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"Sadly full of people with no intention of meeting. Maybe if you don’t use the site for which it’s intended you should be kicked out!" What's the site intended for? Some people think singles aren't swingers. It's free to join fab. You can filter out people who haven't paid to join and you can see who paid silver or gold membership. | |||
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"Sadly full of people with no intention of meeting. Maybe if you don’t use the site for which it’s intended you should be kicked out!" But they are meeting might not be everyone but by there own choices The variety of reasons people use the site, some like to just engage with the forums Some looking more than just swinging etc | |||
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"Have you considered charging more for access to FAB to out the time wasters and degenerates? Just an idea. " There are other sites that charge more but still have plenty of time wasters. Personally we think that there should be a time limit, as in if you are not verified by another person within 6 months they should be removed. But that is just an opinion | |||
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"Have you considered charging more for access to FAB to out the time wasters and degenerates? Just an idea. There are other sites that charge more but still have plenty of time wasters. Personally we think that there should be a time limit, as in if you are not verified by another person within 6 months they should be removed. But that is just an opinion" What if they only meet non verified people? They wont be able to verify each other. | |||
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"I find the term time waster gets thrown about a lot! I get called it a lot when I don't reply to messages or drop everything to meet a man or couple when they have asked (despite my profile saying my time is limited) Charging more won't change this (I also wouldn't pay any more than I do). Use your filters (although the profile pic one needs some serious work), trust your gut not your cock when deciding who to message, socialise on and off fab and have a decent profile. I meet single men and know a couple of women who do too- I wouldn't say I have ever experienced a time waster. ![]() You are exactly right. Everyone's definition of a time waster is different. I have been called one for chatting to a guy for a few days then he waved some massive red flags in his messages so I told him not for me. Also for not replying to messages when they were from people 200 miles away. The best one though was for being online and not being ready to meet straight away. Apparently I should only be online if I am ready to meet now. If I'm not willing or ready to go straight out and meet him when he wanted me I shouldn't even log on ![]() | |||
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"It might raise the calibre of members though? That can’t hurt? Weed out some of the absolute scum bags. " Are you suggesting that only people with money are of a high calibre? There's plenty of wealthy people on the planet who are total fucktards. | |||
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"It might raise the calibre of members though? That can’t hurt? Weed out some of the absolute scum bags. " We're skint. I work just over minimum wage, Char is getting by on an ill health pension. Pretty sure we're not scum bags, though. | |||
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"It might raise the calibre of members though? That can’t hurt? Weed out some of the absolute scum bags. " Scum bags still have money. Read the response you got from your first post. | |||
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"Paying money doesn't guarantee different results. If people want to meet you they will, if they don't, they won't. The myth that only 'genuine' swingers will pay to use a site is just that. Fab has always been free to use, with an option of supporting the site with a fair and nominal subscription. But that little silver or gold medal you see doesn't suddenly transform someone's behaviour, personality or what they're looking for from the site. It's generally those that aren't getting what they want from the site that think paying more will be some kind of solution, as if that will change their luck and open the floodgates to more meets. It wouldn't. It's usually easy to spot the profiles that are active, looking to meet and who are in this for the long haul, rather than just using the site as a temporary means of finding sex. Filters and the block button are far more effective tools than any fee, as are a well written profile and good visuals. Not putting all your eggs in one basket and relying on online contact is also advisable. One of the best things about Fab is the ability to see what's going on in the wider swinging world through events, clubs and organised socials. Networking and building up a reputation is how most find success and company. And all of that can either be done for free, or by paying the current exceptionally good value supporter fees. " This should be pinned somewhere. It is so well written and in my opinion extremely accurate | |||
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"Have you considered charging more for access to FAB to out the time wasters and degenerates? Just an idea. There are other sites that charge more but still have plenty of time wasters. Personally we think that there should be a time limit, as in if you are not verified by another person within 6 months they should be removed. But that is just an opinion What if they only meet non verified people? They wont be able to verify each other. " That is easy go to a social event,there are loads of no pressure events all the time | |||
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"It might raise the calibre of members though? That can’t hurt? Weed out some of the absolute scum bags. " What calibre do you place yourself in OP. Would you meet you🤷♀️ | |||
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"Have you considered charging more for access to FAB to out the time wasters and degenerates? Just an idea. There are other sites that charge more but still have plenty of time wasters. Personally we think that there should be a time limit, as in if you are not verified by another person within 6 months they should be removed. But that is just an opinion What if they only meet non verified people? They wont be able to verify each other. That is easy go to a social event,there are loads of no pressure events all the time " Still doesn't guarantee someone will verify you, and not everyone wants to go to an organised event. | |||
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"Sadly full of people with no intention of meeting. Maybe if you don’t use the site for which it’s intended you should be kicked out!" How do you know they've no intention of meeting? There are many many of the loveliest people who aren't site supporters at all, and I find the inference that those who can't or won't pay more are somehow inferior really distasteful | |||
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"Have you considered charging more for access to FAB to out the time wasters and degenerates? Just an idea. " I'm not likely to pay more myself, girl on a budget y'know? Don't think I'm a timewaster... degenerate could be subjective I suppose 🤔 | |||
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" I find the inference that those who can't or won't pay more are somehow inferior really distasteful " THIS | |||
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