FabSwingers.com forum: One year and NO meets

By *avidlooks7 OP Man
4 weeks ago

Ollerton

Do the administrators feel that profiles that have been on fabs for over one year and NO meets. Also have no pics on there profile. Or "Will fill in Later" should be removed from Fabs. Its obvious they are time wasters or fake profiles .

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By *ucka39Man
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

Hiya op

I don't believe they should be removed, given this lifestyle, people come with all sorts and being nervous can be one of those. And browsing in there own pace, not causing an issue but others create an issue for themselves. Stick with doing you and let others focus on themselves

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
4 weeks ago

your head

Or they just aren't worried about verifications? Or their lives got busy and they've not had the chance? Why do they need to be removed, how does it benefit anyone?

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By *uliette500Woman
4 weeks ago

Hull

Why are they fakes or timewasters? A lot of people don't get a veri in the first year, maybe they don't feel comfortable showing photos and prefer to send them privately.

What other people are doing with their profile has no bearing on you. If you don't want to engage with these people you don't have to but just because you can't see what is going on with their profile doesn't mean they should be removed.

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By *ealitybitesMan
4 weeks ago

Belfast

I don't agree they should be removed. Not everyone is here for the same reason and I fail to see how they could be wasting anyone's time or be classed as fake?

It's extremely easy to just pass on by.

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By *uzzleMan
4 weeks ago

Hastings

Wow that's a bit brutal. I've been on and off here for about 3 years and have no meets or verifications.

I do have pics and a completed profile though.

I've messaged one female in those 3 years, who unsurprisingly didn't respond.

I wouldn't get bent out of shape if my profile were deleted because of this. However, some people want to put the bare minium on profiles, without a picture etc and then message others and engage in coversation that way.

I have absolutely no intention of getting a meet on Fab as this site to me is game playing with all the hoops you have to jump through i.e. face pic with first message otherwise we will delete the message without reading it, no beards, 6' tall minimum etc etc. When I read these profiles I just think WTF and its almost like I am messaging a supermodel (the opposite is often true).

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By *istletoe KissesWoman
4 weeks ago

There and Here

"Wow that's a bit brutal. I've been on and off here for about 3 years and have no meets or verifications.

I do have pics and a completed profile though.

I've messaged one female in those 3 years, who unsurprisingly didn't respond.

Can ANY person not have preferences, or is it solely the preserve of beautiful people?

Back to the OP...how do you know people aren't having meets? Not everyone wants verifications

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By *ucka39Man
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

What about those who hide the profiles 😂🤣

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

How would you know if someone has or not had meets? Verifications don’t mean much - someone can get verified at a club just for going. Doesn’t mean they met anyone. Someone who is actively meeting might not care about or want verifications of their private business.

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By *illan-KillashMan
4 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"Do the administrators feel that profiles that have been on fabs for over one year and NO meets. Also have no pics on there profile. Or "Will fill in Later" should be removed from Fabs. Its obvious they are time wasters or fake profiles . "

No.

*that concludes my Ted Talk.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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4 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

If it's that obvious, then surely they're easy for you to spot, ignore and avoid. Just block them if they bother you.

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By *ahler9Man
4 weeks ago

Swanmore

I’ve been on the site for a long time. I am photo verified. I met someone here last week, also photo verified.

Neither of us have been verified by another user and therefore under the site rules, we can’t verify each other. I kind of understand this if one of us wasn’t photo verified, but why can’t we verify.

I’ve had three meets in total but appear not to have. I’d be excluded under these rules.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Central

Some people have fewer chances or options than others, including having fewer people who are local. Availability and timing may also not be in abundance, including for finding family care and free accommodation.

It's fine for people to meet those who aren't verified too

. They won't get verifications left, even if meeting every day of the week.

With such a range of types of users here, you can filter and match with the right people for you. The easier it is that others make it for you, to pass them by, if they don't match you, the better

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By *ogandher1962Couple
4 weeks ago

Reading

Let people use their account the way they want to. OP, use filters and you won't be bothered.

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By *lgren1Man
4 weeks ago

Bexleyheath

Haha. No meets in a year?

I've been on here over 7 months and never even received a message, let alone the possibilty of a meet!

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
3 weeks ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

I've been on here for over 5 years and have no meets showing.

Apologies OP for being a time waster and a fake.

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By *xxxMan
3 weeks ago

Bedford & Chester

I have to agree with what's already been out about people should have the freedom to use their profiles however they want, including frequency. I'm one of those that choose to come and go with sometimes long gaps, and just because my profile doesn't show verifications doesn't mean I haven't had some amazing meets over the years.

I'll also add that you can choose who you interact with, so I don't see why it would be a problem for anyone?

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By *anonfire96Man
3 weeks ago

Mansfield

And how would Admin know they haven't had any meetings? Through verifications from others on here? I don't ask for or give veries.

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By *anonfire96Man
3 weeks ago

Mansfield

And I've had some amazing meets, the last one lasted for a year on and off, and I was exclusive to her while we were meeting.

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By *ouple49Couple
3 weeks ago

Cheshire near Whitchurch, Shropshire

Definitely

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By *ouple49Couple
3 weeks ago

Cheshire near Whitchurch, Shropshire

"I've been on here for over 5 years and have no meets showing.

Apologies OP for being a time waster and a fake. "

Yes but you’re verified so you’re not in the category he’s referring too

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By *orks and Scots girlCouple
3 weeks ago

leeds

Surely that’s what the filters and block button is for, don’t get so uptight about something that doesn’t concern you, it’s their choice and profile to use how they want.

