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By *oolblue12 OP   Man
4 days ago

Tarporley near Chester

Why is there a facility where single males can block messages from single males and vica versa but there is no facility to stop bisexual , transexual , tv and gay males from sending winks or messages, also if someones profile states they are gay why are they not automatically redirected to the sister site fabguys ? , I am not the only person of this opinion , some friends of mine have left the site and they were site supporters , I hasten to add they and myself included are LGBT+ friendly , it is not a predjudicial note . I am just an invidivdual but to my knowledge 30+ members have left the site due to this reason , do the maths £5.00 x12=60 x 30= £1800 pounds in lost revenue .Futhermore any profile which is generated as an individuals profile which clearly advertises a club or a venue should not be allowed ,other sites in competition wththis web site do not allow it so why should this one ? there should be a posting on the clubs section . If changes could be made the website would be a forerunner , word would get around , revenue would increase and further improvements could be made , as they say in the USA "It's a no brainer".

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By *iker JackMan
4 days ago

Wolverhampton

People come and go from here and everywhere. That is a fact. If you have genuine proof it’s down to winks or views then I think there’s probably more to it

As you’ve been swinging for 23 years you will well know that it is on the whole, or meant to be, a non judgmental society.

Sadly for me judgment has come very much in to it in the last few years and most now see it as sex rather than the social side of swinging as well

Each to their own

I find, personally, a view or a wink, or even a message from anyone as being well received. It means that someone either likes the look of me or my profile.

What else do you want added, body shape, height, hair colour, whether they wear whatever, even if they are single or married?

The list would be endless and I would have thought the software changes outweigh the £1800 you quote

Whether I chose to respond is my choice totally

Given the cost for single males to attend clubs, which I do, I will happily stay here

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By *ealitybitesMan
4 days ago

Belfast

I can only speak from experience and I do know people who have left because of the behaviour of others.

However it has always been over actual engagement with those others and nothing to do with winks or fabs and messages.

I'm always curious how some people seem to have repeated experiences such as no shows, catfishing, fake profiles etc etc while so many others have never experienced any of this.

I have blocked men from messaging but that was because I used to get messages offering to be my wing man or inviting me to be theirs and I had no interest in that so I used the block option.

If, as you suggest, this is rife on here, the chances are that at some stage during the 9 years I've been here I would have experienced it but I can honestly say I haven't at all.

80 out of the last 100 people to view my profile are TVs and the last half dozen fabs I've received have been from gay men.

None of that annoys or upsets me at all and I certainly wouldn't be leaving the site based on things like that or the actions of people I've never met or even spoken to.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
4 days ago

cahoots

We are both straight but receive messages from bi and gay folks on here, no idea about winks as we don't look at them, and as the poster above says, swinging isn't just about sex. We will chat with anyone, just as we do in everyday life.

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By *eroLondonMan
4 days ago

Mayfair

There's always an air of bewilderment when I come across these types of threads that opine about how the site could be augmented or refined because of the actions of others.

I've been here four years, more or less, and in that time my journey on Fab and the path that I've carved for myself has been on the back of •my• actions and my endeavours, with little or no impediment from anyone else.

I've never personally come across a fake profile or dealt with time-wasters, nor have I been inundated by messages from people outside of my sexual persuasion or spammed and so forth. Fab serves me well and I do just fine.

No one makes it hard for me on here and whatever transgressions occur by men et al are extraneous to my enjoyment.

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By *tophickcockMan
4 days ago

barnstaple

How many members on here are registered as straight but still connect with other men? Quite a few from my experience, so there's nothing stopping anyone joining under a straight identification.

Perhaps you should feel complimented if any non straight male makes contact with you.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
4 days ago

O o O oo


"Why is there a facility where single males can block messages from single males and vica versa but there is no facility to stop bisexual , transexual , tv and gay males from sending winks or messages, "

https://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
4 days ago

O o O oo


"Futhermore any profile which is generated as an individuals profile which clearly advertises a club or a venue should not be allowed ,other sites in competition wththis web site do not allow it so why should this one ? there should be a posting on the clubs section . "

They are allowed to have a club profile but have to stick to promoter rules and can't use any personal profile to advertise. They also can't spam people in mails for events.

They are easily avoided if it isn't your thing?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
3 days ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

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