FabSwingers.com forum: Would you agree .

By (user no longer on site) OP
15 weeks ago

That sending unsolicited pictures of a sexual nature to anyone else on this site and it is upsetting then this not only breaks many of the terms of use ..

Para Para 9.b and j - do anything which may negatively affect other Users’ enjoyment of the Service.

10.5, 10.12

But also could be classed as a crime?

Just curious x

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By *mmaleiaWoman
15 weeks ago

Trowbridge

It’s bad enough having to see them in avatars, but in my inbox is grim

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By *oeBeansMan
15 weeks ago

Derby

That feels like a very subjective rule though and there isn't a measurement of what will make someone upset and that line will be different for everyone. I don't agree with sending those unsolicited photos in a message but it's definitely a tough rule to enforce.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Central

It would be good if Fab gave the tools for users to control the type content that they receive

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By *tr8MrEMan
15 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

I've never ever ever sent a photo of anything to anyone I requested...it's totally wrong to even assume you'd get a positive reaction, let alone attract attention with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
15 weeks ago

"That feels like a very subjective rule though and there isn't a measurement of what will make someone upset and that line will be different for everyone. I don't agree with sending those unsolicited photos in a message but it's definitely a tough rule to enforce."

Completely agree it's subjective to what will upset someone.

I think the problem is we've come to accept it as a thing. When we shouldn't have too.

Think we'd open up a lot more conversations if we knew a message might have substance rather than just a pic of a di....

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By *ansoffateMan
15 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I think pretty much anything anyone does could negatively influence a user's enjoyment.

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By *oeBeansMan
15 weeks ago

Derby

Completely agree it's subjective to what will upset someone.

I think the problem is we've come to accept it as a thing. When we shouldn't have too.

Think we'd open up a lot more conversations if we knew a message might have substance rather than just a pic of a di...."

I get that. So what would you do to ensure that?

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By *enaiWoman
15 weeks ago

worcester

When a man sends a first message and includes his dick pix, I delete.

We all know what a dick is, but if that's what he chose to represent him to me, I don't want to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"That sending unsolicited pictures of a sexual nature to anyone else on this site and it is upsetting then this not only breaks many of the terms of use ..

Para Para 9.b and j - do anything which may negatively affect other Users’ enjoyment of the Service.

10.5, 10.12

But also could be classed as a crime?

Just curious x"

It could be classed as Malicious communications, but considering the site we're all on, I would expect that it would only breach this if someone kept sending them after being asked not to. If unwaranted contact is made on more than 2 occasions it could be classed as Harassment, but most people will just use the block button.

Unfortunately it is the nature of sites like this. Not everyone behaves as you would in your normal day to day life.

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