FabSwingers.com forum: Suggestions

By *itch6 OP Man
over a year ago

Littleborough

Hey up peeps

How do you make suggestions to them that run this site?

My suggestion is to remove the delete from messages as don't makes the slightest bit of difference deleting them or not, just have buttons for mark as unread and block,

People tend to delete or ignore if not intrest in the person, yet if people had the slightest thinking capability that unfortunately most lack nowadays.

Having only block instead of delete they would vastly improved and streamline the workings of the site and save not only thire time but everyone's else's by blocking them they have no intrest in.

People would end up with a more streamlined search list of them thats more potentially the types each are looking for and not see the ones with no intrest like we do repeatable currently because they conveniently have a habit off deleting because it's there.

What's your thoughts on it, would removing delete encourage the uninterested to block and reduce both our lists of unnecessary people on our searches?

Give me your thoughts please, cheers

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

No thanks.

I delete messages for several reasons not only if they don't match what I'm looking for.

I might delete because their initial message was boring but by deleting and not blocking it gives them a chance to try again.

I might not find them attractive but then later on they discover the joys of the forums and we become friendly so begin chatting by private message.

At that moment in time they're not what I'm looking for but maybe tomorrow they'll be exactly what I'm looking for.

Who knows, but I like to keep my options open.

I only use block for abusive or overly persistent people

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oveToPlay1Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"No thanks.

I delete messages for several reasons not only if they don't match what I'm looking for.

I might delete because their initial message was boring but by deleting and not blocking it gives them a chance to try again.

I might not find them attractive but then later on they discover the joys of the forums and we become friendly so begin chatting by private message.

At that moment in time they're not what I'm looking for but maybe tomorrow they'll be exactly what I'm looking for.

Who knows, but I like to keep my options open.

I only use block for abusive or overly persistent people "

This 100%

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't wish to block everyone who messages me and I'm not compatible with so the delete button is a much simpler solution.

It's also handy when sending messages because some people obsess over whether their messages are being read or not. It is always advisable to delete any messages as soon as you send them so you don't have to fret over them being opened or not.

Therefore I don't believe removing that option would streamline anything at all.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Gatwick

Delete option is perfectly fine where it is, thanks.

I use it quite often.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

My life wouldn't be complete without the Delete. 🚫

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

OP, you may be able to make suggestions to improve the site via the fabswingers.com site feedback thread.

As far as your proposed improvement goes, I wouldn't be in support of it as others have mentioned above.

Mrs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback

As has been said this is the section of the forum you need to make suggestions.

I'll move this there now

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ipstick KissesWoman
over a year ago

Newry

No thank you. I prefer to keep my inbox tidy.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Per user if you've sent a message and it doesn't lead anywhere it's entirely up to them to decide whether to delete or go further and blocking so they can create there own platform of possibilities..... It works

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I prefer to have the option of block or delete. I don't want to block everyone who sends me a hi or a how are you message (which I state in my profile I won't reply to) they might do better next time.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread