FabSwingers.com forum: Swing or not...?

By *rx1 OP Couple
over a year ago

Torridge area of Devon

Hello all.

Firstly we think this is a great site, but we do here some some negative comments being made about it..

Such as "being a free site it can and does leaves the site wide open to picture collectors and those that have no intention of actually swinging" (there are lots on here that have been members for over a year, without being verified)..

So do we accept it is not just a swinging site.?

Should people be removed after a fair period of time if they won't or don't meet?

Or just leave it as it is?

This is not a rant or moan, just an observation.

Of course we know we could move to a site that charges silly money (before anyone suggests it)...

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Accept it. There are as many rich idiots on pay sites as there are those on free ones.

Ignore them, concentrate on your own forays and activities and have fun!

Works for most of us!

Good luck!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here to keep in touch with old friends and to have a laugh in the forums. Though I am also on here with my partner we have no intention of playing, we use the site as we see fit and would not like be be removed simply because we didn't have sex with other people.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello all.

Firstly we think this is a great site, but we do here some some negative comments being made about it..

So do we accept it is not just a swinging site.?

Should people be removed after a fair period of time if they won't or don't meet?

Or just leave it as it is?

This is not a rant or moan, just an observation.

Of course we know we could move to a site that charges silly money (before anyone suggests it)...

Yes there are many flakes and fakes here and also on some other paids sites

Use the filters so that only those that are verified and not newbies can message you.

Ensure you have your own methods to " out" your undesirables. For example - people showing validations that they have actually met others.