Scroll past and move on

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By *urtain TwitcherMan
3 weeks ago

Romsey

Some people (including me) have sensitive careers , we can’t afford to post pictures of our faces & bits for all users to see and then face the repercussions of them being found, or being used against us.

How many times have you walked into a shop and notice their face - then realise where you know them from

Imagine if you are a police officer or CEO….. it is tricky !

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By *ogandher1962Couple
3 weeks ago

Reading

"Some people (including me) have sensitive careers , we can’t afford to post pictures of our faces & bits for all users to see and then face the repercussions of them being found, or being used against us.

How many times have you walked into a shop and notice their face - then realise where you know them from

Imagine if you are a police officer or CEO….. it is tricky !

How would any of your colleagues recognise you from a body shot?

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By *ighlander_24Man
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

Time wasters? What if like me your in no hurry or busy. Punished because you've chosen not to have sex with people in a year lol. Hmmm

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By *adKMan
3 weeks ago

Bradford

Ive been looking for local meets but have no luck tbh even tried making pictures public but still no luck. Its been well over a year.

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By *andK123Couple
3 weeks ago

Devon

🤔 what about the people who are not necessarily looking to meet but what to be in touch with what clubs and what’s going on. We dont have pictures and only play in clubs .,we also pay our sub just like you

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By *akedMMan
2 weeks ago

Witney

Been on here on and off for a while. Never had a meeting yet .

As a older man it is more difficult to even chat with someone let alone meet

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By *ucka39Man
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

"Been on here on and off for a while. Never had a meeting yet .

As a older man it is more difficult to even chat with someone let alone meet "

Hiya

Remember you'll not be the only older person the site is full of people all different ages and all looking for someone. It's finding those whom you are both compatible with

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By *enelope2UWoman
2 weeks ago

Fife

What someone dies or doesn't do gas no bearing on what I do. Are you j

That jealous or that insecure that you're worried about someone, as you put it, not doing anything?

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By *ormsterMan
5 days ago

Newtownabbey

"Been on here on and off for a while. Never had a meeting yet .

As a older man it is more difficult to even chat with someone let alone meet "

Well said sir

If you read my profile

Am with you

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
5 days ago

bedford

No we often go a while without any meets , it all depends on what is happening around us , we feel spending them out can be quite erotic and look forward to them more

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By *ornycougaWoman
5 days ago

Wherever I lay my hat

My view is that it is down to each of us to choose if we engage with a profile. If you suspect it is fake, that the person has put zero effort in or if a red flag for you is the display of verifications then block and move on.

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By *ah wah wizardMan
5 days ago

Kilmarnock

No pics could be people who want 100% discretion such as those who work within the public eye such as teachers, police, shop workers etc.

There is fake profiles and time wasters out there but that's the online community for you.

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By *ogandher1962Couple
5 days ago

Reading

"No pics could be people who want 100% discretion such as those who work within the public eye such as teachers, police, shop workers etc.

There is fake profiles and time wasters out there but that's the online community for you."

How would any one recognise you unless you posted a face pic?

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By *ah wah wizardMan
5 days ago

Kilmarnock

"No pics could be people who want 100% discretion such as those who work within the public eye such as teachers, police, shop workers etc.

There is fake profiles and time wasters out there but that's the online community for you.

How would any one recognise you unless you posted a face pic? "

Tattoos and distinguishing marks, birthmarks, maybe even recognise surroundings such as your house. Lots of things can give you away.

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By *ogandher1962Couple
5 days ago

Reading

"No pics could be people who want 100% discretion such as those who work within the public eye such as teachers, police, shop workers etc.

There is fake profiles and time wasters out there but that's the online community for you.

How would any one recognise you unless you posted a face pic?

Tattoos and distinguishing marks, birthmarks, maybe even recognise surroundings such as your house. Lots of things can give you away."

So many ways you could post pics without being recognised, but each to their own.

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By *ashfulandBullCouple
5 days ago

Gloucester

We've been on here for over a year now. Never met anyone, never set foot out of the door. We've got some photos that not everyone can see.

We believe in saying from the off that we are taking it at our pace. If people don't like our pace we get that. This a journey we're taking and we'll take as long as we need!! We enjoy it still!

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By *haron1701ETV/TS
4 days ago

Southport

"We've been on here for over a year now. Never met anyone, never set foot out of the door. We've got some photos that not everyone can see.

We believe in saying from the off that we are taking it at our pace. If people don't like our pace we get that. This a journey we're taking and we'll take as long as we need!! We enjoy it still! "

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
4 days ago

St Leonards

"We've been on here for over a year now. Never met anyone, never set foot out of the door. We've got some photos that not everyone can see.

We believe in saying from the off that we are taking it at our pace. If people don't like our pace we get that. This a journey we're taking and we'll take as long as we need!! We enjoy it still!

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By *ouple49Couple
4 days ago

Cheshire near Whitchurch, Shropshire

Definitely

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By *ouple49Couple
4 days ago

Cheshire near Whitchurch, Shropshire

"Do the administrators feel that profiles that have been on fabs for over one year and NO meets. Also have no pics on there profile. Or "Will fill in Later" should be removed from Fabs. It’s obvious they are time wasters or fake profiles . "

Best option is for people to routinely block such profiles when they notice them. They are basically just clutter and are not entertaining into the true spirit of the site in any way.

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By *heonixrising500Man
4 days ago

Barnsley

I like many others not interested in public profiles

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By *ilverfox for youMan
4 days ago

Hull

Know how you feel .same here ! I put it down to my age !!!!

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By *uthenticDreamsMan
4 days ago

manchester

Did u put a meet on your Xmas list

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