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Can only send one message before the person opens it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
20 weeks ago

Do we think this could work? Say if someone sends me a message they can’t send another one until I’ve opened it. Thought it would be a good way to stop the spam ones and give everyone a more fair chance of getting their message seen 🤔

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By *ucka39Man
20 weeks ago

Newcastle

Hiya op

It would be a great idea, since some choose to ignore the warning prior

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
20 weeks ago

Central

Perhaps optional, according to preferences settings.

I sometimes send a message and forget to add a pic, so could resend, with it attached.

It's perhaps most relevant for 1st time contact

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By *andomusernameMan
20 weeks ago

Nottingham

It could work, literally blocking the person from sending another.

This should improve the quality of messages, knowing you basically have one initial chance to make an impression.

What would be the suggestion be should the message be deleted without being read?

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By *ucy loo43Woman
20 weeks ago

kettering

I like this idea, the amount of messages I get is crazy. Especially when my profile states if I don’t respond don’t be offended. I’m not interested 😂

But then I doubt many read the profile.

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By *uliette500Woman
20 weeks ago

Hull

Might be a good idea for non friend profiles but I wouldn't want it to apply to friends. A lot of my friends send me 2 or 3 during the day when I'm working and I pick them up when I can.

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By *andomusernameMan
20 weeks ago

Nottingham

Just out of interest, if you are not interested, do you not block the profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

It could work but don't forget that some women want the repeated messages. Ego inflating or whatever it is. Then they get off on the amount of mail they have.

The easiest way is to set your messages to viewing friends only and then you don't have to worry about the other lots.

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By *andomusernameMan
20 weeks ago

Nottingham


"It could work but don't forget that some women want the repeated messages. Ego inflating or whatever it is. Then they get off on the amount of mail they have.

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I hardly see that as a positive good/thing, and certainly not a good reason for a change.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
20 weeks ago

Central


"Just out of interest, if you are not interested, do you not block the profile?"

They may do and I usually attempt to remember to do it but this scenario is likely to relate to those who haven't got around to seeing the message yet, before the sender sends even more. It's impossible for them to have been even studied as a potential partner and blocked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
20 weeks ago


"Just out of interest, if you are not interested, do you not block the profile?

They may do and I usually attempt to remember to do it but this scenario is likely to relate to those who haven't got around to seeing the message yet, before the sender sends even more. It's impossible for them to have been even studied as a potential partner and blocked. "

Exactly my point yeah it’s not to block people it just makes things a bit fairer for the patient people who send the one message and end up not getting read

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By *enelope2UWoman
20 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances


"Just out of interest, if you are not interested, do you not block the profile?"

Exactly ...too much like common sense, which isn't the standard on here.

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By *WBiOnlyCoupleCouple
20 weeks ago

St Helens

It would be good as an optional setting We don't mind people sending a follow up message if we haven't opened their previous one, we've had good meets with people who's initial message had gotten buried and it can take a ridiculous amount of time to go through them, so a second follow up message from someone who has read our profile, who has similar interests isnt always a bad thing.

We just block people who send message after message. The ones who repeatedly send a whole script detailing what they want to do, like as if it's actually going to happen and we are just going to message straight back delighted that some bloke wants a wank. "I'll let you suck my cock" is a personal favourite, as a first message, then continue with various things as if people on fab are sat around waiting for any man who wants his dick sucking.

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