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"No there isn't but if they can't be bothered to read your profile I wouldn't reply I'd just block them. Harsh but it does the job. " Not harsh at all.. actions have consequences | |||
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"No there isn't but if they can't be bothered to read your profile I wouldn't reply I'd just block them. Harsh but it does the job. " I ignored a few of them and quite often get like 10 messages over a few days from them. It’s like they are so desperate or something. I’ll just block them | |||
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"I think that even though your profile is good, to the point and very easy to read. You’re still just gonna get the chancing chumps. Really annoying when people don’t take a blind bit of notice." Yup so frustrating. I don’t want to block guys as I also want BBC so it makes things a bit more tricky | |||
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"Is there anyway to block straight guys? I’m clear on my profile that I’m interested in only bi guys / couples yet I’m constantly getting messages from straight guys who get upset when I say no "Honestly, I wish there was one. It drives me insane and they get all macho in my inbox when I delete their message. | |||
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"Is there anyway to block straight guys? I’m clear on my profile that I’m interested in only bi guys / couples yet I’m constantly getting messages from straight guys who get upset when I say no
Honestly, I wish there was one. It drives me insane and they get all macho in my inbox when I delete their message."This 1000% I get the “I don’t want all the bi and gay guys chasing after me and filling my inbox” excuse I can’t help myself responding “yer love sorry but I definitely don’t think that’s going to happen to you babe” | |||
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"Is there anyway to block straight guys? I’m clear on my profile that I’m interested in only bi guys / couples yet I’m constantly getting messages from straight guys who get upset when I say no
Honestly, I wish there was one. It drives me insane and they get all macho in my inbox when I delete their message.
This 1000%
I get the “I don’t want all the bi and gay guys chasing after me and filling my inbox” excuse
I can’t help myself responding “yer love sorry but I definitely don’t think that’s going to happen to you babe”
"😂😂😂 I've had that SO many times. I put a simple "LOL" and delete their message haha. Absolutely zero chance of them getting anywhere with us if they can't even put it on their profile. 😁 | |||
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"Is there anyway to block straight guys? I’m clear on my profile that I’m interested in only bi guys / couples yet I’m constantly getting messages from straight guys who get upset when I say no
Honestly, I wish there was one. It drives me insane and they get all macho in my inbox when I delete their message.
This 1000%
I get the “I don’t want all the bi and gay guys chasing after me and filling my inbox” excuse
I can’t help myself responding “yer love sorry but I definitely don’t think that’s going to happen to you babe”
😂😂😂 I've had that SO many times. I put a simple "LOL" and delete their message haha.
Absolutely zero chance of them getting anywhere with us if they can't even put it on their profile. 😁"Same with me. | |||
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"Went to a ‘Bi’ day at a club the other day While there was guys playing together there was quite a few (clearly straight) guys just wandering from room to room following the few couples that were there just desperately hoping for a chance with the woman " So much this in clubs - but the good outweigh the bad in general | |||
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"Is there anyway to block straight guys? I’m clear on my profile that I’m interested in only bi guys / couples yet I’m constantly getting messages from straight guys who get upset when I say no "We would like this the opposite way. Where people who don’t want to meet bi guys or have no bi guys on their profile could be filtered out . | |||
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"Most single straight guys that have messaged me are bi but just don`t put it on their profile because they think it scares some folk off " To us, that just means you can't trust a word they say. Instant block. | |||
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"Is there anyway to block straight guys? I’m clear on my profile that I’m interested in only bi guys / couples yet I’m constantly getting messages from straight guys who get upset when I say no "This does sound like something site could really do with looking at,perhaps. There was a forum recently by a male that was asking same,but for blocking bi/gay males as OP was looking for males to attend straight get togethers with females,and not to meet the males himslef  | |||
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"Yep. As a bi guy I've had lots of "straight" men shyly message. Zero use for closet cases myself, but amuses me that I'm better placed to avoid closet bi guys than women who say they won't touch bi men..." Works both ways, as a straight guy I get lots of messages from bi and gay guys who I have "zero use for" as you put it. And many of those guys get quite arsey when I point out that I am straight and it says so on my profile. | |||
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And, if implemented, when people see that they are unable to communicate because they haven't told the full truth, it could influence people to start to become more accurate in their profile sexuality description. It could thus help many more people than would use it | |||
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"Is there anyway to block straight guys? I’m clear on my profile that I’m interested in only bi guys / couples yet I’m constantly getting messages from straight guys who get upset when I say no
We would like this the opposite way. Where people who don’t want to meet bi guys or have no bi guys on their profile could be filtered out . "This goes for us too, unfortunately though it wouldn't block out the 'bogus' straight guys. | |||
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We do not wish to meet with straight or 'straight' single guys.
I also know a lot of couples who don't want to meet with Bi guys, which is why there are so many 'straight' ones on here.
It's just a waste of everyone's time trying to decipher which guys are actually Bi/Pan and which ones are just willing to get their dick sucked to fuck a woman. I would rather meet someone who is openly Bi or Curious, because for me there is nothing hotter than watching two guys who are into each other, together, and then being able to join in!
We want genuine interactions with people who are attracted to us *both* when we meet a single person. It's different with a couple as the dynamics are different when there are more people involved.
Nobody should have to "take one for the team" as it were and that includes the single person. We would rather not meet or just have a social, than have an awkward interaction like that in the playroom. This is about fun, enjoyment, pleasure and not numbers for us.
Alternatively if putting the block on is too much of a stretch; I understand it might be awkward to code in.
Could the person's sexuality (or both if couples) be displayed when the email is opened so we don't have to go and search their profile for it? | |||
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"This feature needs to be added asap. It's clear on our profile what we want, yet it doesn't stop straight people contacting us claiming to be bi. This feature would help block 90%+ of our messages." Yes yes though we hardly get any messages lol | |||
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"No here girls I havnt got mine to bi only cos it doesn’t let me talk to certain people but please get in touch …." When you say it doesn't let you talk to certain people? what does that mean? We can't block Bi guys, or straight ones. only single guys. so putting Bi on your profile doesn't stop you messaging anyone currently 
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"No here girls I havnt got mine to bi only cos it doesn’t let me talk to certain people but please get in touch …." So you lie on your profile? This is exactly why we need the filter to block straight people. | |||
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"No here girls I havnt got mine to bi only cos it doesn’t let me talk to certain people but please get in touch …." So you put off the people that want to meet you to please people that wouldn’t meet you if you told the truth . Righto | |||
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"I think that even though your profile is good, to the point and very easy to read. You’re still just gonna get the chancing chumps. Really annoying when people don’t take a blind bit of notice. Yup so frustrating. I don’t want to block guys as I also want BBC so it makes things a bit more tricky " Ball still in your court, block single guys from messaging, and only make first contact with the ones you fancy. Puts all the power dynamics in your hands | |||
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