||
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Use it as you see fit. Let others do the same, who may all be here for very different reasons to you, including not meeting or wanting new contacts and friends | |||
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"I saw a profile on here the other day saying “ if the guys haven’t had any meets for over a year you cant be genuine “ but hang on if people wont meet us guys to begin with how do they expect us to get meet verifications ? " Just pass by those profiles and take no notice.. everyone runs their profile different | |||
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"I saw a profile on here the other day saying “ if the guys haven’t had any meets for over a year you cant be genuine “ but hang on if people wont meet us guys to begin with how do they expect us to get meet verifications ? Just pass by those profiles and take no notice.. everyone runs their profile different" Thankyou . | |||
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"I saw a profile on here the other day saying “ if the guys haven’t had any meets for over a year you cant be genuine “ but hang on if people wont meet us guys to begin with how do they expect us to get meet verifications ? Just pass by those profiles and take no notice.. everyone runs their profile different" Please can I ask for your advice if possible ? | |||
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"Why are you so concerned about profiles you aren't compatible with? There are lots of reasons including the one mentioned above and not everyone is in a position to or wants to meet so quickly. That doesn't make them any less genuine. They are many people on fab who don't use the site to meet others and therefore don't use the verification system. I've been here for years but my last verification was 3 years ago. Does that make me less genuine than those who are meeting regularly? That was from a group social and I haven't spoken to any of those people before or since and it was nothing more than a 5 minute conversation on the night so their verifications say very little about me as a person. All the tools already exist to avoid people who don't fit what you want from the site. " PERFECTLY stated!!! | |||
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"I have had 2 meets with the same people but unfortunately we have not verified each other, so how am I able to get verified, as I'm a Single guy, and most couples dont want to meet single guys? Am I wasting my time on here ,? You could nip in to a cam room and ask someone to verify you" Many thanks for your reply, I think I may give it a go, as I've not been in any of the cam rooms as yet, but people can still verify you just by looking at you on cam ? Never heard of that, something I've learnt thanks again 
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"Why are there profiles over 3 months old with no photo or meet verifications? I mean it’s supposed to be a site for genuine. A small thing like closing those down would take off around 10-15% of all profiles " Because it’s near impossible to get verified if you have a profile as a single male. Irrespective of photos | |||
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"Why are there profiles over 3 months old with no photo or meet verifications? I mean it’s supposed to be a site for genuine. A small thing like closing those down would take off around 10-15% of all profiles Because it’s near impossible to get verified if you have a profile as a single male. Irrespective of photos" It not near impossible ,it's an absolute certainty if you go along to the one many socials and speak to the hosts so that they can verify you. | |||
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"Why are there profiles over 3 months old with no photo or meet verifications? I mean it’s supposed to be a site for genuine. A small thing like closing those down would take off around 10-15% of all profiles Because it’s near impossible to get verified if you have a profile as a single male. Irrespective of photos" I was verified by meet the day after I joined, with pretty much the same biog and photos that are on my profile right now. | |||
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"Why are there profiles over 3 months old with no photo or meet verifications? I mean it’s supposed to be a site for genuine. A small thing like closing those down would take off around 10-15% of all profiles Because it’s near impossible to get verified if you have a profile as a single male. Irrespective of photos" It's not. I've had four meets and three verifications and I hardly live in a area drowing in swingers or profiles that will/want to physically meet men. Maybe I've been lucky but it's also about putting in the time and effort. Physically go to a social, make the time to attend/bear the cost of it if needed if you aren't getting anywhere just by messaging behind your phone screen. You'll meet plenty of people there and someone will verify you. I'm not a huge fan of socials but in cases like yours they can be invaluable. | |||
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"I'd suggest that for the site owners, a subscription from a fake account is just as good as one from a real account. It's telling how quickly the Mods jump in to defend their policies when this topic comes up." Oh come on! You can't just jump on a thread and be all commonsensical* *and if that's not a word it should be.  | |||
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"I'd suggest that for the site owners, a subscription from a fake account is just as good as one from a real account. It's telling how quickly the Mods jump in to defend their policies when this topic comes up." The mods don't make the policies, the are unpaid volunteers... | |||
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"I'd suggest that for the site owners, a subscription from a fake account is just as good as one from a real account. It's telling how quickly the Mods jump in to defend their policies when this topic comes up. The mods don't make the policies, the are unpaid volunteers..." I wasn't suggesting they made the policy. Just pointing out how quick they are to defend it. | |||
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"I'd suggest that for the site owners, a subscription from a fake account is just as good as one from a real account. It's telling how quickly the Mods jump in to defend their policies when this topic comes up. The mods don't make the policies, the are unpaid volunteers... I wasn't suggesting they made the policy. Just pointing out how quick they are to defend it." I defend it because the policies work. Nobody has to photo verify. It's a choice. Equally nobody has to engage with unverified profiles. It's ridiculously easy to just put a tick in a box to stop them messaging you. You can choose who to message yourself. You can block whoever you wish. Everyone starts out unverified. Some get that green tick quicker than others and for some it definitely takes more than three months. Nobody has to meet either. There's nothing wrong with those that choose to wait until they've found the right companions rather than just settle for someone who offers, just to get verified. Best policy is to let people run their accounts how they choose and do likewise yourselves. 🤷♂️ | |||
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