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By *enelope2U OP   Woman
12 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

There needs to be another category outside of single or couples. Maybe attached option or complicated. Because the MAJORITY of people are NOT single.

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By *ogandher1962Couple
12 weeks ago

Reading

How do you know the MAJORITY aren’t single? Are you?

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By *ympho6969Woman
12 weeks ago

glasgow


"There needs to be another category outside of single or couples. Maybe attached option or complicated. Because the MAJORITY of people are NOT single."

Most attached people don't disclose it at all, or do once you've got deep in a convo.

I'd personally glance past something like this cos I wouldn't trust it. Same as I do with the safe sex button. Many say they do, but I prefer to find out myself in convo

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Central

If it was a searchable option, allowing you to filter out those who are potentially more or less suitable, it could be valuable.

When searching through the many thousands of men here, the site needs to support you with your filtering. We do need to get the right information/data and then be able to use it to help us.

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By *rLicksMan
12 weeks ago

Worcester

In principal yes great idea….

In practice not so much because it is relying on people to honestly list their status.

A lot will be open and honest - a lot more won’t sadly

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
12 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"There needs to be another category outside of single or couples. Maybe attached option or complicated. Because the MAJORITY of people are NOT single."

Why "complicated"? I have a partner and this is my solo account, the situation isn't complicated though. Neither of us thinks anything negative about the other shagging other people, it's quite simple really 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
12 weeks ago

Honeysuckle lane


"There needs to be another category outside of single or couples. Maybe attached option or complicated. Because the MAJORITY of people are NOT single."
and by adding that feature you think people on here are going to be honest please 🙄

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By *ympho6969Woman
12 weeks ago

glasgow


"There needs to be another category outside of single or couples. Maybe attached option or complicated. Because the MAJORITY of people are NOT single. and by adding that feature you think people on here are going to be honest please 🙄"

That's my thinking.

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By *enelope2U OP   Woman
12 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Probably will always be liars I agree

but there's tons of things people lie about and it's an option to filter for or against.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
12 weeks ago

Leeds


"How do you know the MAJORITY aren’t single? Are you? "

I'm single

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By *alandNitaCouple
12 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"There needs to be another category outside of single or couples. Maybe attached option or complicated. Because the MAJORITY of people are NOT single."

It's not about your marital status, it's about the quantity of people... there are loads of couples also have individual "singles" profiles too.

I assume your issue is actually people cheating? Unfortunately when it comes to being dishonest, many are not honest about it.

Cal

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By *ucka39Man
12 weeks ago

Newcastle

Does discrete go out of the window then 😂🤣

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
12 weeks ago

East Sussex

The people who would be open about it already are.

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By *avy1983Man
12 weeks ago

BIRMINGHAM

I'd prefer it if it just said cheaters / liars than discreet - least everyone knows what they're getting into...literally too!

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By *igad999Man
12 weeks ago

wolverhampton

Tbf if everyone was just up front from the start be fine

Then it’s up to both if they want to go ahead or not

Saves lot of hassle as there is plenty of men and women on here that want married people to play with

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
12 weeks ago

Middle England


"The people who would be open about it already are. "

Yes some put it on their profiles. Some attached write in the forum 'my wife this that other...' then you realise they are attached.

But you can't search or filter on the above.

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By *enelope2U OP   Woman
12 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances


"There needs to be another category outside of single or couples. Maybe attached option or complicated. Because the MAJORITY of people are NOT single.

It's not about your marital status, it's about the quantity of people... there are loads of couples also have individual "singles" profiles too.

I assume your issue is actually people cheating? Unfortunately when it comes to being dishonest, many are not honest about it.

Cal"

No my issue is I want to search for single... And have that option just as I have the option to choose 35-45 to message me or only males to message.

Like I've said YES PEOPLE do lie and will lie. But the whole point of an option is to filter accordingly to what you are interested in.

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By *enelope2U OP   Woman
12 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances


"Does discrete go out of the window then 😂🤣"

I already block discreet messages..I'm single I have zero reason to be hiding or be someone's secret fuck. I'm not posting a billboard with our pictures etc together. But I'm not putting on a burka to be out in public with someone or need to dodge their wives or GFs

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By *alandNitaCouple
12 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"There needs to be another category outside of single or couples. Maybe attached option or complicated. Because the MAJORITY of people are NOT single.

It's not about your marital status, it's about the quantity of people... there are loads of couples also have individual "singles" profiles too.

I assume your issue is actually people cheating? Unfortunately when it comes to being dishonest, many are not honest about it.

Cal

No my issue is I want to search for single... And have that option just as I have the option to choose 35-45 to message me or only males to message.

Like I've said YES PEOPLE do lie and will lie. But the whole point of an option is to filter accordingly to what you are interested in."

But as I said, the "single" on here means that there is just the one of them, just like a couple means that there a two... not that they are in a relationship.

Cal

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By *ature housewifeWoman
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

I do not disagree that "married but looking" would be a good option (certainly for myself)...but I dont think it is really going to make much difference. Some men on a single profile go to great lengths to give a great description of themselves...yet still manage to miss out "attached". Most men prefer to disclose their attached status to those they think will be a sympathetic ear. The only people on here actively seeking straight married men are the guy/bi guys.

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By *ympho6969Woman
7 weeks ago

glasgow


"Does discrete go out of the window then 😂🤣"

I always assumed discreet referred to keeping private things private. Not being crass or crude in public. That sort of thing.

Have I been using that term wrong all these years?

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By *ornyone30Man
7 weeks ago

ABERDEEN

I think it would be really helpful if there was a "yes/no people without consent from partners" option for folk kinda like the smoking thing. Some people say in their bio they won't meet such folk but it's the first question I ask, every time I message someone. Would save them and myself the bother.

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By *loydyMan
7 weeks ago

British


"There needs to be another category outside of single or couples. Maybe attached option or complicated. Because the MAJORITY of people are NOT single."
loads of liars on here so they will say wat you want to hear

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